Stay at Home Girlfriends

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's a terrible waste of years of the girl's life.

Agreed.

Agree… and this is a thought that never occurred to this guy

[Anonymous]

My friend has the sort of arrangement. Has no desire to be married. She is in her mid-thirties and the guy's In his '60s. She was struggling in Boston with a bunch of roommates + he moved her into his place on the West Coast. She seems happy he gives her a weekly allowance. She has saved up a pretty big nest egg. She has no bills. He doesn't want any more children because his kids are grown so she is freezing her eggs to eventually do it on her own

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's a terrible waste of years of the girl's life.

Agreed.

Agree… and this is a thought that never occurred to this guy

Put a ring on it buddy. No woman with self respect would agree otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend has the sort of arrangement. Has no desire to be married. She is in her mid-thirties and the guy's In his '60s. She was struggling in Boston with a bunch of roommates + he moved her into his place on the West Coast. She seems happy he gives her a weekly allowance. She has saved up a pretty big nest egg. She has no bills. He doesn't want any more children because his kids are grown so she is freezing her eggs to eventually do it on her own

If your friend wants kids she should stop wasting her time at mid 30s. Freezing her eggs especially if they aren't fertilized has a low success rate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend has the sort of arrangement. Has no desire to be married. She is in her mid-thirties and the guy's In his '60s. She was struggling in Boston with a bunch of roommates + he moved her into his place on the West Coast. She seems happy he gives her a weekly allowance. She has saved up a pretty big nest egg. She has no bills. He doesn't want any more children because his kids are grown so she is freezing her eggs to eventually do it on her own

If your friend wants kids she should stop wasting her time at mid 30s. Freezing her eggs especially if they aren't fertilized has a low success rate

Agreed. I don't think she believes she's wasting her time. She grew up dirt poor, and for the first time she has some sort of stability. She doesn't worry about bills, she doesn't cook or clean. One big complaint was she thought she would get a break because of his age. She says she can't keep him off of her.

[Anonymous]

No worries op republicans are all on board once Trump is elected and doesn’t leave off after his term ladies your daughters will live like this

But hey it’s your vote

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: I think in the old days they would've called this your mistress. She's there for your needs, but I think you need to pay her more than just give her a place to stay. What you describe is a job especially since you're not planning to ever get married to her

in the old days mistresses would be given expensive jewelry/gifts and a flat or place to live, maybe property of some kind for at least the duration of the relationship and they certainly didnt provide childcare! They would entertain others sometimes and would have an allowance otherwise. Mistress just means a prostitute who is for one man only. Wife means a prostitute for one customer only also but it has some job security and benefits, more like union work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend has the sort of arrangement. Has no desire to be married. She is in her mid-thirties and the guy's In his '60s. She was struggling in Boston with a bunch of roommates + he moved her into his place on the West Coast. She seems happy he gives her a weekly allowance. She has saved up a pretty big nest egg. She has no bills. He doesn't want any more children because his kids are grown so she is freezing her eggs to eventually do it on her own

If your friend wants kids she should stop wasting her time at mid 30s. Freezing her eggs especially if they aren't fertilized has a low success rate

Agreed. I don't think she believes she's wasting her time. She grew up dirt poor, and for the first time she has some sort of stability. She doesn't worry about bills, she doesn't cook or clean. One big complaint was she thought she would get a break because of his age. She says she can't keep him off of her.

So she is a mistress or a sugar baby?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is now a big thing. My question why did it not happen sooner?

Back when I was single many years ago, I had my own apartment and lived alone for 8 years.

One girl I dated was absolutely beautiful and a lot of fun. But not marriage material. At that time she quit work for two years to do grad school, moved home and had no job.

In retrospect she should have been my stay at home girlfriend. I owned a coop with all utilities included so her moving in would cost me zero extra.

I have a beautiful girl to sleep with every night, someone around in case a delivery, someone to eat dinner with and unlimited sex. She would be out of her crappy childhood bedroom and living in a place she could not afford for free.

It all makes perfect sense.

A working girlfriend is just annoying none of money she earns is mine. She is not around when I want to hang out.

My none working GF a few times I had two locks on door. I gave her key to one. She came over 2-3 times after school made dinner, hung out. Put in sexy outfit and I walked home to a great night.

Was I stupid not to make her a live in girlfriend?

I dated girls in investment banking and law and found it very annoying. They were always changing meeting times, stressed from work, not in any mood to relax but none of their money was mine. I was just a BF.

And a stay at home GF tons of benefits too for them.

Am I crazy? But it is all the rage now.

So basically, you're an insecure loser who doesn't want an equal partner. Got it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend has the sort of arrangement. Has no desire to be married. She is in her mid-thirties and the guy's In his '60s. She was struggling in Boston with a bunch of roommates + he moved her into his place on the West Coast. She seems happy he gives her a weekly allowance. She has saved up a pretty big nest egg. She has no bills. He doesn't want any more children because his kids are grown so she is freezing her eggs to eventually do it on her own

If your friend wants kids she should stop wasting her time at mid 30s. Freezing her eggs especially if they aren't fertilized has a low success rate

Agreed. I don't think she believes she's wasting her time. She grew up dirt poor, and for the first time she has some sort of stability. She doesn't worry about bills, she doesn't cook or clean. One big complaint was she thought she would get a break because of his age. She says she can't keep him off of her.

Is he at least fit/attractive or she's tolerating the fat old body?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend has the sort of arrangement. Has no desire to be married. She is in her mid-thirties and the guy's In his '60s. She was struggling in Boston with a bunch of roommates + he moved her into his place on the West Coast. She seems happy he gives her a weekly allowance. She has saved up a pretty big nest egg. She has no bills. He doesn't want any more children because his kids are grown so she is freezing her eggs to eventually do it on her own

If your friend wants kids she should stop wasting her time at mid 30s. Freezing her eggs especially if they aren't fertilized has a low success rate

Agreed. I don't think she believes she's wasting her time. She grew up dirt poor, and for the first time she has some sort of stability. She doesn't worry about bills, she doesn't cook or clean. One big complaint was she thought she would get a break because of his age. She says she can't keep him off of her.

So she is a mistress or a sugar baby?

I guess sugar baby. But when I think of sugar baby I think of rich men and he's not rich. He does well for himself, but He's not a millionaire.

[Anonymous]

So I take it you wouldn't love this woman.

How do you love someone and not want them to do well in life? What happens to them if you break up 20 years later and they are unemployed? What happens to them when they have not worked enough to earn social security or when they have not saved enough for retirement?

How can you be so selfish?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I take it you wouldn't love this woman.

How do you love someone and not want them to do well in life? What happens to them if you break up 20 years later and they are unemployed? What happens to them when they have not worked enough to earn social security or when they have not saved enough for retirement?

How can you be so selfish?

But men are saying they are fine with these GFs working. I presume she’s not building her life around his needs cooking and organizing his schedule or raising kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: I think in the old days they would've called this your mistress. She's there for your needs, but I think you need to pay her more than just give her a place to stay. What you describe is a job especially since you're not planning to ever get married to her

+1. SAHM Girlfriend is definitely not a new trend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I take it you wouldn't love this woman.

How do you love someone and not want them to do well in life? What happens to them if you break up 20 years later and they are unemployed? What happens to them when they have not worked enough to earn social security or when they have not saved enough for retirement?

How can you be so selfish?

But men are saying they are fine with these GFs working. I presume she’s not building her life around his needs cooking and organizing his schedule or raising kids

Um, that's the entire arrangement, obviously. The day these women get a job (in what, retail? food service?) and come home in the evening, same as the guy, and both look at each other like "what's for dinner", is the day these arrangements end.

Saying "I'm Ok if she works" and fully expecting her job to have no impact on his life is like me dropping a ball off a building and expecting gravity not to exist. This is a one-way arrangement for the man, full stop. The day it's anything different is the day she's out on her ass. Ultimately this is more manosphere crap/tradwife nonsense that attempts to dress up exploitation of women as enticing; no woman with other options or intact self-esteem agrees to this (cue the "my girlfriend loves it!" guys. Your girlfriend has nowhere else to go and/or is damaged. The end). OP you have no requirement to be a decent human being, but no one's patting you on the back for taking advantage of vulnerable people. It's bottom-feeder behavior.