Anonymous wrote:These poor kids. Seriously, it’s no wonder mental health issues among teens are so rampant. I say this as a parent of a kid who I would describe as high stats based on PPs definitions who I wish would just spend the next year doing what makes him happy instead of worrying about competing on this level.
Yeah, I have one too. With magnet, serious musical instrument, other big ecs, volunteering and sports, it gets to be too much. Every coach/teacher thinks their thing should be ultimate priority. DD is very accomplished, but it's easy to feel less than because of expectations and the kids who never sleep to study/practice/train better. And, then the top college rejections. It has been a growing experience to work through it and learn to choose and be happy with herself. Of course, it helps she's getting a some college love now.
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