Height and money

[Anonymous]

It' primal and while it might have diminished over the last few decades, in general many women still want strong men. Tall frequently equates to strong.

[Anonymous]

Don’t be naive. You think men don’t care about height? Ask a 6’+ woman.

Women - like height & net worth greater than their own.

Men - like height & weight smaller than their own.

There are also features to consider - men like feminine features, women like masculine. Thinning hair & strong noses are ok on men, not women. Weak chins & small features are ok on women, not men.

These are gross generalizations of course, but I think that is what OP is asking about.

Women don’t have it any easier than men. They are both at the mercy of certain characteristics that are out of their control.

[Anonymous]

Really, I hope for heavens sake that women have moved beyond this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you think women care about height and money more than men? I have heard women proudly and openly say a want a man at least 6’0 and who makes at least 100k (I am being generous here more like $180k to be honest). Why do women care so much more about height and money compared to men?

I am a guy and I can answer the money part. The answer is simple. Women are smart period! A woman will not get involved with a broke guy just because he is “hot”. A man on the other hand the idiot will go ahead and hand his credit card to a “hot” chick to go spend without limits.

My ex was a millionaire attractive and 'only' 5'11. Together 8 yrs. I'm opening up my dating circle to include hot men be it any profession or salary and preferably attractive guys who are younger than me. The jealous ageists don't believe I look young for my age online but medical professionals have told me otherwise who have seen me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think this is a teen thing, early 20s max and a passing trend. Who else would be impressed by either of those metrics.

Are you kidding? In my teens, I did not care about money or height. I mean no one wants a complete broke guy but I didn’t care about how much money the guy had. It was his family’s money and I wasn’t looking for marriage or stability as a teen. Ironically a broke guy who lived in a tiny apartment broke my heart and I broke the heart of a guy whose parents were extremely rich who lived in a mansion with servant quarters. The poor guy was average height and the rich guy was tall, 6’3”.

As you get older, you may think about having a family and if the guy can provide you with a nice home. 180k is rock bottom of even affording to buy a home at all. If you want a decent lifestyle, I would say minimum 300k, more like 500k, definitely not the 100k in the OP.

This. Money is way more important than height.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men can rarely be too tall or too rich in my experience.

I dated a guy who was 6’3” and it was too tall. We didn’t line up. I had to stand on a stair to kiss him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think this is a teen thing, early 20s max and a passing trend. Who else would be impressed by either of those metrics.

Are you kidding? In my teens, I did not care about money or height. I mean no one wants a complete broke guy but I didn’t care about how much money the guy had. It was his family’s money and I wasn’t looking for marriage or stability as a teen. Ironically a broke guy who lived in a tiny apartment broke my heart and I broke the heart of a guy whose parents were extremely rich who lived in a mansion with servant quarters. The poor guy was average height and the rich guy was tall, 6’3”.

As you get older, you may think about having a family and if the guy can provide you with a nice home. 180k is rock bottom of even affording to buy a home at all. If you want a decent lifestyle, I would say minimum 300k, more like 500k, definitely not the 100k in the OP.

This. Money is way more important than height.

I am not so sure about the money. I am 5'10" and I was a "broke" musician when I met my wife. She is 5'8", who graduated from Ivy and works for Blackstone, with a trust fund on top of that. She told me that she was attracted to me because she found me to be, in her own words, "captivating", with "gravitas", and I am good-looking. She does not care if I am broke. My wife told me that I am much more interesting than all of her wealthy co-workers and that she won a lifetime lottery when she married me. I am a SAHM and I do nothing but taking our kids to school, go to the gym, pickup kids after school, teach my kids music, groceries shopping, etc... Women still hit me up from time to time at Whole Food. Women with money don't look for guys with money, they look for good-looking dudes who are captivating. YMMV.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think this is a teen thing, early 20s max and a passing trend. Who else would be impressed by either of those metrics.

Are you kidding? In my teens, I did not care about money or height. I mean no one wants a complete broke guy but I didn’t care about how much money the guy had. It was his family’s money and I wasn’t looking for marriage or stability as a teen. Ironically a broke guy who lived in a tiny apartment broke my heart and I broke the heart of a guy whose parents were extremely rich who lived in a mansion with servant quarters. The poor guy was average height and the rich guy was tall, 6’3”.

As you get older, you may think about having a family and if the guy can provide you with a nice home. 180k is rock bottom of even affording to buy a home at all. If you want a decent lifestyle, I would say minimum 300k, more like 500k, definitely not the 100k in the OP.

This. Money is way more important than height.

I am not so sure about the money. I am 5'10" and I was a "broke" musician when I met my wife. She is 5'8", who graduated from Ivy and works for Blackstone, with a trust fund on top of that. She told me that she was attracted to me because she found me to be, in her own words, "captivating", with "gravitas", and I am good-looking. She does not care if I am broke. My wife told me that I am much more interesting than all of her wealthy co-workers and that she won a lifetime lottery when she married me. I am a SAHM and I do nothing but taking our kids to school, go to the gym, pickup kids after school, teach my kids music, groceries shopping, etc... Women still hit me up from time to time at Whole Food. Women with money don't look for guys with money, they look for good-looking dudes who are captivating. YMMV.

Very good points. Most men are boring (me included) and the men with interesting things (such as musical talent) about them will always get ahead of the line.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really, I hope for heavens sake that women have moved beyond this.

Why?

Do you also hope that men move beyond desiring hotness and beauty?

[Anonymous]

I've never made more than 150k and I've had my pick of the litter my entire life. The only women that care about money are skanks and easy to spot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you think women care about height and money more than men? I have heard women proudly and openly say a want a man at least 6’0 and who makes at least 100k (I am being generous here more like $180k to be honest). Why do women care so much more about height and money compared to men?

I can't answer the money question because no one I know talks or thinks about relationships and money like the people here on dcum. Noone I know married for money or is gold digger.

However, I'm a short woman, 5 foot 3. I only dated, and married, a man well over 6 feet. At this age of my life, with wisdom and hindsight, I can tell you it's because I've always been a little bit heavy/overweight (15-20 pounds). And I never wanted to date a man who weighed less than I did or made me feel fat. That's my truth

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've never made more than 150k and I've had my pick of the litter my entire life. The only women that care about money are skanks and easy to spot.

Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Re height.…evolutionary psychology theories suggest that women may find taller men attractive due to cultural and evolutionary factors. Height can be associated with strength, protection, and dominance, which historically may have been advantageous traits for survival and reproduction. Also, cultural norms and media representations often portray taller men as more desirable, which can influence individual preferences.

Height = masculine
money = security
Curves in the right places = feminine
Long hair = feminine

Men want curvy but not fat women with long hair; women want tall men who make good money.

Not complicated, but a generalization, to be sure.

[Anonymous]

I never had to think about height as I knew only one man barely shorter than I growing up in the old country. We are definitely in top 10 tallest nationalities.
The height need was never as pressing as the need for money as everything is expensive here.
Now that I have my own money, I can concentrate on finding love. The love of my life is 3 inches shorter than I. Normal height in his country for a man and normal height in my country for a woman.
I met so many losers when I was younger. The height and money were the least of the problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think this is a teen thing, early 20s max and a passing trend. Who else would be impressed by either of those metrics.

Are you kidding? In my teens, I did not care about money or height. I mean no one wants a complete broke guy but I didn’t care about how much money the guy had. It was his family’s money and I wasn’t looking for marriage or stability as a teen. Ironically a broke guy who lived in a tiny apartment broke my heart and I broke the heart of a guy whose parents were extremely rich who lived in a mansion with servant quarters. The poor guy was average height and the rich guy was tall, 6’3”.

As you get older, you may think about having a family and if the guy can provide you with a nice home. 180k is rock bottom of even affording to buy a home at all. If you want a decent lifestyle, I would say minimum 300k, more like 500k, definitely not the 100k in the OP.

This. Money is way more important than height.

I am not so sure about the money. I am 5'10" and I was a "broke" musician when I met my wife. She is 5'8", who graduated from Ivy and works for Blackstone, with a trust fund on top of that. She told me that she was attracted to me because she found me to be, in her own words, "captivating", with "gravitas", and I am good-looking. She does not care if I am broke. My wife told me that I am much more interesting than all of her wealthy co-workers and that she won a lifetime lottery when she married me. I am a SAHM and I do nothing but taking our kids to school, go to the gym, pickup kids after school, teach my kids music, groceries shopping, etc... Women still hit me up from time to time at Whole Food. Women with money don't look for guys with money, they look for good-looking dudes who are captivating. YMMV.

dp.. she doesn't care if you're broke because she has her own money and comes from money, so that doesn't really count since the vast majority of women aren't in her position.

Women hit on you because you are good looking. They are looking for fun, not a partner to raise their children.