Slept with ex husband when touring colleges for DD

[Anonymous]

So ashamed. Both of us are happily remarried. It was a one-time nostalgia thing. I feel physically ill. He does not plan to tell his wife and says we should just forget about it. Help.

[Anonymous]

Do that. Don’t tell. What would you gain?

[Anonymous]

Take a deep breath and when you’re feeling better, figure out how you can be honest with your husband because he deserves to know who he is married to.

[Anonymous]

Never tell because it never happened. Weirdos telling you to do so have their own baggage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Take a deep breath and when you’re feeling better, figure out how you can be honest with your husband because he deserves to know who he is married to.

Nooooooo. Don’t do this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do that. Don’t tell. What would you gain?

Seriously— would you tell for your benefit or theirs? Let it go

[Anonymous]

Keep your mouth shut. Nothing good will come of it, and if anyone deserves to feel bad after the event, it’s the cheater not the cheated upon. If you tell, you’re transferring your guilt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do that. Don’t tell. What would you gain?

Seriously— would you tell for your benefit or theirs? Let it go

Agree. No good can come from telling. Just move on. It isn’t great, but we are all human and make mistakes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Keep your mouth shut. Nothing good will come of it, and if anyone deserves to feel bad after the event, it’s the cheater not the cheated upon. If you tell, you’re transferring your guilt.

This. Shut up and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Keep your mouth shut. Nothing good will come of it, and if anyone deserves to feel bad after the event, it’s the cheater not the cheated upon. If you tell, you’re transferring your guilt.

no, it takes 2.

[Anonymous]

Agree with everyone to not tell. I really hope your DD doesn't have an inkling either, because that is really going to mess with her head as she's starting to think about college, testing, etc.

[Anonymous]

One of great truths is that exes sleep together. As you said nostalgia

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So ashamed. Both of us are happily remarried. It was a one-time nostalgia thing. I feel physically ill. He does not plan to tell his wife and says we should just forget about it. Help.

Deny till you die bro. No good can come of telling. Obviously never do it again.

[Anonymous]

I swear there was an identical thread a few months ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One of great truths is that exes sleep together. As you said nostalgia

I can’t fathom sleeping with my ex ever again, and we get along pretty well and neither of us is remarried. Do very many people do that?