Missing Princeton student found dead

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing, men yes, women no. And were she to attempt such a thing, it wouldn't be in a dramatic fashion, not going to throw herself off of a building, or jump in front of a car, or use a gun. Nope pills in her bedroom.

Nor is a young woman likely to drop dead of some mysterious catastrophic event like a heart attack or stroke. It just doesn't happen.

Also, a young 20-something-year-old woman is highly unlikely to just keel over and drop dead from cancer, while out for a midnight stroll.

I'm going to go with either a boyfriend/suitor who killed her, or she was hit by a car driven by a drunk driver, and subsequently tossed into a ditch. Or accidental alcohol poisoning, or drug OD, and her friends panicked and dumped her somewhere.

Homicide or accident.

Suicides on college campuses are actually up sharply in recent years. It is the number 1 cause of death for college students. 7% of students in college say they have seriously considered suicide.

There were a number of high-profile college student suicides in the Spring, especially among athletes, including a James Madison University softball player.

You sound incredibly ignorant. Maybe you should sit the rest of this discussion out.

And Stanford's WoSo goalkeeper.

No idea whether this was suicide, but sadly, high achievement does not preclude mental health issues. It's tremendously sad.

I think it's probably the opposite - there's probably a correlation with high achievement and mental health issues. Those kids put a lot of pressure on themselves and probably get it from their families too.

Absolutely.

This incredible young woman seemed to have it all before jumping to her death (which a PP said women don't do.)

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/feb/06/who-was-cheslie-kryst-miss-usa

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find it so sad that stuff like this has to be reported in the news at all. If it were my loved one I would not want it in the news. It’s sad that families don’t have that right to privacy.

In this case, with her missing for nearly a week, I would have wanted it in the news for people to be looking for her. Sadly they then had to report the tragic discovery.

[Anonymous]

A freshmen across the hall from me had a brain aneurysm and did literally just drop dead from a natural cause. She told her roommate she had a bad headache for two days, stiff neck, but that was the only warning sign. She wasn't a partier/drinker, etc. It was very sad.

My husband's 29 year old cousin dropped dead at work from a heart aneurysm. Apparently, there were heart issues that ran in the family but they didn't know at the time.

A teen at my high school dropped dead on Metro with a brain aneurysm.

These are rare events, but not unheard of.

[Anonymous]

I suspect they are covering up for a member one of the Social Clubs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My heart hurts for her family and the Princeton community. It is a very difficult loss.

It is incomprehensible that it would take so long to find her. She missed an immigration meeting. I think the police are not giving the full story, or covering up their incompetence at not being able to locate her.

I think they aren't giving the full story intentionally. I think it's an ongoing investigation.

[Anonymous]

Grad and current resident of Princeton here. The timeline is a bit puzzling; her roommates apparently saw her at her dorm at 3 a.m. and she apparently went out very soon after that. I don't know why she would have been walking in that area at 4 a.m. It is conceivable to me that she*++++++ could have been walking there at around 6 a.m. or 7 on the way to the towpath to run, and could have had an aneurysm or sudden heart attack.

I'm also curious whether her phone was on her person when she was found. From my understanding of cell phone location stuff, I think her phone could have been with her and still pinged at the tower in Penns Neck across the river. But if for some reason her phone was not on her, that would be odd.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing, men yes, women no. And were she to attempt such a thing, it wouldn't be in a dramatic fashion, not going to throw herself off of a building, or jump in front of a car, or use a gun. Nope pills in her bedroom.

Nor is a young woman likely to drop dead of some mysterious catastrophic event like a heart attack or stroke. It just doesn't happen.

Also, a young 20-something-year-old woman is highly unlikely to just keel over and drop dead from cancer, while out for a midnight stroll.

I'm going to go with either a boyfriend/suitor who killed her, or she was hit by a car driven by a drunk driver, and subsequently tossed into a ditch. Or accidental alcohol poisoning, or drug OD, and her friends panicked and dumped her somewhere.

Homicide or accident.

You have no idea what your are talking about and saying "Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing" is insensitive and offensive.

Also, saying all women attempt suicide with pills and in a "non dramatic" fashion is BS -- ask me how I know.

Having don’t death investigation in s for years women do not hang or shoot themselves … you can look up the statistics on the fbi website.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing, men yes, women no. And were she to attempt such a thing, it wouldn't be in a dramatic fashion, not going to throw herself off of a building, or jump in front of a car, or use a gun. Nope pills in her bedroom.

Nor is a young woman likely to drop dead of some mysterious catastrophic event like a heart attack or stroke. It just doesn't happen.

Also, a young 20-something-year-old woman is highly unlikely to just keel over and drop dead from cancer, while out for a midnight stroll.

I'm going to go with either a boyfriend/suitor who killed her, or she was hit by a car driven by a drunk driver, and subsequently tossed into a ditch. Or accidental alcohol poisoning, or drug OD, and her friends panicked and dumped her somewhere.

Homicide or accident.

Suicides on college campuses are actually up sharply in recent years. It is the number 1 cause of death for college students. 7% of students in college say they have seriously considered suicide.

There were a number of high-profile college student suicides in the Spring, especially among athletes, including a James Madison University softball player.

You sound incredibly ignorant. Maybe you should sit the rest of this discussion out.

And Stanford's WoSo goalkeeper.

No idea whether this was suicide, but sadly, high achievement does not preclude mental health issues. It's tremendously sad.

I think it's probably the opposite - there's probably a correlation with high achievement and mental health issues. Those kids put a lot of pressure on themselves and probably get it from their families too.

Absolutely.

This incredible young woman seemed to have it all before jumping to her death (which a PP said women don't do.)

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/feb/06/who-was-cheslie-kryst-miss-usa

Just because it happens does not mean it is not rare.

[Anonymous]

Why didn’t her friend notify anybody that she was missing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing, men yes, women no. And were she to attempt such a thing, it wouldn't be in a dramatic fashion, not going to throw herself off of a building, or jump in front of a car, or use a gun. Nope pills in her bedroom.

Nor is a young woman likely to drop dead of some mysterious catastrophic event like a heart attack or stroke. It just doesn't happen.

Also, a young 20-something-year-old woman is highly unlikely to just keel over and drop dead from cancer, while out for a midnight stroll.

I'm going to go with either a boyfriend/suitor who killed her, or she was hit by a car driven by a drunk driver, and subsequently tossed into a ditch. Or accidental alcohol poisoning, or drug OD, and her friends panicked and dumped her somewhere.

Homicide or accident.

You have no idea what your are talking about and saying "Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing" is insensitive and offensive.

Also, saying all women attempt suicide with pills and in a "non dramatic" fashion is BS -- ask me how I know.

Having don’t death investigation in s for years women do not hang or shoot themselves … you can look up the statistics on the fbi website.

I personally (unfortunately) know 3 young women (ages 20-25 at the times of their deaths) who died by suicide. 1 hung herself in her dorm room, 1 shot herself in her house, 1 ODd on painkillers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Grad and current resident of Princeton here. The timeline is a bit puzzling; her roommates apparently saw her at her dorm at 3 a.m. and she apparently went out very soon after that. I don't know why she would have been walking in that area at 4 a.m. It is conceivable to me that she*++++++ could have been walking there at around 6 a.m. or 7 on the way to the towpath to run, and could have had an aneurysm or sudden heart attack.

I'm also curious whether her phone was on her person when she was found. From my understanding of cell phone location stuff, I think her phone could have been with her and still pinged at the tower in Penns Neck across the river. But if for some reason her phone was not on her, that would be odd.

I read that the phone and “other personal effects” were on her when they found her.

[Anonymous]

I find it so sad that stuff like this has to be reported in the news at all. If it were my loved one I would not want it in the news. It’s sad that families don’t have that right to privacy.

Most people read that there were no signs of foul play and assume that's the truth and that they have no business knowing more. Not everyone, clearly, based on the relentless speculation here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing, men yes, women no. And were she to attempt such a thing, it wouldn't be in a dramatic fashion, not going to throw herself off of a building, or jump in front of a car, or use a gun. Nope pills in her bedroom.

Nor is a young woman likely to drop dead of some mysterious catastrophic event like a heart attack or stroke. It just doesn't happen.

Also, a young 20-something-year-old woman is highly unlikely to just keel over and drop dead from cancer, while out for a midnight stroll.

I'm going to go with either a boyfriend/suitor who killed her, or she was hit by a car driven by a drunk driver, and subsequently tossed into a ditch. Or accidental alcohol poisoning, or drug OD, and her friends panicked and dumped her somewhere.

Homicide or accident.

You have no idea what your are talking about and saying "Suicide amongst women at university isn't really much of a thing" is insensitive and offensive.

Also, saying all women attempt suicide with pills and in a "non dramatic" fashion is BS -- ask me how I know.

Having don’t death investigation in s for years women do not hang or shoot themselves … you can look up the statistics on the fbi website.

I personally (unfortunately) know 3 young women (ages 20-25 at the times of their deaths) who died by suicide. 1 hung herself in her dorm room, 1 shot herself in her house, 1 ODd on painkillers.

Kate Spade hung herself/on doorknob; Naomi Judd shot herself. Miss USA jumped to her death.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand how criminal activity has been ruled out for someone missing for six days

Exactly.

A suicide note would probably do that? I’m not saying she did I don’t know anything just thinking that would probably do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Police have ruled out criminal activity related to her death, so it was probably something related to mental health.

Incredibly sad.

They didn’t rule it out. They’ve just said not yet. She was outside for 6 days, hard to tell. If they don’t have a suspect yet they’re not going to announce that.

Yes and the two areas often have gray areas because young people with mental illnesses often have diminished judgement and are more likely to place themselves in highly risky situations.