Do most men prefer Blonde hair?

[Anonymous]

Do you think most men just prefer blonde hair?

I think I look more attractive with brown hair (with highlights), but I get a ridiculous amount more attention with long plat blonde hair.

The attention is both positive & negative.

Positive = Way more men seem to find me attractive, even if my face looks bad. It's like the long, bright blonde hair gives an instant halo effect.

Negative = More aggressive approaches and harassment... people talk down to me and speak to me like I'm a moron. I get zero respect in work environments.

I am turning 30 soon, so I thought I'd revamp my appearance. After months of being platinum blonde (and feeling like I look kind of uglier & more washed out imo), I've concluded that most men prefer blonde hair. I get hit on and approached constantly. Even sitting in a hotel lobby, waiting in line, going to the grocery store or the bank. It seems like men find me way more attractive than before (but I also experience more random aggression and harassment). I can't even go pick up food at a restaurant without getting comments on my appearance.

But looking at old photos, I seriously think I look more attractive as a brunette. So I don't know whether to stay blonde or not.

[Anonymous]

As a man, blondes aren't my thing at all, but I can't speak for other men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you think most men just prefer blonde hair?

I think I look more attractive with brown hair (with highlights), but I get a ridiculous amount more attention with long plat blonde hair.

The attention is both positive & negative.

Positive = Way more men seem to find me attractive, even if my face looks bad. It's like the long, bright blonde hair gives an instant halo effect.

Negative = More aggressive approaches and harassment... people talk down to me and speak to me like I'm a moron. I get zero respect in work environments.

I am turning 30 soon, so I thought I'd revamp my appearance. After months of being platinum blonde (and feeling like I look kind of uglier & more washed out imo), I've concluded that most men prefer blonde hair. I get hit on and approached constantly. Even sitting in a hotel lobby, waiting in line, going to the grocery store or the bank. It seems like men find me way more attractive than before (but I also experience more random aggression and harassment). I can't even go pick up food at a restaurant without getting comments on my appearance.

But looking at old photos, I seriously think I look more attractive as a brunette. So I don't know whether to stay blonde or not.

I mean…I am a brunette and I also got approached constantly in my 20s.

[Anonymous]

What's your goal here? Do you want to feel attractive to men or do you want to look good for yourself?

The former = blonde and the latter = brunette.

[Anonymous]

You don’t want to attract a man who prefers blondes, because then you’ll be chained to dye forever. Find someone who loves your natural color.

[Anonymous]

You could do an experiment for 3-6 months and see if you can really find a high quality guy with blond hair. If you only attract doofuses it’s obviously not worth it.

[Anonymous]

yes, it's attractive. Blonds have more fun, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don’t want to attract a man who prefers blondes, because then you’ll be chained to dye forever. Find someone who loves your natural color.

I have a good friend who used to dye her hair blonde. She did get a lot of attention. A guy I know said that at first glance, she could be considered "pretty" but really looking at her, she wasn't that attractive. I think it is the hair because of the stereotype.

She is now in her 50s and stopped dying her hair. It's a mousy brown.

[Anonymous]

Yes, lots of blondes on the news.

[Anonymous]

I think there are other body parts that men are more interested in and I say that as a blonde.

[Anonymous]

It’s attractive

[Anonymous]

I think healthy hair looks attractive and most dyed blonde hair looks dried out. However I’m not a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think healthy hair looks attractive and most dyed blonde hair looks dried out. However I’m not a man.

Men don't care about dried out looking hair, unless they are gay.

[Anonymous]

Most people look best within about 2 shades frim their natural color, so not surprised it washes you out. Blonde hair that is both bleached platinum and long is also a specific look that I'm sure attracts a lot of attention since it's so unnatural looking and kind of Playboy Bunnyish.

[Anonymous]

Men prefer the carpet to match the drapes.