Height and money

[Anonymous]

I feel like you've seen one too many tiktoks like the one where the mediocre woman with the slightly deep voice says she wants an $80K engagement ring. Most women are not like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What woman in DC wants a dude who makes $180K?

Tbh I do care about money, because I live in DC and want kids. I do not care about height. I once dated a guy who was roughly the same height as me, but he was very ambitious and wanted a family, two things I think are more important than height.

What happened to him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What woman in DC wants a dude who makes $180K?

Tbh I do care about money, because I live in DC and want kids. I do not care about height. I once dated a guy who was roughly the same height as me, but he was very ambitious and wanted a family, two things I think are more important than height.

What happened to him?

He turned out to be kind of a jerk so we broke up. But it had nothing to do with his height or income, because I was fine with both. What I was not fine with was how controlling he was.

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand why you think there’s something attractive about struggling to make rent or never owning a home or not being able to send your kids to college debt free. What about that do you expect women to find attractive? Women already take the financial hit of any kids the couple has.

As for height, Tom Cruise seems to do just fine. No one is kicking Daniel Craig out of bed. Hand wringing about the plight of short men is just the security blanket of unattractive (in looks or personality) men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you think there’s something attractive about struggling to make rent or never owning a home or not being able to send your kids to college debt free. What about that do you expect women to find attractive? Women already take the financial hit of any kids the couple has.

As for height, Tom Cruise seems to do just fine. No one is kicking Daniel Craig out of bed. Hand wringing about the plight of short men is just the security blanket of unattractive (in looks or personality) men.

I am a successful woman with a lot of money. My children will never have to worry about money, so I don't need to marry a man with money. My DH is a tall, handsome, and very intelligent man, and he is "broke" (Stanford graduate). He is a SAHD, very engaging in the lives of our kids, and I am very grateful for that. I want our kids to be tall, handsome and interesting just like DH. If DH leaves me tomorrow, he will have no problem hooking up with someone better than I am; however, I can not say the same for me. Tall, handsome and intelligent men are very rare, while women with money are dime and dozens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've never made more than 150k and I've had my pick of the litter my entire life. The only women that care about money are skanks and easy to spot.

Woman here. This is brash, but honestly, I would avoid women who are obsessed with money and "things", or think that one has to own certain "things" by a certain age, for example. In other words, I would simply avoid shallow people - I would also tell (the person who tends to try to sniff out money) to get a better paying job, themselves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'0" and I won't date guys over 6'. Money is good though.

Don't worry. A man 6' with money won't date you.

Dp. If you are petite and hot like me they will. Had a ltr with a few already. But I also date over 6ft.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you think there’s something attractive about struggling to make rent or never owning a home or not being able to send your kids to college debt free. What about that do you expect women to find attractive? Women already take the financial hit of any kids the couple has.

As for height, Tom Cruise seems to do just fine. No one is kicking Daniel Craig out of bed. Hand wringing about the plight of short men is just the security blanket of unattractive (in looks or personality) men.

I am a successful woman with a lot of money. My children will never have to worry about money, so I don't need to marry a man with money. My DH is a tall, handsome, and very intelligent man, and he is "broke" (Stanford graduate). He is a SAHD, very engaging in the lives of our kids, and I am very grateful for that. I want our kids to be tall, handsome and interesting just like DH. If DH leaves me tomorrow, he will have no problem hooking up with someone better than I am; however, I can not say the same for me. Tall, handsome and intelligent men are very rare, while women with money are dime and dozens.

Unemployed men are plentiful, I’m sure you’ll do just fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you think there’s something attractive about struggling to make rent or never owning a home or not being able to send your kids to college debt free. What about that do you expect women to find attractive? Women already take the financial hit of any kids the couple has.

As for height, Tom Cruise seems to do just fine. No one is kicking Daniel Craig out of bed. Hand wringing about the plight of short men is just the security blanket of unattractive (in looks or personality) men.

I am a successful woman with a lot of money. My children will never have to worry about money, so I don't need to marry a man with money. My DH is a tall, handsome, and very intelligent man, and he is "broke" (Stanford graduate). He is a SAHD, very engaging in the lives of our kids, and I am very grateful for that. I want our kids to be tall, handsome and interesting just like DH. If DH leaves me tomorrow, he will have no problem hooking up with someone better than I am; however, I can not say the same for me. Tall, handsome and intelligent men are very rare, while women with money are dime and dozens.

Unemployed men are plentiful, I’m sure you’ll do just fine.

My DH is not unemployed. He is a professional golfer, but he barely makes money to cover his traveling expenses, let alone providing for the family. I have generational wealth to support DH and our kids, so he can pursue his passion without worrying about money. Yes, he is "broke" but he is a lot more interesting than guys with money. I am very lucky to be married to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you think there’s something attractive about struggling to make rent or never owning a home or not being able to send your kids to college debt free. What about that do you expect women to find attractive? Women already take the financial hit of any kids the couple has.

As for height, Tom Cruise seems to do just fine. No one is kicking Daniel Craig out of bed. Hand wringing about the plight of short men is just the security blanket of unattractive (in looks or personality) men.

I am a successful woman with a lot of money. My children will never have to worry about money, so I don't need to marry a man with money. My DH is a tall, handsome, and very intelligent man, and he is "broke" (Stanford graduate). He is a SAHD, very engaging in the lives of our kids, and I am very grateful for that. I want our kids to be tall, handsome and interesting just like DH. If DH leaves me tomorrow, he will have no problem hooking up with someone better than I am; however, I can not say the same for me. Tall, handsome and intelligent men are very rare, while women with money are dime and dozens.

Unemployed men are plentiful, I’m sure you’ll do just fine.

My DH is not unemployed. He is a professional golfer, but he barely makes money to cover his traveling expenses, let alone providing for the family. I have generational wealth to support DH and our kids, so he can pursue his passion without worrying about money. Yes, he is "broke" but he is a lot more interesting than guys with money. I am very lucky to be married to him.

I thought he was a SAHD?

In any event— men who want to “follow their passion” are plentiful. I don’t think you need to worry that you wouldn’t find the equivalent if you broke up.