Where is this? Ivy? |
HAHAHA - that is definitely not true - but that guy was more than glad to take your money. LOL |
Something sort of similar happened with my family. Parents are alums of a top 30 large/well endowed university, give 5-10k a year. My dad met with the development office a couple of years ago. They initiated the meeting, wanted him to give a bigger donation. When he mentioned 2/4 of his kids attended his alma matter and I got rejected and went to a top 40 school, they said he should have reached out to the admissions/development office when it happened. |
But you're not competing against 90% of the population. You are competing against 40,000 other high school seniors, and 98% of them had much the same privileged "life experiences" as you. |
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They do recruit for an instrument. My neighbor was recruited for one and eventually played in the orchestra. |
It's an interesting dynamic for the universities. Admitting a student vs upsetting an alum and cutting the funding source. I've seen it play out a few ways. There are certainly instances of "pay for play" and generations of financial support beyond the means of most and kids going to schools because it was pre-ordained. I've also seen it lead to multiple "break ups" of alums with colleges, especially where kids don't really want to go to the same school as mom/dad, and that comes across in the application / demonstrated interest etc. to a school being careful about yield protection. I've even heard of schools waitlisting indifferent kids and then asking the family for "more commitment". In some cases the kids are duds and don't meet the new bar; in others the kids are great and ended up at equivalent or better schools who are now getting the donations. |
The only way to stop this form of financial terrorism is for all of us to refuse to provide any further alumni donations! |
| We stopped giving to Notre Dame after our youngest was rejected several years ago. The kid ended up at UVA, so obviously wasn’t a slouch. A courtesy waitlist wouldn’t have killed them. It didn’t really matter to us that the kid had no interest in attending. We still took it as a real slap in the face. |
And the Kennedy’s and the Gores and the Kerry’s and…. There are a heck of a lot more not so bright kids of wealthy alumni that are Democrats in the Ivy League. Let that sink in. |
I'm totally against legacies, but those ^ people are much brighter than Trump or GWB, MUCH more. So, that list doesn't mean what you think it means. |
DP. For most schools, the number of alumni that give at all, much less regularly, is surprisingly low. I’ve given at a lower level and at the 6-figure level (to different schools), and IME, the schools do track who gives regularly at lower levels. At one school, I gave every year, beginning at three figures and going up to four for more than 20 years, and they do track and recognize that. I also received a handwritten note from the development office when my DC was in HS basically saying, “call us if you need anything.” This is a school that regularly gets 7 figure donations. I have also given at 6 figures to a different school (that has a huge endowment), and that gets you a development officer who is your best friend and who will come take you to lunch, invitations to special high dollar donor events, etc. My DC attends the first school, fwiw (although the second is definitely a possibility for graduate school). |
You’ve apparently never met any of the second and third generation Kennedy or Gore kids. Not the sharpest tools in the shed. And I wouldn’t be staking anything on the intelligence of Al Gore or John Kerry, either. Their careers just show how far the right connections and Ivy League credentials can get you.
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No one can be as dumb as Trump. At the least, those people know how to speak like intelligent beings. |
| All of you against legacy admissions, please remember you can contact your schools to let them know your opinions (it is unlikely to change otherwise). Also, remember to have your children leave your school affiliation off their applications. Don't worry, the admissions office won't look you up to provide an unfair advantage you don't want for your kids if it isn't indicated! |