| if you are aiming for T20, of course it matters, even DC with all A's in magnet, very high SAT and above average EC is not keeping his hope up for those schools. |
There is a section for additional information on the common app. She could put it there or better would be to have the finale or mention medical issues and how she overcame them in the recommendation. |
It might depend in part on other things, like what program he is applying to. For an unhooked boy applying for CS, one low grade will matter. For a boy applying for humanities, it might not. Similarly, a kid applying for theater can get away with lower grades. Point is, some majors are more competitive than others and for some demographics matter a lot. |
What is this notion that a kid in theatre can have lower grades. That is ridiculous unless it is an audition based bfa possibly. |
You are certainly screwed if an Asian boy trying to get in CS/STEM. |
Struck a nerve I guess. It absolutely does matter the program/major and some are less competitive and more grade reliant than others. Be happy your DC got into a good school for theater but that absolutely does not mean a kid with similar grades would get in for CS. And audition based programs like CMU are 80% based on audition and academic portfolio makes up only 20%. |
Thank you! |
| This thread depresses me. The notion that one bad grade or a handful of Bs derails kids’ chances when they are otherwise strong applicants is really a bummer for these kids. Yes, there is more to life than top-ranked colleges and they will all be fine regardless, but given that rising seniors have spent most of their high school years in a pandemic, it would be nice if they could just catch a break without having to justify why one grade doesn’t reflect who they are as a student. |
So pick a university that is not "top-ranked/elite" and outside of the T20 and the one grade won't "derail them". The fact is there are way more qualified people applying for a limited number of spots at these top universities; so nothing is a high probability. Also know that even if they got all As and took 7 APs each year and a 1580 SAT, there is still a good chance they wont get into a T20 school. It's a lottery, their scores/hard work earn them the chance to purchase a lottery ticket, but ultimately, 90-95% of the highly qualified students get turned down at these schools. Buying a ticket to all 20 only increases your chances slightly (same as buying 1 vs 20 tickets in a $500M powerball lottery---not much difference). If you raised your kids right, they know their worth and would have planned to have amazing Targets and Safety schools, would get into 75%+ of those (if done right) and would have excellent choices. If you focus on just the elite schools you are setting your DC up for disappointment, which is just sad. My own DC did not get into the 2 T30 school they applied to. Got waitlisted at the T30 and rejected in RD after being deferred ED. But they got into ALL of their targets and safeties and had an excellent list to choose from. In many ways, I think they will be happier at their choice than they might have been at the other 2 (it's a better fit than the WL school). My DC is going to a T40 school (only ranked 4 below the WL'd school if rankings matter--they don't really for me). They didn't have to "settle" because they found true targets to apply to that they wanted to attend. |
But realistically-the kid with straight As through high school and the kid with a handful of Bs or a D are fundamentally different students. I have both in my family (in fact they're twins) and they're very, very different kids and frankly they shouldn't be going to the same college. their work ethics, academic inclinations, etc are quite different. |
If rankings don't matter to you, why even mention that your DC wound up at a T40 school ranked only 4 spots below the WL school? It wasn't at all necessary to do so for the valid points you made. |
BINGO A kid that gets a handful of B's and a random C/D is extremely different than someone with a 3.95+ UW gpa. |
+1 I have a kid who does care a lot about school but gets a mix of As and Bs and ended up with a C in junior year. ADHD challenges are a big reason for her mixed grades. She really doesn't belong at an elite college and that's fine. She'll have plenty of options that are a better fit for her. |
This just isn’t true. My older son took all most rigorous classes - through linear algebra and AP physics, and graduated with all As and a handful of Bs. My younger who is a rising HS senior also takes rigorous classes but a notch below (AP calculus AB instead of BC, AP envt’l science instead of physics, won’t take AP world language until senior year), and is on track to graduate with a 4.0. Both are equally strong students, I’d argue the older was always up for more academic challenge, and the younger has been able to avoid Bs by taking AB calc, etc. |
You just stated the older "was up for more academically challenge". Well that is the difference often times between those who attend "elite" and the next level of colleges. Your 2nd kid is obviously very smart too, but not as self motivated as the other, or he'd have taken the more "rigorous" courses. Both will do extremely well, and will thrive wherever they go. But the first will have a better chance at an Elite admission. |