Mega star turned stay-at-home-mom Cameron Diaz has advice for married couples-separate bedrooms! Or homes!

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Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

+1. Waiting too long for first marriage and kid permanently screws women and men up. She married an ugly washed up rocker because she was old and washed up herself. Had she married when she was in her prime, when she was gorgeous and fresh faced, she’d have a hot rich husband and a bunch of kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.eonline.com/news/534348/cameron-diaz-i-m-not-childless-i-can-have-a-kid-any-second-if-i-want

Single Cameron at 41 didn’t like being called childless.

Remember: she didn’t become a mother until 47, right?

And she didn’t settle down with a partner until mid/late 40s, right?

47 yo women don’t have viable eggs left. Donor egg is essentially like adopting a baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do none of you ever venture to the relationship forum here? plenty of DCUMers doing this

Okay, and? It’s not aspirational. It’s a dead marriage. Plenty of people remain in dead marriages for kids, finances, and loneliness. Again, that doesn’t make the arrangement aspirational or normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do none of you ever venture to the relationship forum here? plenty of DCUMers doing this

Okay, and? It’s not aspirational. It’s a dead marriage. Plenty of people remain in dead marriages for kids, finances, and loneliness. Again, that doesn’t make the arrangement aspirational or normal.

It's not a dead marriage. Having your own sanctuary is great. It's not like you're sleeping separately every night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.eonline.com/news/534348/cameron-diaz-i-m-not-childless-i-can-have-a-kid-any-second-if-i-want

Single Cameron at 41 didn’t like being called childless.

Remember: she didn’t become a mother until 47, right?

And she didn’t settle down with a partner until mid/late 40s, right?

47 yo women don’t have viable eggs left. Donor egg is essentially like adopting a baby.

Not true.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

+1. Waiting too long for first marriage and kid permanently screws women and men up. She married an ugly washed up rocker because she was old and washed up herself. Had she married when she was in her prime, when she was gorgeous and fresh faced, she’d have a hot rich husband and a bunch of kids.

She is still beautiful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

+1. Waiting too long for first marriage and kid permanently screws women and men up. She married an ugly washed up rocker because she was old and washed up herself. Had she married when she was in her prime, when she was gorgeous and fresh faced, she’d have a hot rich husband and a bunch of kids.

This comment is 100 percent misogynistic. Surprising to read it in a forum of mostly woman.

[Anonymous]

Translation: I’m post menopause, my husband is ugly and I’m not sexually attracted to him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

+1. Waiting too long for first marriage and kid permanently screws women and men up. She married an ugly washed up rocker because she was old and washed up herself. Had she married when she was in her prime, when she was gorgeous and fresh faced, she’d have a hot rich husband and a bunch of kids.

This comment is 100 percent misogynistic. Surprising to read it in a forum of mostly woman.

+1 And she DID marry a wealthy man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

+1. Waiting too long for first marriage and kid permanently screws women and men up. She married an ugly washed up rocker because she was old and washed up herself. Had she married when she was in her prime, when she was gorgeous and fresh faced, she’d have a hot rich husband and a bunch of kids.

This comment is 100 percent misogynistic. Surprising to read it in a forum of mostly woman.

+1 And she DID marry a wealthy man.

Another +1 and I have no doubts she's very happy with her path.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

+1. Waiting too long for first marriage and kid permanently screws women and men up. She married an ugly washed up rocker because she was old and washed up herself. Had she married when she was in her prime, when she was gorgeous and fresh faced, she’d have a hot rich husband and a bunch of kids.

This comment is 100 percent misogynistic. Surprising to read it in a forum of mostly woman.

+1 And she DID marry a wealthy man.

He is a baby millionaire. He is not in the same stratosphere of money she could have married into had she married when she was in her prime.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

+1. Waiting too long for first marriage and kid permanently screws women and men up. She married an ugly washed up rocker because she was old and washed up herself. Had she married when she was in her prime, when she was gorgeous and fresh faced, she’d have a hot rich husband and a bunch of kids.

This comment is 100 percent misogynistic. Surprising to read it in a forum of mostly woman.

+1 And she DID marry a wealthy man.

He is a baby millionaire. He is not in the same stratosphere of money she could have married into had she married when she was in her prime.

She's got plenty of her own $$. Also, she dated Justin Timberlake for years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are a bot, no?

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Written JUST like the older thread about Cynthia Nixon being on hunger strike. Exact same style.

I wish Jeff the moderator had a way to ID and ax these clearly bot-written posts. Letting them stay here and generate threads will just encourage more of them from whatever publicists are using bots to generate clicks.

[Anonymous]

She and Jude Law had so much chemistry 17 years ago in The Holiday. She should have married Jude in her early 30s. Then she wouldn’t want to sleep separately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Love having separate beds. My husband flops around and snores LOUDLY. You all must have quiet soundly sleeping spouses or you would want a separate bed too

No, but it's worth it to have him close-- we touch feet, snuggle, sleep like spoons, etc.