Today is My Birthday

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No straight man asks his wife to go glamping. Try harder.

What is glamping? I thought it was a typo but is is an under the radar activity of gay people?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No straight man asks his wife to go glamping. Try harder.

What is glamping? I thought it was a typo but is is an under the radar activity of gay people?

Fancy camping. Like those little A-frame cabins popular on instagram.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No straight man asks his wife to go glamping. Try harder.

What is glamping? I thought it was a typo but is is an under the radar activity of gay people?

If only there was thing in your hand that you could use to look up words you don’t know.

Glamour + Camping = Glamping

Camping in a really nice “tent” with amenities. Might be a yurt or a platform tent with beds & lighting. Not a cabin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here- where did my communication breakdown? That's the point I was making with "is it my responsibility to do my own birthday"

I don't think it is. And honestly, if I had known this was how I was going to spend the day, I would have done something on my own instead of wasted it waiting for my wife to do something she said she was going to do, but didn't.

Don't even get me started what would have happend had I done this for her birthday.

Happy birthday.

Your post isn’t clear what it is she said she was going to do. It may be possible that your wife isn’t clear what your expectations are.

[Anonymous]

Happy birthday if you are a real person!

I think expecting your wife to pack your bag is too much. The fact you do is why I think you are a troll.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And my wife did nothing.

About three weeks ago, she asked what I wanted to do and I said lets go glamping in a cabin out in the Shennadoah. She said which one, I said I don't know - you pick. She didn't as of a week ago, so I reserved one.

WhenI got up today, nothing had been done. No bags had been packed, no breakfast had been cooked, no groceries packed for the weekend, nothing. Around 11 she asked, again, what I wanted to do. I said I thought we were going out to the valley. She said Ok, just checking. Now its 1230 and i'm sitting in the den on the internet while she on the phone with her sister in law.

Am I suposed to have planned my own birthday trip? Was I supposed to buy and pack everything? Was this a trip for her or for me?

I tempted to pack for myself and queitly leave.

What would you do here?

Welcome to the club! My POS SAHM does nothing for me - ever. My birthday she only buys a cake but that's more for our kid than me. No present. No card. Same for Father's Day. On Christmas you know what she got me? New sheets for our bed. Yes, that's right. She also got me a desk lamp even though I have two already. And that was it. My kid got over 20 gifts and I bought her 10 gifts. I got two.

To top it off if I don't do something nice for her birthday, Valentines Day, Mothers Day, Anniversary, and Christmas I'm a horrible human. One year I got her $200 flowers sent to the house, a custom $80 cake, and a card and gift and she shit on me saying I "didn't put enough thought into it". This year I've already told her I'm not getting her any gifts, she already spends our bank account like we're millionaires. I'll get her a cake and that's it.

You gave such disdain and disrespect for your wife, that it is scary.
Really, get therapy or get a divorce. I fear for her welfare.

I cannot believe that a grown man is jealous about the fact that his child got more gifts than him. Unbelievable!

I'm not jealous of my kid. I love my kid. She's the only reason I'm staying married. I would have filed for divorce five years ago if it wasn'tt for my kid. But, my parents and my wife's parents begged me not to. So, I agreed and stayed to raise her. My wife is not a great parent. SAHM who barely does anything. iPhone screen time averages 12+ hours per day (literally, I have screenshots for when I file). Yes, I am bitter because she's a hypocrite on a regular basis. Marrying her was the worse decision of my life. But, somehow we have a beautiful great kid and now at age 11 prefers me over her mother most of the time. That's telling.

I am a grown man. I'm an adult. My wife isn't and it wears a husband down just like OP's wife. You women who act like men are trash, yet you are the ones who treat men like trash but expect to be treated as queens.

[Anonymous]

Grown adults expect their spouses to pack for them? What?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And my wife did nothing.

About three weeks ago, she asked what I wanted to do and I said lets go glamping in a cabin out in the Shennadoah. She said which one, I said I don't know - you pick. She didn't as of a week ago, so I reserved one.

WhenI got up today, nothing had been done. No bags had been packed, no breakfast had been cooked, no groceries packed for the weekend, nothing. Around 11 she asked, again, what I wanted to do. I said I thought we were going out to the valley. She said Ok, just checking. Now its 1230 and i'm sitting in the den on the internet while she on the phone with her sister in law.

Am I suposed to have planned my own birthday trip? Was I supposed to buy and pack everything? Was this a trip for her or for me?

I tempted to pack for myself and queitly leave.

What would you do here?

Welcome to the club! My POS SAHM does nothing for me - ever. My birthday she only buys a cake but that's more for our kid than me. No present. No card. Same for Father's Day. On Christmas you know what she got me? New sheets for our bed. Yes, that's right. She also got me a desk lamp even though I have two already. And that was it. My kid got over 20 gifts and I bought her 10 gifts. I got two.

To top it off if I don't do something nice for her birthday, Valentines Day, Mothers Day, Anniversary, and Christmas I'm a horrible human. One year I got her $200 flowers sent to the house, a custom $80 cake, and a card and gift and she shit on me saying I "didn't put enough thought into it". This year I've already told her I'm not getting her any gifts, she already spends our bank account like we're millionaires. I'll get her a cake and that's it.

You gave such disdain and disrespect for your wife, that it is scary.
Really, get therapy or get a divorce. I fear for her welfare.

I cannot believe that a grown man is jealous about the fact that his child got more gifts than him. Unbelievable!

I'm not jealous of my kid. I love my kid. She's the only reason I'm staying married. I would have filed for divorce five years ago if it wasn'tt for my kid. But, my parents and my wife's parents begged me not to. So, I agreed and stayed to raise her. My wife is not a great parent. SAHM who barely does anything. iPhone screen time averages 12+ hours per day (literally, I have screenshots for when I file). Yes, I am bitter because she's a hypocrite on a regular basis. Marrying her was the worse decision of my life. But, somehow we have a beautiful great kid and now at age 11 prefers me over her mother most of the time. That's telling.

I am a grown man. I'm an adult. My wife isn't and it wears a husband down just like OP's wife. You women who act like men are trash, yet you are the ones who treat men like trash but expect to be treated as queens.

The screenshots are stupid. It does nothing. Quit being a narcissist.

[Anonymous]

You want to go glamping in Shenandoah in January brrrrrrr

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You want to go glamping in Shenandoah in January brrrrrrr

Where’s that post about the U-Haul blocking everyone on the mountain in the snow…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And my wife did nothing.

About three weeks ago, she asked what I wanted to do and I said lets go glamping in a cabin out in the Shennadoah. She said which one, I said I don't know - you pick. She didn't as of a week ago, so I reserved one.

WhenI got up today, nothing had been done. No bags had been packed, no breakfast had been cooked, no groceries packed for the weekend, nothing. Around 11 she asked, again, what I wanted to do. I said I thought we were going out to the valley. She said Ok, just checking. Now its 1230 and i'm sitting in the den on the internet while she on the phone with her sister in law.

Am I suposed to have planned my own birthday trip? Was I supposed to buy and pack everything? Was this a trip for her or for me?

I tempted to pack for myself and queitly leave.

What would you do here?

Why are you feeling sorry for yourself?

[Anonymous]

Just imagine if the genders were reversed. LOL

Op this is a man hating site

Know your audience

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And my wife did nothing.

About three weeks ago, she asked what I wanted to do and I said lets go glamping in a cabin out in the Shennadoah. She said which one, I said I don't know - you pick. She didn't as of a week ago, so I reserved one.

WhenI got up today, nothing had been done. No bags had been packed, no breakfast had been cooked, no groceries packed for the weekend, nothing. Around 11 she asked, again, what I wanted to do. I said I thought we were going out to the valley. She said Ok, just checking. Now its 1230 and i'm sitting in the den on the internet while she on the phone with her sister in law.

Am I suposed to have planned my own birthday trip? Was I supposed to buy and pack everything? Was this a trip for her or for me?

I tempted to pack for myself and queitly leave.

What would you do here?

Why are you feeling sorry for yourself?

Why? Really? When your spouse, who is suppose to be "loving" and "caring" treats you like trash it's not a great feeling. In fact, it's the primary reason men are unhappy in marriage. They are taken advantage of. As PP stated if this is a women tying this about her husband the posters here would be telling her the husband was a horrible person and she needs to divorce him right away and move on...blah blah blah. But, since it's a man unhappy it's still his fault.

[Anonymous]

Wow! You posters shit on people even on their birthdays. Happy birthday OP. Ditch the trip. Take your daughter to do something you both enjoy. Movie, hot chocolate, buy a new snow tube. Just do it. Don't pout. Don’t invite her along either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Grown adults expect their spouses to pack for them? What?!

I read it as if she hadn’t packed for herself so she wasn’t prepared to do anything or go anywhere.