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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]DH, no. AP, yes.[/quote]

A potential gold mine for your DH's divorce attorney or your AP's DW's attorney.

Sexting between single people - no one's business. Sexting between married people and their APs - $$$$$$ for the family law practice. 
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$$$$$$$ with limited results outside of blackmailing into a better settlement. You need actual proof of two-person sex (like a video of you both together), plus hours of depositions to prove adultery in court (that’s $$$$$$ to your lawyer, plus $$$$$ to your spouse’s lawyer). Plus more depositions and evidence and $$$$$ to defend the pictured spouse’s counter claim of cruelty that drove him or her to take the pictures. Not pictures of his ding dong and different pictures of her hoo ha with corresponding “that’s so hot” texts in between.

And even if you prove it, and the judge cares, it’s only helpful for 2) getting divorced immediately (which you likely don’t need because you have spent a year in pre-trial crap, and 2) for an adjustment to the division of assets. So now you get 60 percent of the marital assets that are reduced by the six figures that you two spent getting a fault divorce.

You still shouldn’t sext for other reasons, but you can’t just roll up into court and show the judge some pictures, have him/her be like “ok, you get everything!” the way DCUM likes to pretend.[/quote]

No. That’s a fallacy. You do not need a pornographic photo of then or even them kissing.  The admissions I had via email and text were enough. VA[/quote]

You recently litigated and won a fault divorce in northern Virginia where the only proof of the affair was email and text?

Or there was a settlement agreement of some sort?[/quote]

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