Summer plans

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Anonymous wrote:75k for us . Trust the process

How many kids do you have? I have two and they both ride and show horses (well, ponies), and we have a summer nanny. I feel like we'll spend close to that but it is insane to me and I don't know anyone else doing that. What are your kids doing?!?

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$7500 for 2 elementary aged kids for us. 7 weeks of camp (including 1 week of sleepaway for the older one).

2 weeks "grandma camp" and 1 week family vacation.

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Anonymous wrote:My kid hates camp. I guess I should be happy that we are not spending money.

I have a job so my kids are not allowed to hate camp.

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Anonymous wrote:$3,600 for one kid. I can't imagine the numbers y'all are throwing around.

Same , we are spending about 3700 for one kid for 8 weeks of camp plus a bus for two of the weeks. They are all day camps so no sleep away camps and no nanny. We just pay for after care at camp.

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Anonymous wrote:Two kids at home all summer. Zero camps. I am a SAHM. Kids are 11 and 14. 5th summer in a row now.

Yup. Paying for a pool membership and doing day trips to things that are free.

Sounds boring AF for that 14 year old to spend their fifth summer in a row with nothing to do but hang with their mom doing the same crap they’ve done the last four summers.

What 14-year-old would want to be in a day camp instead of hanging out at the pool with their friends

+1 My kid has scheduled activities all the school year. During summers they are only required to keep up with instrument and accelerated math practice and both activities can be done at home in their PJs. They dont have to do camps and classes if they don't want to. And most of the time they don't want that.

Great example of the unlimited screen time mentality I see all the time.

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Anonymous wrote:Two kids at home all summer. Zero camps. I am a SAHM. Kids are 11 and 14. 5th summer in a row now.

Yup. Paying for a pool membership and doing day trips to things that are free.

Sounds boring AF for that 14 year old to spend their fifth summer in a row with nothing to do but hang with their mom doing the same crap they’ve done the last four summers.

What 14-year-old would want to be in a day camp instead of hanging out at the pool with their friends

+1 My kid has scheduled activities all the school year. During summers they are only required to keep up with instrument and accelerated math practice and both activities can be done at home in their PJs. They dont have to do camps and classes if they don't want to. And most of the time they don't want that.

Great example of the unlimited screen time mentality I see all the time.

NP. You’re not good at critical thinking.

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Anonymous wrote:Two kids at home all summer. Zero camps. I am a SAHM. Kids are 11 and 14. 5th summer in a row now.

Yup. Paying for a pool membership and doing day trips to things that are free.

Sounds boring AF for that 14 year old to spend their fifth summer in a row with nothing to do but hang with their mom doing the same crap they’ve done the last four summers.

What 14-year-old would want to be in a day camp instead of hanging out at the pool with their friends

+1 My kid has scheduled activities all the school year. During summers they are only required to keep up with instrument and accelerated math practice and both activities can be done at home in their PJs. They dont have to do camps and classes if they don't want to. And most of the time they don't want that.

Great example of the unlimited screen time mentality I see all the time.

Great example of a typical DCUM wanker who thinks that a kid who isnt in structure activities 24/7 will be killed by a screen. That post didnt even mention screens!

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Holy crap some of you are spending more on camps this summer than I spent on a year of college (in 1992)

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Anonymous wrote:75k for us . Trust the process

Wow! What does this include?

It includes their children not living at their home for most of the summer. Not what I have in mind.

Don’t be jealous

NP. The pricey sleepaway camps are like $15-16K for 7 to 8 weeks. Even if the PP is doing that for all three of her DCs. that's more like 50k. I'm curious about the 75k too!

I work full-time...

My 10 yo DD (rising 5th grader) will be doing 4 weeks of sleepaway camp (which she looooooooooooooooooves to the point of being somewhat obsessed with) for $7,500, and then three weeks of a park district swim + art camp for $1,200.

My 6 yo DD (rising 1st grader) will be doing 6 weeks of a private day camp (which she looooooved last year) for $6,000. I realize that this is ridiculously expensive for day camp, but it includes round trip bus transportation that picks up/drops off at our front door, and those bus trips essentially double as before and aftercare (day is from 8:45 to 4:30 with bus) which is enough coverage for us. She also gets daily swim instruction and daily free swim period, a very small camper group, tons of fun specialty activities, outside vendors who come do performances and activities, use of beautiful grounds and outdoor spaces, etc. She will have several good friends in her camper group.

Remaining weeks will be some nothing-fancy travel (drive to rented beach house with cousins), some time spent at pool or outings with either myself or DH who will each take some days off, and also some days entertaining themselves at home while I WFH.

If you are in the DC area can you share the name of the day camp your younger daughter loves? We pay like $550 per kid a week for a camp that my kids are kind of meh about and no transportation. Would be willing to pay more if they really loved it.

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Anonymous wrote:75k for us . Trust the process

Wow! What does this include?

It includes their children not living at their home for most of the summer. Not what I have in mind.

Don’t be jealous

NP. The pricey sleepaway camps are like $15-16K for 7 to 8 weeks. Even if the PP is doing that for all three of her DCs. that's more like 50k. I'm curious about the 75k too!

I work full-time...

My 10 yo DD (rising 5th grader) will be doing 4 weeks of sleepaway camp (which she looooooooooooooooooves to the point of being somewhat obsessed with) for $7,500, and then three weeks of a park district swim + art camp for $1,200.

My 6 yo DD (rising 1st grader) will be doing 6 weeks of a private day camp (which she looooooved last year) for $6,000. I realize that this is ridiculously expensive for day camp, but it includes round trip bus transportation that picks up/drops off at our front door, and those bus trips essentially double as before and aftercare (day is from 8:45 to 4:30 with bus) which is enough coverage for us. She also gets daily swim instruction and daily free swim period, a very small camper group, tons of fun specialty activities, outside vendors who come do performances and activities, use of beautiful grounds and outdoor spaces, etc. She will have several good friends in her camper group.

Remaining weeks will be some nothing-fancy travel (drive to rented beach house with cousins), some time spent at pool or outings with either myself or DH who will each take some days off, and also some days entertaining themselves at home while I WFH.

If you are in the DC area can you share the name of the day camp your younger daughter loves? We pay like $550 per kid a week for a camp that my kids are kind of meh about and no transportation. Would be willing to pay more if they really loved it.

Sorry...I'm in the Chicago suburbs.

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Two weeks of camp in DC; $800
8 weeks of camp in foreign country: $2400
Flights/lodging: $7000 (but rent out our place so let’s say $3500ish)

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Anonymous wrote:Two kids at home all summer. Zero camps. I am a SAHM. Kids are 11 and 14. 5th summer in a row now.

Yup. Paying for a pool membership and doing day trips to things that are free.

Sounds boring AF for that 14 year old to spend their fifth summer in a row with nothing to do but hang with their mom doing the same crap they’ve done the last four summers.

What 14-year-old would want to be in a day camp instead of hanging out at the pool with their friends

+1 My kid has scheduled activities all the school year. During summers they are only required to keep up with instrument and accelerated math practice and both activities can be done at home in their PJs. They dont have to do camps and classes if they don't want to. And most of the time they don't want that.

Great example of the unlimited screen time mentality I see all the time.

Great example of a typical DCUM wanker who thinks that a kid who isnt in structure activities 24/7 will be killed by a screen. That post didnt even mention screens!

At least you don't bother to deny it.

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Eight weeks of camps for one child over here. No after care so she will go for six hours per day and be on her iPad later afternoon while I finish work (at home). She will be home for three weeks and I will have to wing it. I’m low income and newly divorced (her father does not see much of her and lives out of state). It is a huge struggle but what else can one do?

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Anonymous wrote:We're spending over $23,000 on camp for three kids.

What did you expect with three?

It can be done with half the cost. County Rec camps are good and are closer to $400 a week for 9-4 coverage.

This is the first summer I've seriously looked into camp (prior summers we either had a nanny or a WFH parent) and I was cringing at spending $300/week/kid for 9-3 coverage - I don't need quite full time. Feel better about that now.

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Anonymous wrote:Holy crap some of you are spending more on camps this summer than I spent on a year of college (in 1992)

I'm one of those, and it's more than I spent on college too!