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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I take it you wouldn't love this woman. How do you love someone and not want them to do well in life? What happens to them if you break up 20 years later and they are unemployed? What happens to them when they have not worked enough to earn social security or when they have not saved enough for retirement? How can you be so selfish?[/quote] But men are saying they are fine with these GFs working. [b]I presume she’s not building her life around his needs cooking and organizing his schedule or raising kids[/b] [/quote] Um, that's the entire arrangement, obviously. The day these women get a job (in what, retail? food service?) and come home in the evening, same as the guy, and both look at each other like "what's for dinner", is the day these arrangements end. Saying "I'm Ok if she works" and fully expecting her job to have no impact on his life is like me dropping a ball off a building and expecting gravity not to exist. This is a one-way arrangement for the man, full stop. The day it's anything different is the day she's out on her ass. Ultimately this is more manosphere crap/tradwife nonsense that attempts to dress up exploitation of women as enticing; no woman with other options or intact self-esteem agrees to this (cue the "my girlfriend loves it!" guys. Your girlfriend has nowhere else to go and/or is damaged. The end). OP you have no requirement to be a decent human being, but no one's patting you on the back for taking advantage of vulnerable people. It's bottom-feeder behavior. [/quote]
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