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I don’t care much about your face as long as you have a kind smile, you are funny and you work out.
A handful of muscle can go a long way. Anyone can build muscle with effort. |
| Some men just have it. One of my African friend is married to one the most beautiful white chick i have ever seen. And they have been married for 15 years and still going strong. He is not the most good looking guy, he is 6’0 kind of skinny and has a thick accent. However he is the nicest man I have ever met. His mannerism, kindness and positive energy brings a kind of liveliness to any crowd he wake into. Despite his heavy accent and being skinny he is incredibly confident and charismatic. When women are around him they can’t stop laughing and everyone likes him. So confidence and charisma as others have said are 2 key attributes. |
Yes, what she said She said it nicer. A great job or one that is hard to get (like a top journalist, for instance) goes without saying. That’s hot. |
I don’t think women care about muscles else I wouldn’t be single. Sadly I kind fit into the meathead stereotype but working on it lol |
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Listen and respond. If she says something funny, laugh. If she says something interesting, tell her so and respond. Have a conversation.
I'm not sure how else to describe this but have vim and vigor/higher energy without being aggressive or nasty. That reads as confidence and good health. Some people say they're introverted but they really mean they're socially awkward or depressed. If that's the case, get help for that. You can be an introvert and find women. It matters how you are one-on-one and that you are not socially awkward at the same time. |
It depends. I was married to a cutie with no muscles. He is incredibly charismatic and smart. Now I want the muscular type. It’s really nice! Once you’ve tried it… |
What's a white chick? |
Tall is the second thing you mention. Then you describe your pick. Your pick does not fit your top three qualities. It’s odd to read. What’s up? |
African….hmm he is a 10 incher….that certainly helps |
| My DH doesn't have money, and he's less educated than I am. But he is tall and handsome. The thing that first attracted me to him was that he was so much more confident than all the other guys around him -- but not arrogant. Just self-assured, and friendly. |
Height helps and it’s not always fair. It gives you a starting point compared to other guys I guess. |
| Well, there is no doubt about inequities people face because of looks they inherit. |
| I see average men with beautiful women. Some men seem to look past serious flaws to be with a beautiful. Most men want hot and a host of other things. If you want a beautiful woman, find one of the many that are broken, crazy, indebted, loud, or lazy. |
| Pete Davidson dates above his level. He is funny which is a plus. I suspect he has the guts to ask beautiful women out (many men don't) I suspect he has had his share of rejections even though that never hits the media. |
| Confidence can make an unattractive guy sexy! Too many men think arrogance is confidence but arrogance is the biggest turnoff. |