I'm sad/anxious about things & DH doesn't care

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes but not on the regular. Phone a friend.

Also if you need to vent about something that is not normal to vent about you need therapy.

It’s loving to let a spouse know when they are out of bounds.

"Phone a friend?" I realize this isn't everyone's reality but it seems to me that a husband ideally is also a friend? A best friend?

The problem here is your concept of best friend is different from his. You think a bestfriend should be supportive at all times. He thinks a bestfriend is the person towards whom he can be his " true" self or the worst acceptable version of himself.

Make female friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not a regular thing because he's never let me do it. Literally. He doesn't want to hear it.

I don't have any friends.

Does he isolate you? So you’ve lost or left all your friends?

Great question

You need a third party to unwrap what’s going in here. He could be toxic or you just need more confidence