He called me a bitch.

[Anonymous]

We had a fight and I told him out relationship was over. He tried to get me to stay but I refused. He texted me once I left and told me " We could of been happy. Too bad you were such a bitch and won't let that happen".

We have been seeing each other for four months. We were happy until this point. Our fight was him over trying to plan out our lives to fit his expectations and he was moving way too fast. What's sad is I love him and wmay to give in but I refuse to let any man disrespect me. I have never called him names or raised my voice at him.

[Anonymous]

You are blessed. You dodged a bullet. You do not love someone who disrespects you. He has shown you who he is and don't be fooled by going back.

[Anonymous]

Run

[Anonymous]

I'd break up with him for misusing "of" instead of have. You're better off.

[Anonymous]

Been together with my current wife for 18 years. You know how often I've called her a name like that? 0 times.

[Anonymous]

I might get ridiculed but a lot of people say things they will later regret in a heated conversation. Right? He has reached out five times since then apologizing. Maybe I overreacted?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I might get ridiculed but a lot of people say things they will later regret in a heated conversation. Right? He has reached out five times since then apologizing. Maybe I overreacted?

But there are some things you never say. And you know that abusers profusely apologize and reach out to their victims, right? You did not overreact. Do not respond and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I might get ridiculed but a lot of people say things they will later regret in a heated conversation. Right? He has reached out five times since then apologizing. Maybe I overreacted?

If you go back to him you deserve every second of your future misery. Or maybe you're a troll. I hope you're a troll.

[Anonymous]

Move on. He's shown you his real face. Unacceptable.

[Anonymous]

Also, think back to the fight itself. You dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd break up with him for misusing "of" instead of have. You're better off.

Haha. This.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's because you aren't married to a bitch?

[Anonymous]

Anyone who blames you exclusively ('you are such a bitch') and doesn't acknowledge his own role is a red-flagged psycho.

This is classic "give me what I want" or I explode.

[Anonymous]

You broke up with him BEFORE he called you a bitch. Is that reason no longer valid? Or do you just like drama and threaten stupid shit for the hell of it?

[Anonymous]

I'd have dumped him for the poor English. You dodged a bullet.