Male masseuse offered me a ‘sensual massage’ towards the end of our session. What the heck is that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.groupon.com/deals/bliss-reflexology-12?deal_option=8a2c3887-67df-4e64-9fba-2a046c729b8b#This is a 90-minute groupon with reviews of male masseuses. OP, if he touched you against your consent in your bikini line, you need to report this.

Bikini line is part of the massage. Would you be saying the same thing if it was a woman?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:https://www.groupon.com/deals/bliss-reflexology-12?deal_option=8a2c3887-67df-4e64-9fba-2a046c729b8b#This is a 90-minute groupon with reviews of male masseuses. OP, if he touched you against your consent in your bikini line, you need to report this.

Bikini line is part of the massage. Would you be saying the same thing if it was a woman?

YES--100%.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:https://www.groupon.com/deals/bliss-reflexology-12?deal_option=8a2c3887-67df-4e64-9fba-2a046c729b8b#This is a 90-minute groupon with reviews of male masseuses. OP, if he touched you against your consent in your bikini line, you need to report this.

Bikini line is part of the massage. Would you be saying the same thing if it was a woman?

YES--100%. In fact, there was boy getting molested by a female teacher at my MS. Part of the reason I advocate against this kind of thing.

[Anonymous]

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Bikini line is part of the massage. Would you be saying the same thing if it was a woman?

I'm a female who has had hundreds of massages over decades and never had my bikini line touched.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Excuse the music. This is a sensual massage. It doesn’t always involve happy endings

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42wHuw/

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42c3Yq/

If a man did that to me I’d marry him on the spot, have at least a dozen of his babies, and never look at another man again.

I know right? That’s way better than Outlander.

Dang.
https://instagram.com/emmanuellustinmt

That is skeevy as hell I’m sorry. The women shouldn’t be all exposed like that, massage therapists are supposed to cover you with a sheet or a gown like when you’re at the doctor.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Excuse the music. This is a sensual massage. It doesn’t always involve happy endings

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42wHuw/

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42c3Yq/

If a man did that to me I’d marry him on the spot, have at least a dozen of his babies, and never look at another man again.

I know right? That’s way better than Outlander.

Dang.
https://instagram.com/emmanuellustinmt

Although possible offscreen, I doubt these have happy endings. My guess is this is what is considered a sensual massage this day in age.

One of the guys IG tags is Pu**y is mine." But it's not sexual.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Excuse the music. This is a sensual massage. It doesn’t always involve happy endings

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42wHuw/

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42c3Yq/

If a man did that to me I’d marry him on the spot, have at least a dozen of his babies, and never look at another man again.

I know right? That’s way better than Outlander.

Dang.
https://instagram.com/emmanuellustinmt

Although possible offscreen, I doubt these have happy endings. My guess is this is what is considered a sensual massage this day in age.

One of the guys IG tags is Pu**y is mine." But it's not sexual.

PP, my point is sensual doesn’t automatically mean a happy ending

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jealous. That's my #1 fantasy. I can't see an attractive male massage therapist because if he offered, I'd say yes.

Total fantasy here too but if it happened to me I would never be able to go through with it!

[Anonymous]

Honestly it can’t be any weirder than the droves of women who go to the spa in Centreville and sit around naked all day. That does not sound like a fun spa day to me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Jealous. That's my #1 fantasy. I can't see an attractive male massage therapist because if he offered, I'd say yes.

That’s the thing - he wasn’t attractive and I’m still fairly certain he’s gay.

I *think* I know the place/massage therapist you’re referring to!!!! He’s Filipino, right? Yes - he’s gay. And yes, you should’ve taken him up on it! Because he is absolutely gifted

And no, I’m NOT naming the place or him, because I LIKE him!

NP,

If you can share — what exactly did he do for the “massage”?

I’m the PP you quoted:

Without being too graphic, the best part about it was the slow, teasing build-up to it. After he asked me, and implied what it meant, he kept on with the regular massage for another ten minutes (he’s very good, btw). At this point I actually started wondering what was even going happen because nothing was different. I was just starting to get impatient when he started to lighten his touch to simply tracing his fingers around on me, gradually getting closer and closer. Another five minutes of this and I was practically quivering as he eventually zeroed in. And by that time I was so worked up with the anticipation/forbidden-fruit aspect of it all that I was finished after he only spent about a minute on me. It was very intense, I was flushed and sweaty and almost spasmodic. I’ve tried to teach my H how to do it with the long drawn out denial and slow build up, but he’s too impatient. Sigh. So I go back every couple months. Subsequent times have never been as hot as that first time, but that was mostly due to the novelty/excitement of it. I know what he’s going to do now, but it’s still really good. I’m a sucker for delayed gratification! I tip him very well. He earns it. And it’s so funny to me that a gay man can be so much better at pleasuring a woman than any guy I’ve ever been with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly it can’t be any weirder than the droves of women who go to the spa in Centreville and sit around naked all day. That does not sound like a fun spa day to me.

To meet other women?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Excuse the music. This is a sensual massage. It doesn’t always involve happy endings

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42wHuw/

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42c3Yq/

If a man did that to me I’d marry him on the spot, have at least a dozen of his babies, and never look at another man again.

I know right? That’s way better than Outlander.

Dang.
https://instagram.com/emmanuellustinmt

Although possible offscreen, I doubt these have happy endings. My guess is this is what is considered a sensual massage this day in age.

One of the guys IG tags is Pu**y is mine." But it's not sexual.

This definitely not the same guy I see (Filipino and gay). That is way to crass for him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Excuse the music. This is a sensual massage. It doesn’t always involve happy endings

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42wHuw/

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTd42c3Yq/

If a man did that to me I’d marry him on the spot, have at least a dozen of his babies, and never look at another man again.

My husband does this every so often. It is 99% to get some but 1% is on the random occasion when I'm so exhausted and tired but amped so this puts me to sleep and then he leaves me alone for the rest of the night.
My love language is touch and acts of service - this covers both.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is fake. Didn’t happen.

Why would I lie about this? It’s not fake.

I am a NP and it happened to me on vacation in the DR. I took him up on the offer.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm going to need to know who gifted you this. Because I feel like they knew....

It was my best friend of 12 years. I guarantee she didn’t know. She lives far away and got a Groupon for a massage that was near my job.

Haha! I know here you went. I described it to a friend as a place that seemed like it would give a happy ending.