Slept with ex husband when touring colleges for DD

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting that you were touring colleges together. Without your spouses? What were the sleeping arrangements?

That was my thought - along with wonder where the DD was. Those answers will determine how much of a setup this might have been.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah but if you have a baby boy as a result, please don't call him Gene.

Gene was not a result of the tryst between Don and Betty at Bobby's camp. Gene was a last ditch effort to test her love for Don as she watched her father in deep decline and the guilt-ridden relief she felt when she saw her father's new wife take care of him, thus relieving her of the responsibility. She thought it was her duty to try and stay married for everyone involved.

The fling at Bobby's camp was completely between exes, no new spouses were ever told, and it softened the relationship between Don and Betty for both parenting and her ultimate demise.

Which movie is this from?

[Anonymous]

How was it???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah but if you have a baby boy as a result, please don't call him Gene.

Gene was not a result of the tryst between Don and Betty at Bobby's camp. Gene was a last ditch effort to test her love for Don as she watched her father in deep decline and the guilt-ridden relief she felt when she saw her father's new wife take care of him, thus relieving her of the responsibility. She thought it was her duty to try and stay married for everyone involved.

The fling at Bobby's camp was completely between exes, no new spouses were ever told, and it softened the relationship between Don and Betty for both parenting and her ultimate demise.

Which movie is this from?

Not a movie. It’s from the TV series, “Mad Men.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting that you were touring colleges together. Without your spouses? What were the sleeping arrangements?

Due to Covid, most college tours will only allow the student to bring a max of 2 guests. The entire family can’t participate in the tour, so if you had to pick I imagine it would be the parents.

[Anonymous]

The thought of doing this makes me vomit. My ex repels me. I guess it’s good that you don’t feel the same.

[Anonymous]

you masturbated with your ExH pecker... do you tell your you current husband every time you masturbate..

don't tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Was it great sex? I'm going to guess it wasn't. And it probably surprised both of you that it wasn't too good.

Asking the real questions here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was it great sex? I'm going to guess it wasn't. And it probably surprised both of you that it wasn't too good.

Asking the real questions here.

+1
You sure he isn't your soulmate?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You both are trash and I hope your spouses find out.

Judgey McJudgerson in the glass house.

Yup I judge cheaters. And if you cheat you're trash too.

I'm wondering if their marriage ended because one of them cheated and if one of these 2nd marriages is with the OW/OM.

[Anonymous]

One for the road? You were on tour...

[Anonymous]

My XH is the last man on earth who is want to sleep with and he’s a good looking guy and we get along really well. I can’t imagine this is real. If it is it’s so gross.

[Anonymous]

Don't tell only for your DDs sake.

I'm pretty sure my divorced parents hooked up while I was in college (a friend spotted my moms car in front of my dads late at night) and it really, really messed with my head.

Neither of them were remarried though my dad has a serious gf

[Anonymous]

you can have great sex with someone that you absolutely no longer want to have a relationship with.
Don't tell because it will do nothing but make it all worse. And don't do it again. And if you still have a sexual attraction to exH, don't ever create another situation where you would be tempted (e.g., college drop-off).
You screwed up. You were in a situation where you are encountering a life milestone (kid going away to college) about the life you created together. I can see how it could happen. Your ex is right.

[Anonymous]

Definitely take this one to the grave.

There is zero good that will come out of this if you disclose this to your spouse.

It will only create problems that you are much better off without right now.