How Does a 45 YO Married Male Know He is Attractive

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Anonymous wrote:If you have kids (or a dog), women chatting you up when you’re at the park with them is a pretty reliable sign. Or chatting at the gym (assuming you are not wearing a mask- I find it’s very hard to tell someone’s facial features while they have one on).

God please don’t say that. I am not romantically interested in every dad I make conversation with at the playground. Give me a break!

Lol, I'm a mid-40's married dad and have had tons of conversations with moms at the park and not once did I ever think it meant they were interested in me.

I'm also a mid 40s married man and I can guarantee there are at least a half dozen women at my kid's playground that would love to sleep with me. It's brutally obvious.

Obvious how, killer?

Because women love me. Always have. They blush when I speak with them. Get nervous looking at me.

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Anonymous wrote:If you have kids (or a dog), women chatting you up when you’re at the park with them is a pretty reliable sign. Or chatting at the gym (assuming you are not wearing a mask- I find it’s very hard to tell someone’s facial features while they have one on).

God please don’t say that. I am not romantically interested in every dad I make conversation with at the playground. Give me a break!

Lol, I'm a mid-40's married dad and have had tons of conversations with moms at the park and not once did I ever think it meant they were interested in me.

I'm also a mid 40s married man and I can guarantee there are at least a half dozen women at my kid's playground that would love to sleep with me. It's brutally obvious.

Obvious how, killer?

Because women love me. Always have. They blush when I speak with them. Get nervous looking at me.

My permanent state is friendly, nervous and blushing. This must be why the grossest dads make passes at me or comment positively on my looks. I am not good looking nor am I interested in any man (other than dh) or woman. After covid dads are acting way more flirty and I just made the decision earlier this year to no longer address them unless they are safe long time friends. It was never like this before, I don't know what has gotten into people.

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Anonymous wrote:If you have kids (or a dog), women chatting you up when you’re at the park with them is a pretty reliable sign. Or chatting at the gym (assuming you are not wearing a mask- I find it’s very hard to tell someone’s facial features while they have one on).

God please don’t say that. I am not romantically interested in every dad I make conversation with at the playground. Give me a break!

Lol, I'm a mid-40's married dad and have had tons of conversations with moms at the park and not once did I ever think it meant they were interested in me.

I'm also a mid 40s married man and I can guarantee there are at least a half dozen women at my kid's playground that would love to sleep with me. It's brutally obvious.

Obvious how, killer?

Because women love me. Always have. They blush when I speak with them. Get nervous looking at me.

My permanent state is friendly, nervous and blushing. This must be why the grossest dads make passes at me or comment positively on my looks. I am not good looking nor am I interested in any man (other than dh) or woman. After covid dads are acting way more flirty and I just made the decision earlier this year to no longer address them unless they are safe long time friends. It was never like this before, I don't know what has gotten into people.

It could be Covid but I think it's more that as you get older and talk to men who have been married a while they are starved for sex and affection and crave attention from any woman. Married men are lonely and desperate

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For me it's the moms who come up at events to "ask my thoughts on the coach", or "sometime I'd love to get coffee and get your opinion on whether I should get solar for my home"...it isn't exactly subtle.

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Anonymous wrote:If you have kids (or a dog), women chatting you up when you’re at the park with them is a pretty reliable sign. Or chatting at the gym (assuming you are not wearing a mask- I find it’s very hard to tell someone’s facial features while they have one on).

God please don’t say that. I am not romantically interested in every dad I make conversation with at the playground. Give me a break!

Lol, I'm a mid-40's married dad and have had tons of conversations with moms at the park and not once did I ever think it meant they were interested in me.

I'm also a mid 40s married man and I can guarantee there are at least a half dozen women at my kid's playground that would love to sleep with me. It's brutally obvious.

Obvious how, killer?

Because women love me. Always have. They blush when I speak with them. Get nervous looking at me.

Honestly, I don’t want to sleep with men when I behave that way. I react that way when I find men overbearing. Totally could just be my personal reaction, but it is what that means.

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Anonymous wrote:For me it's the moms who come up at events to "ask my thoughts on the coach", or "sometime I'd love to get coffee and get your opinion on whether I should get solar for my home"...it isn't exactly subtle.

What makes you think women would use men's pickup lines to get your attention?

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Anonymous wrote:For me it's the moms who come up at events to "ask my thoughts on the coach", or "sometime I'd love to get coffee and get your opinion on whether I should get solar for my home"...it isn't exactly subtle.

What makes you think women would use men's pickup lines to get your attention?

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How 'bout that sportsball game last night?

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Anonymous wrote:If you have kids (or a dog), women chatting you up when you’re at the park with them is a pretty reliable sign. Or chatting at the gym (assuming you are not wearing a mask- I find it’s very hard to tell someone’s facial features while they have one on).

God please don’t say that. I am not romantically interested in every dad I make conversation with at the playground. Give me a break!

Lol, I'm a mid-40's married dad and have had tons of conversations with moms at the park and not once did I ever think it meant they were interested in me.

I'm also a mid 40s married man and I can guarantee there are at least a half dozen women at my kid's playground that would love to sleep with me. It's brutally obvious.

Obvious how, killer?

Because women love me. Always have. They blush when I speak with them. Get nervous looking at me.

Honestly, I don’t want to sleep with men when I behave that way. I react that way when I find men overbearing. Totally could just be my personal reaction, but it is what that means.

+1 when I’m attracted to a guy I feel relaxed and happy. If he’s coming on way too strong in an obnoxious way I feel really uncomfortable.

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LOL at the fat cows shooting down the guy that women love.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL at the fat cows shooting down the guy that women love.

This exchange sums up my early relationships. (Think teenager)

Guy: I know you want me. I want you.
Me: um, thanks but I’m not that attracted to you and I’m actually interested in someone else.
Guy: (Insert some weird attack/body slam)
Me; Kay then. Bye.

I got better at staying away and letting people down.

PP- better days will come you don’t need to insult. you will figure it out.

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I guess i mean dating life, not relationships.

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I look in the mirror.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL at the fat cows shooting down the guy that women love.

No man, those ARE the women who love him!

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If he is attractive he gets sex anytime he wants.

[Anonymous]

Guy here. This week, at a work event I had my boss’s boss tell me that I looked good and a 20 something comment on my looks as well, both within an hour of each other. I’m hapily married and not interested but it was nice getting complements.