Husband told me he hates me and mocked me

[Anonymous]

Show him that you won’t tolerate his outbursts. In your example, ask him to pull over, get out of the car and call an Uber.

[Anonymous]

This like the start of my marriage.
I should have left but didn’t.
He was depressed, and improved considerably with medication.
Still I’m certain I would have been happier with someone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were driving to get lunch together and he realizes he missed a call from someone he has been waiting for. He starts yelling “F*ck! F*ck!” I don’t like when he loses his cool like this so I say, “ baby can you please calm down, it freaks me out when you do this.”

He snaps back that he calm and I need to stop! I say I am not doing anything. He tries to turn it onto me and says I am antagonizing him. He turns the car around and says he will drop me home. I say what are you doing? I wanted to get lunch. He says he doesn’t want to see me.

I sigh and say this is not normal and this is not ok. He yells that he hates me he hates me so much! I say ok you’re scathing me. He starts mocking me “ awww you’re scwawing me!!!”

At this point I don’t know what to say. I enter the house and he says “ i hate you go to hell”

… just a regular Monday afternoon.

OP, we need more context. What was he wearing at the time? Was it some kind of costume?

[Anonymous]

we've had many arguments with my wife but has never been this bad. Husband must be seriously deranged or suffer from multiple personalities, he needs help or a diagnosis and, and only then love if he is back on the right path.

[Anonymous]

I guess I’ll be an outlier and say you can recover if DH commits to change and therapy. And you get therapy too. We can’t possibly know whether your marriage is worth salvaging or not from one post. If I wrote a post about the problems in my marriage people would say divorce! But I don’t want to and I love DH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know you've learned to deal with this, but you should know my DH has never snapped, yelled, mocked or said anything rude to me in 20 years. Not once.
You don't deserve any of that. Relationships shouldn't have that ever, let alone regularly

What OP’s husband did was unacceptable but this… really? Has he been on a heavy course of mood stabilizers for the past 20 years?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Divorce

ASAP

Divorce is always the DCUM answer

“DH has terrible gas”

Divorce! 🤦‍♂️