Is it weird that contractor’s GF poops in my powder room?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I find it’s weird she is there, but I really do not get the hang up people have about pooping in toilets. She made a mess….in the toilet. Spray a little cleaner in there, use a brush and flush. It’s not like she pooped on the floor.

Sorry but it’s not my job to clean up other peoples poop.

I would ask the contractor to come and clean up after his girlfriend. And then next time say they can’t use the toilet. They can find a McDonald’s or a gas station

This thread has brought out the classless, racist, low-intelligence, social strivers. You are no better than the contractor, his girlfriend, or really anybody. OP: she is a human being, who probably has a very good reason she is there with him. And, like many people, cannot time when she has to go. Be a normal human being and understand that we are all in this world together.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They may have intestinal issues. People with irritable bowel syndrome, etc. And when they have to go, they have to go. But dag, she should clean up!

There were skid marks. I……..

Inside the bowl where the poop is supposed to be or somewhere else? Did you expect her to go through your cabinets looking for cleaning supplies? If it was on the seat, sure, I’d be upset if she left a mess. But if it was a normal use of the toilet, and she flushed, but didn’t scrub the toilet after using it, I can’t imagine being upset. That’s literally what toilets are for.

I guess YMMV, but I don’t think it’s OK to leave skid marks in someone’s home toilet. I’m a little surprised you think that’s OK.

For the record, there were stains in the bowl, and there was something on the seat, but I didn’t over analyze.

Did you have a toilet cleaning brush available? I don't think you should leave a toilet dirty (even your own) but there aren't always cleaning supplies available. (Crohn's sufferer here)

I'll add that I do agree with PP that people have too much of a hangup over it. If's more gross to clean up somebody else's poop (I even clean the toilet before the cleaners come over) but it's also not the scandal people make it out to be.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They may have intestinal issues. People with irritable bowel syndrome, etc. And when they have to go, they have to go. But dag, she should clean up!

There were skid marks. I……..

Inside the bowl where the poop is supposed to be or somewhere else? Did you expect her to go through your cabinets looking for cleaning supplies? If it was on the seat, sure, I’d be upset if she left a mess. But if it was a normal use of the toilet, and she flushed, but didn’t scrub the toilet after using it, I can’t imagine being upset. That’s literally what toilets are for.

I guess YMMV, but I don’t think it’s OK to leave skid marks in someone’s home toilet. I’m a little surprised you think that’s OK.

For the record, there were stains in the bowl, and there was something on the seat, but I didn’t over analyze.

Did you have a toilet cleaning brush available? I don't think you should leave a toilet dirty (even your own) but there aren't always cleaning supplies available. (Crohn's sufferer here)

In my powder room I have cleaner and a brush in the cabinet, yes. Also, there is a tube of Clorox wipes on the counter.

Maybe leave the brush out next time she comes in. And obviously the wipes aren't going to help the skid mark situation, although she should have taken care of the stuff on the seat.

[Anonymous]

My brother complains that his staff either has to drive to McDonald’s or go to the bathroom or has to pay for a jiffy John because of people like you.

Ffs! People have to poop at work. Yea sometimes it’s big and leaves a mark.

What is wrong with you people.

Would you expect your H’s work to treat him the same way you treat this person?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Come on, do you not poop? Have you never had to go at an inconvenient time? We need to be gracious to others and their bodies. That’s true class. Pretending that you don’t poop and bodies should be perfect is not classy, it’s just delusional and bullyish.

The countess has entered the chat!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My brother complains that his staff either has to drive to McDonald’s or go to the bathroom or has to pay for a jiffy John because of people like you.

Ffs! People have to poop at work. Yea sometimes it’s big and leaves a mark.

What is wrong with you people.

Would you expect your H’s work to treat him the same way you treat this person?

Portapotty comes with the territory - letting a whole crew and potentially their SOs use your toilet for the duration of project isn’t expected. Tell your brother to stop whining.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother complains that his staff either has to drive to McDonald’s or go to the bathroom or has to pay for a jiffy John because of people like you.

Ffs! People have to poop at work. Yea sometimes it’s big and leaves a mark.

What is wrong with you people.

Would you expect your H’s work to treat him the same way you treat this person?

Portapotty comes with the territory - letting a whole crew and potentially their SOs use your toilet for the duration of project isn’t expected. Tell your brother to stop whining.

I agree with the SO part, but otherwise you really should just let workers have the dignity of a flushing toilet even if you technically don't have to. It's just as rude to deny them that as it is to leave a toilet messy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother complains that his staff either has to drive to McDonald’s or go to the bathroom or has to pay for a jiffy John because of people like you.

Ffs! People have to poop at work. Yea sometimes it’s big and leaves a mark.

What is wrong with you people.

Would you expect your H’s work to treat him the same way you treat this person?

Portapotty comes with the territory - letting a whole crew and potentially their SOs use your toilet for the duration of project isn’t expected. Tell your brother to stop whining.

Oh course but when people want to cut costs and my brother says u can cut the portapotty, ffs your house is being demolished and dust is everywhere but humans can’t poop in your bathroom.

Y’all have issues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother complains that his staff either has to drive to McDonald’s or go to the bathroom or has to pay for a jiffy John because of people like you.

Ffs! People have to poop at work. Yea sometimes it’s big and leaves a mark.

What is wrong with you people.

Would you expect your H’s work to treat him the same way you treat this person?

Portapotty comes with the territory - letting a whole crew and potentially their SOs use your toilet for the duration of project isn’t expected. Tell your brother to stop whining.

I agree with the SO part, but otherwise you really should just let workers have the dignity of a flushing toilet even if you technically don't have to. It's just as rude to deny them that as it is to leave a toilet messy.

This ^^^

Plus the SO might be doing paperwork in the car, or helping at other properties.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother complains that his staff either has to drive to McDonald’s or go to the bathroom or has to pay for a jiffy John because of people like you.

Ffs! People have to poop at work. Yea sometimes it’s big and leaves a mark.

What is wrong with you people.

Would you expect your H’s work to treat him the same way you treat this person?

Portapotty comes with the territory - letting a whole crew and potentially their SOs use your toilet for the duration of project isn’t expected. Tell your brother to stop whining.

Next it will be friends and then friends of friends. One thing leads to another and suddenly you are running a truck stop.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother complains that his staff either has to drive to McDonald’s or go to the bathroom or has to pay for a jiffy John because of people like you.

Ffs! People have to poop at work. Yea sometimes it’s big and leaves a mark.

What is wrong with you people.

Would you expect your H’s work to treat him the same way you treat this person?

Portapotty comes with the territory - letting a whole crew and potentially their SOs use your toilet for the duration of project isn’t expected. Tell your brother to stop whining.

Next it will be friends and then friends of friends. One thing leads to another and suddenly you are running a truck stop.

I laughed out loud, PP. ^

[OP]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t think of a way to make this post less ridiculous. Sorry!

It’s just that I’ve never had a contractor (or their GF) poop when they ask to use the toilet. She did this on two separate occasions when she was with him while he mowed my lawn (which were short visits).

This time, she even left the toilet messy. 😵😵

Again, apologies.

Not asking for advice. 😝😝

(Yes, I will let anyone use my bathroom.)

Dafuq wrong with that beeyatcg

[Anonymous]

Set up a port a potty da faq wrong with you

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Our contractors used the bathroom multiple times. The first time they used the downstairs bathroom and my husband had to tell him that we aren’t maids and aren’t going to clean his mess. After that, the contractors used the new bathroom they installed and left piss and poop all over it. I called the office manager and complained, but they are disgusting people. I’m going to post a review on their page with a picture once the warranty is up.

^Wow, PP!

I’ve been a homeowner for nine years. Over the years, I’ve had many people (men and women) in my house to do work. Many times they’ve used the toilet. I’m pretty certain that this is the very first time someone left my toilet a mess.

Also, if she has IBS or something like that, why travel with your SO as he works, ensuring you have to poop in a bunch of strangers’ bathrooms??

You sound actually considerate. I'm sure you don't prefer to be caught out and about and I sympathize. and I'm sure you also clean, cover up the "different kind of evidence" - Noise?

Yeah, I have IBD and often I have to run to the bathroom, and I hate the idea that "people should poop only at home!" But I still don't like going to the bathroom away from home, and especially not in others' homes, and I make an effort to limit how frequently that happens. If I'm feeling especially funny on one day, I stay home.

Also, not to get too gross, but I think if you have IBS and IBD you don't typically leave skid marks. If you really really can't wait your bathroom emissions leave a different kind of evidence.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Our contractors used the bathroom multiple times. The first time they used the downstairs bathroom and my husband had to tell him that we aren’t maids and aren’t going to clean his mess. After that, the contractors used the new bathroom they installed and left piss and poop all over it. I called the office manager and complained, but they are disgusting people. I’m going to post a review on their page with a picture once the warranty is up.

^Wow, PP!

I’ve been a homeowner for nine years. Over the years, I’ve had many people (men and women) in my house to do work. Many times they’ve used the toilet. I’m pretty certain that this is the very first time someone left my toilet a mess.

Also, if she has IBS or something like that, why travel with your SO as he works, ensuring you have to poop in a bunch of strangers’ bathrooms??

Yeah, I have IBD and often I have to run to the bathroom, and I hate the idea that "people should poop only at home!" But I still don't like going to the bathroom away from home, and especially not in others' homes, and I make an effort to limit how frequently that happens. If I'm feeling especially funny on one day, I stay home.

Also, not to get too gross, but I think if you have IBS and IBD you don't typically leave skid marks. If you really really can't wait your bathroom emissions leave a different kind of evidence.

You sound actually considerate. I'm sure you don't prefer to be caught out and about and I sympathize. and I'm sure you also clean, cover up the "different kind of evidence" - Noise?