Engagement ring - what’s the perfect size?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you have an anorexic girl 0.5 carats will work, small girl 1 carat, plump 1.5, heifer 2.0, whale 2.5, elephant 3

Although you are very rude sadly you are right. Size it to the woman. Larger and taller women need bigger.

[Anonymous]

Lately I have been gravitating back to my original e-ring--a 3.8 carat cushion cut round solitaire cathedral set in platinum. I've seen so many ovals and pear stones lately that the round feels fresh again.

[Anonymous]

I have a small solitaire (don’t know the size but it’s very subtle) and it’s just right for me. I tend to be sporty and not wear much makeup or jewelry. Also DH was in graduate school snd I’d just finished when we got married so it made sense not to get something bigger.

[Anonymous]

2ct minimum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lab diamonds are going to be the death of natural diamonds. Because they are chemically, physically, and optically identical to natural stones (i.e. they are real diamonds) and can be had for a fraction of the price, lab diamonds are eroding the prestige that many have historically associated with having a big rock. When the masses can buy a 2 - 3 ct high quality stone for $1,000 - $2,000, the elites will begin to gravitate to other, rarer gems.

Lol fake

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Other than the one that fits, obviously - I feel like 0.75-1 ct is a great size. Mine is 0.8 and I can’t imagine wearing anything bigger. Have worn almost daily for 19 years.

+1 but 27 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For everyday wear, .5 - 1 carat is ideal. Anything larger looks ostentatious and gets in the way or snags on things. Save a larger stone for special occasions. Also, whatever you choose, make sure you have the prongs checked every year or so. The diamond fell out of my mother’s engagement ring due to a faulty prong.

My mom lost her original (probably near the kitchen sink). And many years later, a cubic zirconia (while chopping wood). She gave up. Diamonds. Not chores.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lab diamonds are going to be the death of natural diamonds. Because they are chemically, physically, and optically identical to natural stones (i.e. they are real diamonds) and can be had for a fraction of the price, lab diamonds are eroding the prestige that many have historically associated with having a big rock. When the masses can buy a 2 - 3 ct high quality stone for $1,000 - $2,000, the elites will begin to gravitate to other, rarer gems.

I agree with this. It no longer shows that hubby blew the price of a small car on your rock.

[Anonymous]

Go big or go home…

[Anonymous]

mine is 1.32 carats and it's great for me

[Anonymous]

Somewhere between .8-1.5, depending on finger size and hands

[Anonymous]

I mean the perfect size is what you like on your finger and combined with what you can afford. You want a big stone and it's in the budget, great. You want a plain band with no stone, great. It's your finger, your engagement. You do you.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the person. I had a more traditional setting with large sapphire ann cathedral diamond setting and it gets in the way. I bought an inexpensive art deco ring a few years ago on a whim with a bezel set center (.65 ish) but more elaborate setting around it and I love it. It sits flat on my finger but has an interesting shape and doesn’t look like everyone else’s. However at 30 I probably wanted the more traditional ring look. I don’t like solitaires on me though.

Lab diamond have changed things too. You can get a high quality/specs 2 ct for 2k.

[Anonymous]

If OP is still looking...Ask a jeweler/jewelry salesperson. And involve your fiancee, but if you simply MUST have a ring already bought when you propose and won't take her ring shopping with you, well, ask a jeweler. You will get answers all day long here, and each will be entirely individual and based on that person's experience, which is not your fiancee's. An experienced jewelry salesperson or jeweler (they're not the same thing, necessarily) will ask the right questions. And before someone chimes in to say, "But a jeweler will want to up-sell you to a bigger, more expensive stone!" -- Some will, but a good jeweler who wants your return business, won't. Source: My brother owned a jewelry business for decades and has sold more engagement rings than you can imagine. He'd always prefer that the couple shop together because so often the woman would pick something that the man wouldn't have imagined she'd want (different setting, stone, size, not a diamond, etc.).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love my 1.5c round diamond with solitaire setting. It fits perfectly for my petite had and is timeless.

Agree single solitaire cut and platinum band is classic, showcases the diamond week, versatile/ functional and easy to clean. I don’t have to take it off to do things - exercise, travel, sunscreen up the kids, etc.

Plus it can be dressed up later as it “matches” well with other wedding bands (though I have a simple narrow matching platinum band), a channel setting eternity band, and etc.

Really? you don't take your ring off to exercise?