Bisexual men married to a woman

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hey yall, I just recently informed my wife of 42 years I’m bisexual, wow, she took it quite well. She is my life but I would like to experience what I feel after all these years. What do yall say…

If she is fine with it and you aren’t sexually actively and putting her life at risk - sure. You assume the risk - don’t expose her.

He's putting her life more at risk by driving her to the grocery store more than he's putting her life at risk having protected sex with a disease free male partner.

I would never put her at risk, we’ve been together to long and my love for her is the same today as it was when we first met.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey yall, I just recently informed my wife of 42 years I’m bisexual, wow, she took it quite well. She is my life but I would like to experience what I feel after all these years. What do yall say…

If she is fine with it and you aren’t sexually actively and putting her life at risk - sure. You assume the risk - don’t expose her.

She knew of my teen days when bunch of us guys went to the beach or lake for the weekend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband’s bisexuality is the reason I married him. I find it incredibly attractive.

Gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes and yes. Hard to imagine being satisfied without my wife knowing such a significant detail about me. No real desire to have sex outside of our relationship, but the real issues is finding ways to feel a connection to that part of myself being in a committed straight relationship.

Also, queer spaces have become sort of overrun as the LGBTQ tent has gotten bigger (which I think is a good thing, overall!), but it's hard to not feel like an intruder when you are not visibly queer. Maybe I am overthinking it?

Queer spaces? WTF are those? Liberace Museum, Elton John concert?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey yall, I just recently informed my wife of 42 years I’m bisexual, wow, she took it quite well. She is my life but I would like to experience what I feel after all these years. What do yall say…

If she is fine with it and you aren’t sexually actively and putting her life at risk - sure. You assume the risk - don’t expose her.

He's putting her life more at risk by driving her to the grocery store more than he's putting her life at risk having protected sex with a disease free male partner.

I would never put her at risk, we’ve been together to long and my love for her is the same today as it was when we first met.

But you would. You have no guarantee whoever you hook up with is STD free. Given her age, she likely hasn’t had the HPV vaccine. There are no guarantees so regardless of how careful you are, you can only control for so much and there is always a risk if you are still having sex with her and other men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey yall, I just recently informed my wife of 42 years I’m bisexual, wow, she took it quite well. She is my life but I would like to experience what I feel after all these years. What do yall say…

If she is fine with it and you aren’t sexually actively and putting her life at risk - sure. You assume the risk - don’t expose her.

He's putting her life more at risk by driving her to the grocery store more than he's putting her life at risk having protected sex with a disease free male partner.

I would never put her at risk, we’ve been together to long and my love for her is the same today as it was when we first met.

But you would. You have no guarantee whoever you hook up with is STD free. Given her age, she likely hasn’t had the HPV vaccine. There are no guarantees so regardless of how careful you are, you can only control for so much and there is always a risk if you are still having sex with her and other men.

Yeah I do know who I’m hooking up with and it’s all good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey yall, I just recently informed my wife of 42 years I’m bisexual, wow, she took it quite well. She is my life but I would like to experience what I feel after all these years. What do yall say…

If she is fine with it and you aren’t sexually actively and putting her life at risk - sure. You assume the risk - don’t expose her.

He's putting her life more at risk by driving her to the grocery store more than he's putting her life at risk having protected sex with a disease free male partner.

I would never put her at risk, we’ve been together to long and my love for her is the same today as it was when we first met.

But you would. You have no guarantee whoever you hook up with is STD free. Given her age, she likely hasn’t had the HPV vaccine. There are no guarantees so regardless of how careful you are, you can only control for so much and there is always a risk if you are still having sex with her and other men.

Most adults that age have already been exposed to HPV. There's a reason they don't give the vaccine to older people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey yall, I just recently informed my wife of 42 years I’m bisexual, wow, she took it quite well. She is my life but I would like to experience what I feel after all these years. What do yall say…

If she is fine with it and you aren’t sexually actively and putting her life at risk - sure. You assume the risk - don’t expose her.

He's putting her life more at risk by driving her to the grocery store more than he's putting her life at risk having protected sex with a disease free male partner.

I would never put her at risk, we’ve been together to long and my love for her is the same today as it was when we first met.

But you would. You have no guarantee whoever you hook up with is STD free. Given her age, she likely hasn’t had the HPV vaccine. There are no guarantees so regardless of how careful you are, you can only control for so much and there is always a risk if you are still having sex with her and other men.

Most adults that age have already been exposed to HPV. There's a reason they don't give the vaccine to older people.

Not those that have been in a monogamous relationship for most their life. I’m outside the recommended age range but my doctor recommended I still get the vaccine when my husband cheated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband’s bisexuality is the reason I married him. I find it incredibly attractive.

Same here, it’s refreshing to have a spouse that has a soft side. Hubs is very much a man, but with a soft side. He’s the head of our household, he cooks, cleans and is a great provider for our family. He’s active in our community, and church. He coaches our children’s sports teams, and the soccer mom’s flirt with him. It’s fun to watch. Our sex life is off the charts, I can’t even begin to describe having two men and the pleasure enjoyed. Guess I’m wired differently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband’s bisexuality is the reason I married him. I find it incredibly attractive.

Same here, it’s refreshing to have a spouse that has a soft side. Hubs is very much a man, but with a soft side. He’s the head of our household, he cooks, cleans and is a great provider for our family. He’s active in our community, and church. He coaches our children’s sports teams, and the soccer mom’s flirt with him. It’s fun to watch. Our sex life is off the charts, I can’t even begin to describe having two men and the pleasure enjoyed. Guess I’m wired differently.

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey yall, I just recently informed my wife of 42 years I’m bisexual, wow, she took it quite well. She is my life but I would like to experience what I feel after all these years. What do yall say…

If she is fine with it and you aren’t sexually actively and putting her life at risk - sure. You assume the risk - don’t expose her.

She knew of my teen days when bunch of us guys went to the beach or lake for the weekend.

Tell about this, please.