Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
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Anonymous
| Wow, get a hold of yourself woman |
Anonymous
Not all of us are idiots. I just refuse to use self check out so I act like an idiot so the hall monitor will come over and do it for me. I will gladly use self checkout when they give me a discount. Until then if you aren’t giving me employee benefits I am not going to be your employee. |
Anonymous
+1 I follow tons of athletes and if my husband told me not to follow any males online…. honestly, it’s so preposterous. I don’t even know what I would do. Get therapy? |
Anonymous
Doesn’t sound like he’s brilliant. It sounds like he is impatient and entitled. |
Anonymous
Meh, a lot of “brilliant” people are complete children when it comes to doing day to day tasks. Your husband sounds like he has severe emotional disregulation if he can’t handle patiently waiting a few minutes for other people to do things. That’s toddler behavior. |
Anonymous
| Tell him to look at porn like a normal person. Fixating on one celeb is creepy. Ask Jodie Foster. |
Anonymous
Following tons is better than following just 1. |
Anonymous
I read Playboy for the interviews with leading intellectuals. |
Anonymous
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It’s possible he saw a really funny or interesting reel and just followed her on a whim, but doesn’t actively seek out her content. If he did fixate on her that would be a problem but a very, very minor issue in the grand scheme of things. I definitely wouldn’t investigate it.
This thread reminded me that DH follows a woman who is some kind of fighter and I wanted to remember who it was. I went to look at his following list and after a minute of scrolling I felt so weird doing it. Not that it was a violation of privacy but I just felt creepy and like it was a very poor use of time. I should have just asked my husband. |
Anonymous
| Perfect example of some women who look for a reason to start drama. |
Anonymous
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I hear both sides all the time:
1. No, a spouse should not be following IG models and hot girls/women on social media. 2. A spouse shouldn't control who their spouse follows on social media even if it's for the sexual appeal of the opposite sex. In the end, everyone is different. I think following famous people who are attractive is different than following random attractive people (IG models). To OP's point of her spouse following Olivia Culpo. She is beautiful and I can see why men follow her. Unless he's heating every single post of hers it's not a big deal. Also, if he dated someone who looks like her in college he has to be an attractive man which means the OP is likely a good looking (or was) woman. |
Anonymous
| Does she have an Only Fans account? |
Anonymous
is this what he likes? 
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Anonymous
| I saw my DH liked one of those weird Britney Spears dancing videos. I am not sure which is worse? |
Anonymous
My DH regularly shared Britney dancing videos with me. He thought they were delightful. He said it is always nice to see an attractive mostly naked woman, but in this case, it is the same emotional payoff as seeing anything else that is aesthetically pleasing. It is possible for people to appreciate attractiveness in other people than their spouses without being unfaithful to their spouses. It is not possible to boss your husband around about social media minutiae without being controlling, though. |