Do you sext?

[Anonymous]

I work in the legal field and will not send photos of myself via email, text m, or on socials that I am not okay sharing with everyone I know.

[Anonymous]

It my husband.

[Anonymous]

Not*

[Anonymous]

no way. i like to do all my dirty talk in person

[Anonymous]

I’ve had two female medical doctors in the DMV send me pictures, and one of the two sent also several videos.

Let’s just say that they both got their intended message across.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

DH, no. AP, yes.

A potential gold mine for your DH's divorce attorney or your AP's DW's attorney.

Sexting between single people - no one's business. Sexting between married people and their APs - $$$$$$ for the family law practice.

$$$$$$$ with limited results outside of blackmailing into a better settlement. You need actual proof of two-person sex (like a video of you both together), plus hours of depositions to prove adultery in court (that’s $$$$$$ to your lawyer, plus $$$$$ to your spouse’s lawyer). Plus more depositions and evidence and $$$$$ to defend the pictured spouse’s counter claim of cruelty that drove him or her to take the pictures. Not pictures of his ding dong and different pictures of her hoo ha with corresponding “that’s so hot” texts in between.

And even if you prove it, and the judge cares, it’s only helpful for 2) getting divorced immediately (which you likely don’t need because you have spent a year in pre-trial crap, and 2) for an adjustment to the division of assets. So now you get 60 percent of the marital assets that are reduced by the six figures that you two spent getting a fault divorce.

You still shouldn’t sext for other reasons, but you can’t just roll up into court and show the judge some pictures, have him/her be like “ok, you get everything!” the way DCUM likes to pretend.

No. That’s a fallacy. You do not need a pornographic photo of then or even them kissing. The admissions I had via email and text were enough. VA

You recently litigated and won a fault divorce in northern Virginia where the only proof of the affair was email and text?

Or there was a settlement agreement of some sort?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have, with a previous boyfriend and when that relationship failed, my ex sent it along to mutual contacts. It was really traumatic.

I told my current boyfriend about it and why I will never do it again, and he is really put out that I did it with someone else but not him. Like he pesters me several times a week.

I’m thinking I might be done with men.

But if you have never done it, my advice is to not start.

I told by boyfriend, “At MY age, I want you … no, I NEED you to distribute these images to at least five of your friends.”

He never did.

When I was a girl I wanted to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated. Now it will never happen; Now I have to pray for a photo leak or vengeful ex lover.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I work in the legal field and will not send photos of myself via email, text m, or on socials that I am not okay sharing with everyone I know.

Yea, you guys are know to be boring in bed too. No offense. It’s about the risk-aversion I think.

[Anonymous]

Better safe than sorry. I don’t want that mentioned or whispered in my funeral. I would be mortified at my imprudence.

[Anonymous]

Yes, and I'm quite good at it. Several women have told me that their juices get flowing from my messages.

[Anonymous]

It works.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:no way. i like to do all my dirty talk in person

Wow. You all are missing the point. And missing out. Getting an unexpected message in an unexpected setting is thrilling. It can make you giggle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and I'm quite good at it. Several women have told me that their juices get flowing from my messages.

Juices, eh? And several women?
What kind of stuff do you send?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and I'm quite good at it. Several women have told me that their juices get flowing from my messages.

Juices, eh? And several women?
What kind of stuff do you send?

All sorts of things. It's basically just vivid, creative writing. It doesn't hurt that I'm good in bed, so they have memories to draw upon, but it's also happened with people I haven't slept with yet in the build up/anticipation phase.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I work in the legal field and will not send photos of myself via email, text m, or on socials that I am not okay sharing with everyone I know.

Why? You don't know how to use your phone securely?