Dating for Men

[Anonymous]

Why are we acting like 300k is wealthy these days in DC

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve only dated in DC as an adult, mostly Americans, but have had a longish relationship with a woman who moved here from another country for law school and with a foreign embassy employee. Another 3-4 month relationship with a woman whose parents were immigrants, but they were very wealthy and she had a typical upper class American upbringing.

I’ve noticed no major differences and have little respect for men who pull the “American woman can’t compare” card.

If you've never dated women outside the US then of course you wouldn't notice a difference. Ignorance is bliss I guess. Enjoy those DC hotties buddy.

Thanks, pal! It's being going great so far.

DC women are very international and diverse in all age groups. Grad students from all over the world; ex spouses of international orgs staff. These are usually foreign born women from upper class families or the women selected for their beauty abroad by ex husbands, and then brought to the US. Lifestyle and beauty are correlated. Not sure why any man would need to travel abroad to find a woman, if he lives in dmv area with such huge selection

Depending on the country, it can be like night and day in terms of the number of quality women you can date relative to the US. There is a reason none of these guys date American women.

What you are saying is true about foreign born women in the DC area, but as people inevitably assimilate, they tend to lose their redeeming qualities that you initially found attractive.

You are just not well-off enough to date attractive foreign women in DC. This full assimilation never really happens culturally. Looks also remain with the woman if she’s a real beauty she’ll age well. If she had a wealthy family to send her for a grad program or married into US, very likely she’s got great genes - both intelligence and beauty. But foreign born women mature financially very quickly; by 30 y.o. in DC, if they have a good degree. They don’t date “regular” man just because a beautiful woman with brain and money has options. Accent or cultural background don’t matter. Execs in dmv area often date foreign born women of all ages. Agree that if you go abroad, the women there wouldn’t have as many options. But you also have to deal with negative selection: wh…res, who are only with you for money; girls who barely speak English, not as good of a gene pool, etc.

Yeah, the more attractive foreign women in DC will generally be pursuing guys willing to spend lots of cash on them. And no doubt, if you are an executive, you have a lot more options. But these women are more interested in $ than anything else, so they aren't a whole lot better than your avg striver type American woman in the DC area.

The big advantage to dating in other countries is the number of available women. You are looking at a dating pool of 2 million people in a large Latin American city vs maybe something like 50k foreign women in DC.

No, they are not pursuing any men- men are pursuing attractive women. Overall deficit of men doesn’t affect attractive females. And in terms of cash - you do realize that a long term specialist at WB/IMF group makes around 300k, right? Women simply try to date equals as we don’t like to trade down our lifestyle. If he’s not used to gym, cleaning ladies, good food I’m not there to change him. And he’ll think I’m
spoilt just because I already have access to all these services. I want to have similar spending habits as my partner; not more and not less

We aren't talking about you or women making 300k (hardly the norm, even in DC), so not sure why you are defensive. But you do sound high maintenance with an unhealthy focus on money. No way any guy in his right mind would date someone like that in your home country.

NP. Yes, a woman who makes a lot of money and expects to have regular gym work, cleaning help, and good food is tooootally different than a man who expects the same.

[Anonymous]

After reading all these angry posts from "modern women," I'm sure even beta OP is running for the hills when it comes to dating in DC.

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I fly with IT exec to NY for one weekend;
a MD guy takes me to his cabin on a lake to work during the week;
a senator to his bachelor pad in SF when two other guy friends are busy with work.
One proposed but I really just enjoy my dating life ... meeting all these interesting guys.

She is made for the streets!

No she isn’t!

She has cultivated a “roster.” Guys have done it for years!!!

Sis, tell us your roster-building strategy….

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I fly with IT exec to NY for one weekend;
a MD guy takes me to his cabin on a lake to work during the week;
a senator to his bachelor pad in SF when two other guy friends are busy with work.
One proposed but I really just enjoy my dating life ... meeting all these interesting guys.

She is made for the streets!

No she isn’t!

She has cultivated a “roster.” Guys have done it for years!!!

Sis, tell us your roster-building strategy….

She obviously wins them over with her intelligence.

Then she spreads her legs and drinks the leche.

[H8Courtship]

Men still being expected to make the first move and Court women and be the initiators and be the ones to approach women is nothing new and I don't see that ever changing

[Anonymous]

What if a man is looking for nice person, good smile and a thinks a “mom bod” is hot?

Good places to look?

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Anonymous wrote:The older women in DC get, the pickier and more selective they get, despite corresponding decline in physical beauty.

They are less willing to put up with nonsense and BS, that part is true.

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Anonymous wrote:I wish it were possible to read reviews of women so I could find out which ones are crazy, liars, or diseased.

I wish I could read which men are cheaters, cheap and liars.

Check out the Are We Dating the Same Man FB groups in every city. You will never want to date again! Seems like every man has a wife, three girlfriends, and a side piece. Or they s/a. Or both.

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Anonymous wrote:What if a man is looking for nice person, good smile and a thinks a “mom bod” is hot?

Good places to look?

Wegmans

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Anonymous wrote:What if a man is looking for nice person, good smile and a thinks a “mom bod” is hot?

Good places to look?

We’re doing fanfic now?

[Anonymous]

I am a single 40 years old male and recently moved to Arlington from Los Angeles to take a finance job. I found that 90% of online dating women are just average at best in person.  After three months of OLD, I stopped doing it.  I joined several pickleball clubs and met so many wonderful people, one of them introduced me to one of his 25 years old female cousins who is 9 in looks and 10 in personality, and she has a good paying job as a Project Manager.  Join a club is the best way to meet people.  YMMV.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a single 40 years old male and recently moved to Arlington from Los Angeles to take a finance job. I found that 90% of online dating women are just average at best in person.  After three months of OLD, I stopped doing it.  I joined several pickleball clubs and met so many wonderful people, one of them introduced me to one of his 25 years old female cousins who is 9 in looks and 10 in personality, and she has a good paying job as a Project Manager.  Join a club is the best way to meet people.  YMMV.

Why would such a good looking 25yo want to date a 45yo fart ?

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Anonymous wrote:I am a single 40 years old male and recently moved to Arlington from Los Angeles to take a finance job. I found that 90% of online dating women are just average at best in person.  After three months of OLD, I stopped doing it.  I joined several pickleball clubs and met so many wonderful people, one of them introduced me to one of his 25 years old female cousins who is 9 in looks and 10 in personality, and she has a good paying job as a Project Manager.  Join a club is the best way to meet people.  YMMV.

Why would such a good looking 25yo want to date a 45yo fart ?

Because he is a very interesting person and has a lot of money?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if a man is looking for nice person, good smile and a thinks a “mom bod” is hot?

Good places to look?

Wait, are you the man? Try the gym.