Stay at Home Girlfriends

[Anonymous]

Because she thinks he will change his mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found my stay at home gf on seeking the sugar baby page. There was a thread here not too long ago about sugar daddies check it out. We did the sugar thing for a few months but the connection chemistry and sex was great so I upgraded her status and downgraded how much cash I was putting into it (no more allowance but I take care of all her expenses which is barely half of what the allowance was since she lives with me now and doesn’t need to cover her own rent) not just that but instead of twice a week sex (on the arrangement) now I can have twice a day sex when I want. She is caring attentive and a great cook too. Has a decent education and comes across as classy, UMC type not someone I would want to “hide” from family and friends. She knows that I have zero intentions to further upgrade her status to wife

Win win

Does she have any other jobs? Is she currently in graduate school? Does she want a family? What are her future plans? Just curious why an educated young woman is in a futureless relationship and not trying to further a long-term career.

if you come out of your DCUM bubble you would understand that the average person in USA has an income of 50-60k. event most college grad earnings will top out at 80k after decades. that is nothing in DMV vs being the stay at home gf for someone whose income is 500k+. try to put things in perspective. everyone doesn't want to get married and everyone doesn't consider being a gf as a futureless relationship

[Anonymous]

I think in the old days they would've called this your mistress. She's there for your needs, but I think you need to pay her more than just give her a place to stay. What you describe is a job especially since you're not planning to ever get married to her

[Anonymous]

It’s not going to “cost you zero” though, you’ll have to give her money to spend if she has no job. How else will she buy her make up and skincare and Pilates classes and gym membership to keep looking like a 10? Assuming you will have to take her out for dinner and give her grocery money to buy you both groceries too.

[Anonymous]

This is a crappy deal for both parties but to each its own.

[Anonymous]

They existed you just don’t have enough money to get one

[Anonymous]

Why do you assume all women would live with a guy? I wouldn't live with anyone before marriage

[Anonymous]

Didn’t we already see this troll post before?


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[Anonymous]

Jokes on him when she dumps him at the first sign of trouble for greener pastures.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found my stay at home gf on seeking the sugar baby page. There was a thread here not too long ago about sugar daddies check it out. We did the sugar thing for a few months but the connection chemistry and sex was great so I upgraded her status and downgraded how much cash I was putting into it (no more allowance but I take care of all her expenses which is barely half of what the allowance was since she lives with me now and doesn’t need to cover her own rent) not just that but instead of twice a week sex (on the arrangement) now I can have twice a day sex when I want. She is caring attentive and a great cook too. Has a decent education and comes across as classy, UMC type not someone I would want to “hide” from family and friends. She knows that I have zero intentions to further upgrade her status to wife

Win win

Does she have any other jobs? Is she currently in graduate school? Does she want a family? What are her future plans? Just curious why an educated young woman is in a futureless relationship and not trying to further a long-term career.

if you come out of your DCUM bubble you would understand that the average person in USA has an income of 50-60k. event most college grad earnings will top out at 80k after decades. that is nothing in DMV vs being the stay-at-home gf for someone whose income is 500k+. try to put things in perspective. everyone doesn't want to get married and everyone doesn't consider being a gf as a futureless relationship

You're probably a troll but I'll play along. What is her plan when she's 40+, or sooner, when you discard her? Do you fund her 401k and put her on your insurance?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jokes on him when she dumps him at the first sign of trouble for greener pastures.

Not really. It doesn't sound like he values her. He’ll just find another sugar baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jokes on him when she dumps him at the first sign of trouble for greener pastures.

Not really. It doesn't sound like he values her. He’ll just find another sugar baby.

if she dumps me she dumps me. i have no intentions to dump her, she is a keeper. but life happens. you never know.

she is stay at home gf because she wants to be. I never asked her to not have a job or source of income. but it is not my responsibility to fund her retirement and 401k as someone else was asking about

[Anonymous]

Just get a robot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found my stay at home gf on seeking the sugar baby page. There was a thread here not too long ago about sugar daddies check it out. We did the sugar thing for a few months but the connection chemistry and sex was great so I upgraded her status and downgraded how much cash I was putting into it (no more allowance but I take care of all her expenses which is barely half of what the allowance was since she lives with me now and doesn’t need to cover her own rent) not just that but instead of twice a week sex (on the arrangement) now I can have twice a day sex when I want. She is caring attentive and a great cook too. Has a decent education and comes across as classy, UMC type not someone I would want to “hide” from family and friends. She knows that I have zero intentions to further upgrade her status to wife

Win win

Does she have any other jobs? Is she currently in graduate school? Does she want a family? What are her future plans? Just curious why an educated young woman is in a futureless relationship and not trying to further a long-term career.

if you come out of your DCUM bubble you would understand that the average person in USA has an income of 50-60k. event most college grad earnings will top out at 80k after decades. that is nothing in DMV vs being the stay-at-home gf for someone whose income is 500k+. try to put things in perspective. everyone doesn't want to get married and everyone doesn't consider being a gf as a futureless relationship

You're probably a troll but I'll play along. What is her plan when she's 40+, or sooner, when you discard her? Do you fund her 401k and put her on your insurance?

I never asked her to not have a job. its her choice.

It is not my responsibility to fund a 30something year old's 401k just because she is living with me. you call me a troll but your question suggesting I am responsible for her 401k really makes you a troll!

and no, she is not on my insurance. she is a gf not a wife. but I did FULLY pay for her 2024 insurance through the health exchange last November

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found my stay at home gf on seeking the sugar baby page. There was a thread here not too long ago about sugar daddies check it out. We did the sugar thing for a few months but the connection chemistry and sex was great so I upgraded her status and downgraded how much cash I was putting into it (no more allowance but I take care of all her expenses which is barely half of what the allowance was since she lives with me now and doesn’t need to cover her own rent) not just that but instead of twice a week sex (on the arrangement) now I can have twice a day sex when I want. She is caring attentive and a great cook too. Has a decent education and comes across as classy, UMC type not someone I would want to “hide” from family and friends. She knows that I have zero intentions to further upgrade her status to wife

Win win

Does she have any other jobs? Is she currently in graduate school? Does she want a family? What are her future plans? Just curious why an educated young woman is in a futureless relationship and not trying to further a long-term career.

if you come out of your DCUM bubble you would understand that the average person in USA has an income of 50-60k. event most college grad earnings will top out at 80k after decades. that is nothing in DMV vs being the stay-at-home gf for someone whose income is 500k+. try to put things in perspective. everyone doesn't want to get married and everyone doesn't consider being a gf as a futureless relationship

You're probably a troll but I'll play along. What is her plan when she's 40+, or sooner, when you discard her? Do you fund her 401k and put her on your insurance?

I never asked her to not have a job. its her choice.

It is not my responsibility to fund a 30something year old's 401k just because she is living with me. you call me a troll but your question suggesting I am responsible for her 401k really makes you a troll!

and no, she is not on my insurance. she is a gf not a wife. but I did FULLY pay for her 2024 insurance through the health exchange last November

I understand your position, not hers. I also get not wanting to get married or have her own kids, but what about financial security? She’s unconcerned about her future? Or does she think you're actually going to marry her?