Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you think most men just prefer blonde hair?
I think I look more attractive with brown hair (with highlights), but I get a ridiculous amount more attention with long plat blonde hair.
The attention is both positive & negative.
Positive = Way more men seem to find me attractive, even if my face looks bad. It's like the long, bright blonde hair gives an instant halo effect.
Negative = More aggressive approaches and harassment... people talk down to me and speak to me like I'm a moron. I get zero respect in work environments.
I am turning 30 soon, so I thought I'd revamp my appearance. After months of being platinum blonde (and feeling like I look kind of uglier & more washed out imo), I've concluded that most men prefer blonde hair. I get hit on and approached constantly. Even sitting in a hotel lobby, waiting in line, going to the grocery store or the bank. It seems like men find me way more attractive than before (but I also experience more random aggression and harassment). I can't even go pick up food at a restaurant without getting comments on my appearance.
But looking at old photos, I seriously think I look more attractive as a brunette. So I don't know whether to stay blonde or not.
I mean…I am a brunette and I also got approached constantly in my 20s.