DCUM: Teach me how to attract a rich man

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Anonymous wrote:Being hot will get you plenty of dates with rich men, but they tend to marry their professional equals. That’s not to say the wives won’t SAH or step back in their careers when the kids are born, but the biglaw partners aren’t really marrying the cute secretaries anymore.

The key is to find a rich guy who is short or ugly, they will appreciate just having a hot girl show interest.

-1000 Short ugly guys might think "She must have low self-esteem and can be walked on." Unless he has high self-esteem, these guys kiss butt to the girls who treat them badly, and take it out on kind girls.

But the problem with wealthy and conventionally attractive men is they have tons of options and will be very picky both in looks and your own status. And tons will cheat or just use you for sex without committing. Harder to get one of these guys if all you bring to the table is looks.

not really. Not all wealthy attractive men are extroverts. Most are lonely and not picky. Why do only women respond to these? women know nothing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hire a trainer and a nutritionist and get in great shape. Get some implants and start attending events that rich guys would frequent.

Do not get implants.

+1 Does not attract classy and rich, maybe rich and cheesy/slimy.

She did not mention "classy," she said rich. And there are plenty rich men who don't have class and don't seem to be looking for it. Ex. Elon Musk. Are you familiar with this girlfriend??

Elon only dates libra women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be 35+ extremely introverted and bookish enjoy hobbies like nature, and gardening. A slightly awkward plain Jane whose quirkiness is also charming and endearing.
Become a caregiver to his ailing father during which time he becomes smitten with you.
You must make it clear his wealth does not impress you. Use your wit to best him a few times which will infuriate him but also draw him in.

Have some sort of accident like falling off a horse where he saves you and allows you to be vulnerable. He opens up to you about how he really wanted to be a mine chef or something but couldn't because of the family business.

He will invite you to some fancy to do and though in your day to day you're a plain Jane you clean up to look like a supermodel.
You get a grown and make over from his sister because I don't really know why but you do

You dance and kiss and then freak out and have a petty argument because your in LOVE!!! You fly back to your small home town where you live with your elderly quirky mom who just wants you to settle down and have the BABIES! He tracks you down and shows up in a limo and suit looking handsome AF and does his best impression of Hugh Grant as he stumbles over his words telling you how he can't live without you and he's be forever humbled if you accept his proposal. You cry and mumble something that can't be understood and standing there in your UGG boots and pajamas and your gold retriever peeing on his leg you accept.

You marry 6 months later in a charming ceremony and live a happy billionaire life


LOL!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Being hot will get you plenty of dates with rich men, but they tend to marry their professional equals. That’s not to say the wives won’t SAH or step back in their careers when the kids are born, but the biglaw partners aren’t really marrying the cute secretaries anymore.

The key is to find a rich guy who is short or ugly, they will appreciate just having a hot girl show interest.

Nah, the short or ugly ones also marry within their own social or professional circles, even if the women aren’t hot.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Remember to be THIN THIN THIN!

Why is this? Do men go for this a lot? Why?

Eats less, so more money can stay invested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hire a trainer and a nutritionist and get in great shape. Get some implants and start attending events that rich guys would frequent.

Looks trashy, don't do this

[Anonymous]

Be attractive, thin, but not "high maintenance" looking.

If a man is very wealthy, over 30 and single, there is a reason he didn't marry a law school/med school/ ivy league classmate. They aren't his type. You don't need to try and be that.

You have to be able to somewhat fit in with his social circle looks wise, but also find a way to be interesting and set yourself apart.

Whoever mentioned the Army is actually not wrong. While you won't meet wealthy men there, is a piece of your life that most men will find fascinating and different (once you are out).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be attractive, thin, but not "high maintenance" looking.

If a man is very wealthy, over 30 and single, there is a reason he didn't marry a law school/med school/ ivy league classmate. They aren't his type. You don't need to try and be that.

You have to be able to somewhat fit in with his social circle looks wise, but also find a way to be interesting and set yourself apart.

Whoever mentioned the Army is actually not wrong. While you won't meet wealthy men there, is a piece of your life that most men will find fascinating and different (once you are out).

Huh. This is kind of true. But at what cost!

-met a generationally rich husband who immediately retired me from the military

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If you are ugly, you need to be very successful.

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Anonymous wrote:Being hot will get you plenty of dates with rich men, but they tend to marry their professional equals. That’s not to say the wives won’t SAH or step back in their careers when the kids are born, but the biglaw partners aren’t really marrying the cute secretaries anymore.

The key is to find a rich guy who is short or ugly, they will appreciate just having a hot girl show interest.

Nah, the short or ugly ones also marry within their own social or professional circles, even if the women aren’t hot.

Maybe the old money types do that but those are the minority of rich men. A man who had trouble getting girls before he became rich will want to indulge in attractive women, otherwise what's the point of all that hard work clawing your way up? Life's too short to date unattractive women when you have the means to date up in looks. Men think with their d*cks.

[Anonymous]

From my friends who married rich:

- one is a pretty but chubby blonde with a BA from a no-name school. She married her husband when they were 25 as he was in the military, she promptly quit her job and became a stay at home wife and then mom within a year.
- another is a gorgeous middle eastern woman with a BA from a no name school. Met her rich trust fund white husband at work. He had a great job and family money.
- another is a pretty mid western girl with a graduate degree from a no name school. Met her husband in school, he started his own business and makes millions per year. She promptly quit working after marriage and is a sahm

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Anonymous wrote:A low SES woman is highly unlikely to ever meet, let alone date and marry, a very, very rich man. These men tend to meet and marry within their own social circles.

You'll have more luck marrying a man who is on his way up (e.g., an engineer at a tech company that has not yet gone public) or, as others have suggested, a medical or legal professional. If you didn't meet and marry one of these in college, then your best bet is meeting them at work. People in all these fields tend to have really intense work hours, so that's where they are on Friday nights.

As others have suggested, it's also helpful to be an attractive partner yourself. Thin (for sure), attractive and stylish but not stunning, and though you don't have to be wealthy already, you can't be a total mess. You should be working on your own career and achievements, and have a budget and savings.

This comment is spot on and most of all, realistic.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A low SES woman is highly unlikely to ever meet, let alone date and marry, a very, very rich man. These men tend to meet and marry within their own social circles.

You'll have more luck marrying a man who is on his way up (e.g., an engineer at a tech company that has not yet gone public) or, as others have suggested, a medical or legal professional. If you didn't meet and marry one of these in college, then your best bet is meeting them at work. People in all these fields tend to have really intense work hours, so that's where they are on Friday nights.

As others have suggested, it's also helpful to be an attractive partner yourself. Thin (for sure), attractive and stylish but not stunning, and though you don't have to be wealthy already, you can't be a total mess. You should be working on your own career and achievements, and have a budget and savings.

Why do people say “low SES” rather than poor?

Because it's called having tact.

Someone of high SES understands this.

[Anonymous]

My childhood best friend married rich (met him at an arcade, of all places). He's smart and kind, but also short and unattractive.

My friend is beautiful - always had all the good looking, popular guys chasing after her in high school and college. She's also very smart and kind, though had zero career ambitions and knew she wanted to marry young and be a young SAHM so she didn't want no scrubs, so to speak, and was willing to compromise on looks.

So it can be done if you're not his social or professional equal, but you'll probably have to compromise on something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be 35+ extremely introverted and bookish enjoy hobbies like nature, and gardening. A slightly awkward plain Jane whose quirkiness is also charming and endearing.
Become a caregiver to his ailing father during which time he becomes smitten with you.
You must make it clear his wealth does not impress you. Use your wit to best him a few times which will infuriate him but also draw him in.

Have some sort of accident like falling off a horse where he saves you and allows you to be vulnerable. He opens up to you about how he really wanted to be a mine chef or something but couldn't because of the family business.

He will invite you to some fancy to do and though in your day to day you're a plain Jane you clean up to look like a supermodel.
You get a grown and make over from his sister because I don't really know why but you do

You dance and kiss and then freak out and have a petty argument because your in LOVE!!! You fly back to your small home town where you live with your elderly quirky mom who just wants you to settle down and have the BABIES! He tracks you down and shows up in a limo and suit looking handsome AF and does his best impression of Hugh Grant as he stumbles over his words telling you how he can't live without you and he's be forever humbled if you accept his proposal. You cry and mumble something that can't be understood and standing there in your UGG boots and pajamas and your gold retriever peeing on his leg you accept.

You marry 6 months later in a charming ceremony and live a happy billionaire life

Hahaha - well done!