The men who get the attractive women

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Size and money makes everything better!!!

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Anonymous wrote:Be an aloof jerk. I mean I hate to say not but every time I’m nonchalant and noncommittal I seem to get the good looking women. I thought as I got older the stupid games would stop - but they don’t it’s still the same.

I had dated someone for long time and was married. When I dated Tony ex-gf post divorce I was a good bf. I paid for all the dates, planned everything, helped her with her house renovations, went to her kids sports events, flowers…you get the point. I have always stayed in shape so I’m not a soft guy physically. Have a good job and kids of my own. I made time and communicated well as that was an issue in my marriage so instructed to improve. What did it get me? Ghosted literally.

After that I decided to not be a nice guy anymore. I went in a rampage dating wise and dumped women, slept with them and did the slow fade (I don’t ghost), was sometimes seeing two at a time and for some reason my phone was constantly blowing up with them saying they missed me, had feelings for me and two instances leaving things at my door like a bottle of my favorite bourbon or some chocolates my. I was actually dumbfounded at the second one as I had shown them basically little to no affection and for some reason they caught feelings.

I’m with someone now who I’m more open with and I am not an aloof jerk with her and she communicates well. She’s different than the other women I’ve dated in the past who I’ve dated long term or otherwise. Maybe that’s why I’m not behind some fortress of solitude anymore as I date her. Funny thing is I still get texts from the women I dated previously and I just ignore them - at least the ones I don’t block completely of course which I did do a lot.

Yep. This works. There are very few women who actually want a nice guy. If you find one hang on. Most of the women besides my current GF treated me like crap. Then I started not caring or investing in all the things, flowers, planning dates, calling/texting and bam. Women were lining up.

Obviously I am not that way with my current GF actually the opposite. Women are wild and it doesn’t make sense but it was my experience as a male dating in my late 30s.

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Anonymous wrote:Be an aloof jerk. I mean I hate to say not but every time I’m nonchalant and noncommittal I seem to get the good looking women. I thought as I got older the stupid games would stop - but they don’t it’s still the same.

I had dated someone for long time and was married. When I dated Tony ex-gf post divorce I was a good bf. I paid for all the dates, planned everything, helped her with her house renovations, went to her kids sports events, flowers…you get the point. I have always stayed in shape so I’m not a soft guy physically. Have a good job and kids of my own. I made time and communicated well as that was an issue in my marriage so instructed to improve. What did it get me? Ghosted literally.

After that I decided to not be a nice guy anymore. I went in a rampage dating wise and dumped women, slept with them and did the slow fade (I don’t ghost), was sometimes seeing two at a time and for some reason my phone was constantly blowing up with them saying they missed me, had feelings for me and two instances leaving things at my door like a bottle of my favorite bourbon or some chocolates my. I was actually dumbfounded at the second one as I had shown them basically little to no affection and for some reason they caught feelings.

I’m with someone now who I’m more open with and I am not an aloof jerk with her and she communicates well. She’s different than the other women I’ve dated in the past who I’ve dated long term or otherwise. Maybe that’s why I’m not behind some fortress of solitude anymore as I date her. Funny thing is I still get texts from the women I dated previously and I just ignore them - at least the ones I don’t block completely of course which I did do a lot.

Yep. This works. There are very few women who actually want a nice guy. If you find one hang on. Most of the women besides my current GF treated me like crap. Then I started not caring or investing in all the things, flowers, planning dates, calling/texting and bam. Women were lining up.

Obviously I am not that way with my current GF actually the opposite. Women are wild and it doesn’t make sense but it was my experience as a male dating in my late 30s.

The current girlfriend sounds fat.

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Agree with a lot of other posters about size and $$ sadly

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Anonymous wrote:Agree with a lot of other posters about size and $$ sadly

Agree with a lot of the other posters about size and $$ happily.

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Anonymous wrote:Good at oral sex, stay in bed after sex, has a good size penis

That's not how you get the attractive women. That's how you keep the attractive women after they've given you a shot.

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I’ve got a big one and its only ever gotten me past the friendzone once. She “happened to find” xl condoms in my stuff. Funny enough, we slept together that night.

I don’t think there’s any way for a woman to know (even if they care) if you’re not a shower.

Women don’t care about size at all.

I am a woman and certainly do care about size. I would never admit it to anyone ( other than a well-endowed lover) and would never discuss it with friends.

I do, too. I slept with a guy once who was small and it didn’t work for me even a little bit.

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Anonymous wrote:Good at oral sex, stay in bed after sex, has a good size penis

That's not how you get the attractive women. That's how you keep the attractive women after they've given you a shot.

+8?

I’ve got a big one and its only ever gotten me past the friendzone once. She “happened to find” xl condoms in my stuff. Funny enough, we slept together that night.

I don’t think there’s any way for a woman to know (even if they care) if you’re not a shower.

Women don’t care about size at all.

I am a woman and certainly do care about size. I would never admit it to anyone ( other than a well-endowed lover) and would never discuss it with friends.

+1 size matters. A lot. Love matters more.

I am African American and sadly stereotypes still do exist and some women in the past have made comments about us Black men having big D. I did measure mine when erect and I am only about 6.5.

Women always say size doesn’t matter. I don’t know whether to believe them or not.

It would matter for women who finish from PIV. I need it deep softly pressing against cervix to finish. But even for me 6.5-7 inch is max depth it would go. I don’t see why the size would matter if most women finish only from external clitoral stimulation.

I get a lot of attractive women but I definitely lose out to African American men very often. I'm pretty sure that the issue goes beyond size for some women. There's a whole African American cultural experience and vibe that some women love. By the way, I'm average in equipment size. Some women say I'm too big. Some say nothing at all, and maybe that means I'm too small for them. Some Goldilocks types say I am just right. It is true that a couple of women who usually finish with PIV are also the ones who were most explicit about their preferences for African American men, but they also were very focused on diversity, equity and inclusion in all aspects of their lives. My whiteness definitely was a disadvantage with these women, but I think the problem had more to do with my mind and my life experience than my body.

If you are dealing with PIV finishing woman, try to give her a deep massage first (or a good dominant slapping, whichever she prefers), to relax the body max. Then let her do BJ first, then use a tight condom and she would be on top. Your instrument will feel harder, and she will be able to let it deeper.

Actually the main one I have in mind did O every single time. She also said she was incredibly relaxed afterwards. I just think she is very drawn to African American men. I think this both because she said so and because most of her men for the past five years have been African American guys she met online.

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Anonymous wrote:Good at oral sex, stay in bed after sex, has a good size penis

That's not how you get the attractive women. That's how you keep the attractive women after they've given you a shot.

+8?

I’ve got a big one and its only ever gotten me past the friendzone once. She “happened to find” xl condoms in my stuff. Funny enough, we slept together that night.

I don’t think there’s any way for a woman to know (even if they care) if you’re not a shower.

Women don’t care about size at all.

I am a woman and certainly do care about size. I would never admit it to anyone ( other than a well-endowed lover) and would never discuss it with friends.

+1 size matters. A lot. Love matters more.

I am African American and sadly stereotypes still do exist and some women in the past have made comments about us Black men having big D. I did measure mine when erect and I am only about 6.5.

Women always say size doesn’t matter. I don’t know whether to believe them or not.

It would matter for women who finish from PIV. I need it deep softly pressing against cervix to finish. But even for me 6.5-7 inch is max depth it would go. I don’t see why the size would matter if most women finish only from external clitoral stimulation.

I get a lot of attractive women but I definitely lose out to African American men very often. I'm pretty sure that the issue goes beyond size for some women. There's a whole African American cultural experience and vibe that some women love. By the way, I'm average in equipment size. Some women say I'm too big. Some say nothing at all, and maybe that means I'm too small for them. Some Goldilocks types say I am just right. It is true that a couple of women who usually finish with PIV are also the ones who were most explicit about their preferences for African American men, but they also were very focused on diversity, equity and inclusion in all aspects of their lives. My whiteness definitely was a disadvantage with these women, but I think the problem had more to do with my mind and my life experience than my body.

If you are dealing with PIV finishing woman, try to give her a deep massage first (or a good dominant slapping, whichever she prefers), to relax the body max. Then let her do BJ first, then use a tight condom and she would be on top. Your instrument will feel harder, and she will be able to let it deeper.

Actually the main one I have in mind did O every single time. She also said she was incredibly relaxed afterwards. I just think she is very drawn to African American men. I think this both because she said so and because most of her men for the past five years have been African American guys she met online.

Not all white women are into AA guys. AA men are often promiscuous, lower paying jobs and it’s a turn off to me. Not willing to be a sugar mama for some hot muscular black dude. I’m able to finish from PIV just fine with a 5’ white partner if he’s doing things right.

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Size use to matter to me but not so much now. My current BF is not very big down there in comparison to other people I have slept with. We have a crazy connection both emotionally and physically l and that has made the sex so much better than anyone else I’ve been with.

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Anonymous wrote:Good at oral sex, stay in bed after sex, has a good size penis

That's not how you get the attractive women. That's how you keep the attractive women after they've given you a shot.

+8?

I’ve got a big one and its only ever gotten me past the friendzone once. She “happened to find” xl condoms in my stuff. Funny enough, we slept together that night.

I don’t think there’s any way for a woman to know (even if they care) if you’re not a shower.

Women don’t care about size at all.

I am a woman and certainly do care about size. I would never admit it to anyone ( other than a well-endowed lover) and would never discuss it with friends.

+1 size matters. A lot. Love matters more.

I am African American and sadly stereotypes still do exist and some women in the past have made comments about us Black men having big D. I did measure mine when erect and I am only about 6.5.

Women always say size doesn’t matter. I don’t know whether to believe them or not.

It would matter for women who finish from PIV. I need it deep softly pressing against cervix to finish. But even for me 6.5-7 inch is max depth it would go. I don’t see why the size would matter if most women finish only from external clitoral stimulation.

I get a lot of attractive women but I definitely lose out to African American men very often. I'm pretty sure that the issue goes beyond size for some women. There's a whole African American cultural experience and vibe that some women love. By the way, I'm average in equipment size. Some women say I'm too big. Some say nothing at all, and maybe that means I'm too small for them. Some Goldilocks types say I am just right. It is true that a couple of women who usually finish with PIV are also the ones who were most explicit about their preferences for African American men, but they also were very focused on diversity, equity and inclusion in all aspects of their lives. My whiteness definitely was a disadvantage with these women, but I think the problem had more to do with my mind and my life experience than my body.

If you are dealing with PIV finishing woman, try to give her a deep massage first (or a good dominant slapping, whichever she prefers), to relax the body max. Then let her do BJ first, then use a tight condom and she would be on top. Your instrument will feel harder, and she will be able to let it deeper.

Actually the main one I have in mind did O every single time. She also said she was incredibly relaxed afterwards. I just think she is very drawn to African American men. I think this both because she said so and because most of her men for the past five years have been African American guys she met online.

Not all white women are into AA guys. AA men are often promiscuous, lower paying jobs and it’s a turn off to me. Not willing to be a sugar mama for some hot muscular black dude. I’m able to finish from PIV just fine with a 5’ white partner if he’s doing things right.

“Hot muscular black dude” lol. You mean the stripper type or the ones dancing in Beyoncé’s video. I feel left out with that part of the black gene because I am skinny af.

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Anonymous wrote:Size use to matter to me but not so much now. My current BF is not very big down there in comparison to other people I have slept with. We have a crazy connection both emotionally and physically l and that has made the sex so much better than anyone else I’ve been with.

Ok you guys keep taking about size. What is considered big? 6, 7 or 8….

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Anonymous wrote:Size use to matter to me but not so much now. My current BF is not very big down there in comparison to other people I have slept with. We have a crazy connection both emotionally and physically l and that has made the sex so much better than anyone else I’ve been with.

Ok you guys keep taking about size. What is considered big? 6, 7 or 8….

7 1/2 here. Considered large.

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OMG this is not hard. Ask questions. Show genuine interest beyond the superficial.

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Confidence.

Being nice and knowing how to flirt.

Knowing what you want in life and devising some disciplined plan to get it.

Then pick the pretty ones and if rejected find another .

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If you want a woman who actually likes and understands you, be genuine & interested in her as a person. If you are just chasing someone hot and playing games, you won’t end up happy. Yes, when women want marriage and a family, money is a factor. look, I dated someone poor thru my 20s (a bartender, perpetual grad student), who was a 6’ 3” jfk jr lookalike but really not a good person. I finally dropped him and met my future husband, who was not as good looking, not as charming but a stand up guy. It didnt hurt that he was successful. we’ve been married a long time & are happy.