Mega star turned stay-at-home-mom Cameron Diaz has advice for married couples-separate bedrooms! Or homes!

[Anonymous]

https://www.eonline.com/news/534348/cameron-diaz-i-m-not-childless-i-can-have-a-kid-any-second-if-i-want

Single Cameron at 41 didn’t like being called childless.

Remember: she didn’t become a mother until 47, right?

And she didn’t settle down with a partner until mid/late 40s, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get the stay at home mom part - she owns Avaline wines and has published wellness books. She is coming out with a movie with Jamie Foxx.

She talked about stepping away from acting for a while after having her child.

Yeah, it’s called maternity leave. But like I said, she owns a wine company that she markets, and is very involved in, and now she has returned to acting. That was my only point.

[Anonymous]

She got married (almost) 9 years ago, and they acquired a child 4 years ago.

She’s 51.

I don’t think she has the credentials to give marriage or parenting advice. Honestly, no wealthy celeb does. They have no clue what the real world entails.

Most men prefer having a naked woman in bed with them. You’d think a 51 year old woman in La-La land would realize that.

[Anonymous]

Do none of you ever venture to the relationship forum here? plenty of DCUMers doing this

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She got married (almost) 9 years ago, and they acquired a child 4 years ago.

She’s 51.

I don’t think she has the credentials to give marriage or parenting advice. Honestly, no wealthy celeb does. They have no clue what the real world entails.

Most men prefer having a naked woman in bed with them. You’d think a 51 year old woman in La-La land would realize that.

What does that mean? "Acquired."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She got married (almost) 9 years ago, and they acquired a child 4 years ago.

She’s 51.

I don’t think she has the credentials to give marriage or parenting advice. Honestly, no wealthy celeb does. They have no clue what the real world entails.

Most men prefer having a naked woman in bed with them. You’d think a 51 year old woman in La-La land would realize that.

What does that mean? "Acquired."

Was she pregnant? Or did she just magically appear to have a child?

[Anonymous]

lol. “Just be rich” is the best marriage advice category for sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:lol. “Just be rich” is the best marriage advice category for sure.

LOL. Yes, this!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She said that this is what she thought BEFORE she met and married her husband. Not now

I remember in "I Love Lucy" (re-runs) they slept in different beds.

That was censorship, not an image of authentic behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We sleep in our own rooms. It's saved our marriage. He snores so loud.

When I am stressed, I thrash around in my sleep like a wild woman. no one wants to sleep in a bed with that!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She was famously single and childless well into adulthood. She was late in the game when it came to marriage and parenting. She was very public about how she was single by choice and not sure about ever being a parent…like Chelsea Handler and Bill Maher.

So I’m not surprised that she values/needs space. She had her own space well into her 40s. This isn’t shocking.

Having said that, I think it’s weird. Don’t people enjoy cuddling with their spouse and watching tv together…and then what comes after a back rub?

Having separate bedrooms or even separate homes doesn't preclude that. You just choose when and where to do that, and it isn't necessarily every night. Most people that choose to do this in their marriage have children that are grown and out of the house already.

[Anonymous]

Love having separate beds. My husband flops around and snores LOUDLY. You all must have quiet soundly sleeping spouses or you would want a separate bed too

[Anonymous]

We absolutely LOVE having separate beds. Several good friends do the same. Our spouses snore. I toss and turn. We enjoy time together then sleep apart. We absolutely snuggle on the couch, in one of our beds, etc. As we're both, typically, getting good sleep it's great for both of us.

[Anonymous]

My husband sleeps in the guest room. He snores and I'm a light sleeper who tends to wake up in the middle of the night. This works really well for us. Our marriage is happy and we both get sleep!

[Anonymous]

It doesn’t have to be all or nothing either. We start in the same bed most nights, but we are both light sleepers and both have a bad habit of laying in bed stressing about things beyond our control. So when we wake up and can’t sleep, we start getting really self-conscious that we’re going to wake the other person. Sometimes it’s just easier at that point to slip off on our own until we drift off again.

Since 25 years in with two teen kids in a small house means we are likely not going to have sex at 3 am anyway I don’t see it getting in the way of that. When were 23 and childless? Yea those 3 am wake ups happened and were fun…..ah to be young.