Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I understand OP.

Theres a lot of mischief going on online these days.


Pretty sure this woman isn't going to bang OP's husband because he's one of her 5m followers.

But Instagram is stupid and I think less of anyone who is on it.


Do you think less of someone who posts anonymously on an internet forum?


Anonymous
I just looked at her Instagram and it's quite tasteful. I don't know if the jacuzzi pictures were from there, but most of the content was not like that. Also, her house is gorgeous.

Also, this woman has over 5 million followers. I wouldn't be so concerned about your husband DM'ing her or anything. She's engaged to an NFL player. I'm pretty sure she's not chatting with your husband on the side.

I'd be more concerned if your husband followed someone you actually knew but weren't really friends with. But this one I would let go.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You should talk to a therapist about why this bothers you so much. He follows a married celebrity. He's really not doing anything wrong. If you force him to unfollow her he can just go look up her page or photos of her with one extra click - what is the outcome you want here?


Everyone + their Mother have a celebrity crush OP.

And yes….even married couples.

It seems that you think your husband has residual feelings for an ex-girlfriend.

So you need to speak to someone who can guide you in why you personally feel very bothered by this.

Good luck. 👍🏽
Anonymous
You know what's more idiotic than someone thinking their dh has a chance with this lady? Posters who accuse the op of thinking her dh is going to run off with her. I am 1000% sure that is not in the scope of possibilities or worries that are bothering her!! She didn't mention it once, yet any thread with similar concerns from the op (DH texted/ follows/ likes/ knows...) where op never even mentions worries about infidelity, people love to point out how ridiculous it is to think an affair is brewing. Women being bothered by these irksome attentions does NOT mean they think their DH is going to run off with Culpo, Swift, etc. It's a lot more related to not being favored for those attentions, insecurity in not measuring up physically (because that is an impossibility for anyone), judgment of their dh's behavior and its fair. Neither is wrong for their feelings. Op should let this slide but let him know she needs a bit more connection and romantic attentions in their routines.
Anonymous
Remember with social media, dysmorphia and low self esteem can kick in hard but that very beautiful person is still editing and filtering as much as the rest. It is a pretty fiction
Anonymous
I was supportive of your DH before. I still am. It’s not a big deal. Bigger deal if it’s only fans girls or a lot of celebrities.

That said, if my celeb crush DM’d me, it’s over. I’m running off (more likely would get played, one time, it’s over, he ghosts)

However, that’s just never going to happen. And Olivia C isn’t coming for your husband.
Anonymous
Oh god.
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