Yeah a 4000 square foot McMansion in exurbia is so much more prestigious than a Park Avenue apartment.
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Hyperbole helps no one, you knew what PP was saying |
The only people I know who have actually bought in NYC got into a Co-op in TriBeCa when the area was -relatively- cheaper. The rest don't bother, not necessarily because they can't, but because they don't think its worth it. Manhattan itself can be transient- a great place to live when you're single, a young couple, etc. but not necessarily when you have school aged kids. My cousin and her husband rent a two bedroom in the Village and figure by the time their one year old is ready for kindergarten they'll have either moved to Boston or find a home in the burbs. But for now they like the convenience of the city, and would probably laugh if someone said they were lower class because they rent. |
Actually I dont. Home ownership is not the definition of middle class, no matter how much you may wish it to be so. If this webpage is true, 69% of New York city residents rent. In what world is 69% of a city like NY lower class? http://www.nakedapartments.com/guides/nyc/renting-in-new-york-city/high-demand-low-supply |
This. In fact, the rich are paupers on paper
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Or just decide to become a more invovled parent. |
I think I get it now. PP who so desperately wants to be called middle class just has a completely different definition of middle class than the rest of us. According to this PP - those of us in apartments or townhouses (or smaller single family homes in Silver Spring or PG) are lower class (no matter how much money we make). And the people with single family homes in Bethesda and Arlington who have huge mortgages and thus limited disposable income are "middle class". The upper class is left for the truly rich. LOL. |
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| I'm assuming the "I'm struggling middle class on 350K because of housing and daycare costs even though I can't explain where the remaining 10K goes each month goes" poster and the poster who thinks people are "idiots" for suggesting that an income in the $300K range is a very high income in New York and only people with "freestanding" houses are "middle class" are different people. But who knows? |
I'm assuming there are some different people on this thread - but I really believe there is one PP for whom this is a mission and he/she posts a lot. |
| There are many posters, I think. For what it's worth, I think people who cry poor on 350K are ridiculous. Homeownership is certainly not a requisite for the middle class, though it can be an indicator. However, I think it's entirely appropriate for people making 200-300K in DC to think of themselves as upper middle class, which was the question posed by OP. |
This is exactly the heart of the issue. Some people think of middle class as the lifestyle of a middle class family in Mayberry. Complete with the SFH and white picket fence. But in more urban areas, the middle class lives in townhomes and apartments. If you want the "typical" middle class lifestyle compared to Desmoines, Iowa, then yeah ... 200k isn't gonna go very far. That's why transplants such as myself get sticker shock and what our incomes can afford (and I'm in a <200k HHI house). The people crying "middle class" in 250 and 300k salaries need to readjust their expectations of middle class life in a major metropolitan area. |
Hope they are saving aggressively for a down payment. When we lived in NY we found it challenging to save with rent that is essentially the same as a mortgage payment. I'm not quite sure our remaining friends in NY are really saving any money. |
Well i sure hope they all aren't calling themselves middle class! jk.
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| I am lower rich high class.. Just making $430k ... |