Really freaked out after reading an "Incel" blog

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.

Sometimes no matter how wonderful you are of a parent, sometimes your children will end up broken (or be born broken) - possibly beyond repair, no matter what you do. The question of unconditional love comes up time to time on this forum, and I do believe that unconditional love towards your children is almost always a requisite for being a parent - but reading that asshole's "manifesto" - his mother went above and beyond to help. If I read those words coming from my child, that he wanted women to be put into concentration camps, and spent so much time blaming others for what sickness was inside of him... I truly don't know if I could continue loving them. Hope that they get better always, but I would find it very difficult to love anyone stewing with so much hate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.

Sometimes no matter how wonderful you are of a parent, sometimes your children will end up broken (or be born broken) - possibly beyond repair, no matter what you do. The question of unconditional love comes up time to time on this forum, and I do believe that unconditional love towards your children is almost always a requisite for being a parent - but reading that asshole's "manifesto" - his mother went above and beyond to help. If I read those words coming from my child, that he wanted women to be put into concentration camps, and spent so much time blaming others for what sickness was inside of him... I truly don't know if I could continue loving them. Hope that they get better always, but I would find it very difficult to love anyone stewing with so much hate.

She wasn't a great mom. She was an idiot. If she was a good mother she'd recognize his problem and use her connections/money to help him get girls.

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.

Sometimes no matter how wonderful you are of a parent, sometimes your children will end up broken (or be born broken) - possibly beyond repair, no matter what you do. The question of unconditional love comes up time to time on this forum, and I do believe that unconditional love towards your children is almost always a requisite for being a parent - but reading that asshole's "manifesto" - his mother went above and beyond to help. If I read those words coming from my child, that he wanted women to be put into concentration camps, and spent so much time blaming others for what sickness was inside of him... I truly don't know if I could continue loving them. Hope that they get better always, but I would find it very difficult to love anyone stewing with so much hate.

She wasn't a great mom. She was an idiot. If she was a good mother she'd recognize his problem and use her connections/money to help him get girls.

tib

tib, I bet your mom is a great mom, too. She refused to have sex with you. She didn't pay a prostitute to pretend to be your girlfriend. And despite everything, she is still helping to support you at age 25. That's above and beyond basic Good Mom 101.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.

Sometimes no matter how wonderful you are of a parent, sometimes your children will end up broken (or be born broken) - possibly beyond repair, no matter what you do. The question of unconditional love comes up time to time on this forum, and I do believe that unconditional love towards your children is almost always a requisite for being a parent - but reading that asshole's "manifesto" - his mother went above and beyond to help. If I read those words coming from my child, that he wanted women to be put into concentration camps, and spent so much time blaming others for what sickness was inside of him... I truly don't know if I could continue loving them. Hope that they get better always, but I would find it very difficult to love anyone stewing with so much hate.

She wasn't a great mom. She was an idiot. If she was a good mother she'd recognize his problem and use her connections/money to help him get girls.

tib

tib, I bet your mom is a great mom, too. She refused to have sex with you. She didn't pay a prostitute to pretend to be your girlfriend. And despite everything, she is still helping to support you at age 25. That's above and beyond basic Good Mom 101.

My mother died when I was a young child. Somehow, I turned out pretty ok. I'm a compassionate human being because I learn by doing, by giving, by helping others - and am not so concerned with getting. I agree that tib's mom was/is probably an excellent mom. I think it's frankly extremely creepy to think that a mom should help her son "get girls." Girls and women are not something to "get" - they're not objects. They're human beings.

And money?! This Elliot idiot was wealthy. He couldn't relate to girls because he was an asshole, and women can pick up on those creepy vibes. It had nothing to do with money or looks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Moron above, no. I never wanted that. This was asked many years later, when it was already too late. I mentioned what could have helped me? So why do you support killing?

tib

Killing? What the fuck are you talking about? Your meds need to be switched around.

You mean support your hope and dreams of 90% of the population being killed? No. I'm not a psychopath, Dr.

I am not on any meds nor will I ever be again (waste of time) but my question was why do you support LS children not being treated? This phobia leads to them not even being able to try anything and thus surely incel.

Btw, this person who asked about my parents and LS- I am no longer LS but by the time I have beaten it in 2011 it was too late. Darkness article explains why.

tib

Who said that I do not support treatment for ALL mentally ill people? LS included?

What do you think the best course of treatment for LS is? What specific treatments would have helped you?

Ok, so do you support my idea of how my parents could have helped me? It's mentioned here
http://thatincelblogger.wordpress.com/2013/12/30/love-shyness-1-my-experience-with-love-shyness/
tib

Um. No. That would be illegal on two fronts:

1. Prostitution is illegal
2. Having sex with a minor is illegal, as a matter of fact it is called pedophilia.

Your parents would deserved to be jailed.

You needed and still need intensive inpatient therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.

Sometimes no matter how wonderful you are of a parent, sometimes your children will end up broken (or be born broken) - possibly beyond repair, no matter what you do. The question of unconditional love comes up time to time on this forum, and I do believe that unconditional love towards your children is almost always a requisite for being a parent - but reading that asshole's "manifesto" - his mother went above and beyond to help. If I read those words coming from my child, that he wanted women to be put into concentration camps, and spent so much time blaming others for what sickness was inside of him... I truly don't know if I could continue loving them. Hope that they get better always, but I would find it very difficult to love anyone stewing with so much hate.

She wasn't a great mom. She was an idiot. If she was a good mother she'd recognize his problem and use her connections/money to help him get girls.

tib

Wow, Dr. Tib, you have been going at it all day. Do you leave your house ever?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:[
This is where mothers of sons ought to step up. Both of these lovely gentleman were once someone's adored little boy. Make your expectations of how your sons will relate to girls and women very clear.

May I give any sane American mothers reading this some advice?

Tell your sons to stay away from American women like plague. They are probably the most vile group to have ever existed on the planet.

tib

Most of us are American women so why would we tell our sons that? Unlike you, we are not filled with hate and self loathing. And we see our friends raising wonderful young women. And we are married to men who love us, respect us and value us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.

Sometimes no matter how wonderful you are of a parent, sometimes your children will end up broken (or be born broken) - possibly beyond repair, no matter what you do. The question of unconditional love comes up time to time on this forum, and I do believe that unconditional love towards your children is almost always a requisite for being a parent - but reading that asshole's "manifesto" - his mother went above and beyond to help. If I read those words coming from my child, that he wanted women to be put into concentration camps, and spent so much time blaming others for what sickness was inside of him... I truly don't know if I could continue loving them. Hope that they get better always, but I would find it very difficult to love anyone stewing with so much hate.

She wasn't a great mom. She was an idiot. If she was a good mother she'd recognize his problem and use her connections/money to help him get girls.

tib

Wow, Dr. Tib, you have been going at it all day. Do you leave your house ever?

I'm hoping that he's actually locked up in some kind of facility in Croatia (maybe as some kind of compromise where his parents continue to pay for his adult needs), and actually *can't* leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.

Sometimes no matter how wonderful you are of a parent, sometimes your children will end up broken (or be born broken) - possibly beyond repair, no matter what you do. The question of unconditional love comes up time to time on this forum, and I do believe that unconditional love towards your children is almost always a requisite for being a parent - but reading that asshole's "manifesto" - his mother went above and beyond to help. If I read those words coming from my child, that he wanted women to be put into concentration camps, and spent so much time blaming others for what sickness was inside of him... I truly don't know if I could continue loving them. Hope that they get better always, but I would find it very difficult to love anyone stewing with so much hate.

There's some great work being done on prenatal influences on mental health later in life. Age of the father at conception. The mother's exposure to certain common viruses in the early first trimester. Even the season of conception.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote: When he tries to enslave women or repeal our right to vote, he's going to hit some resistance.

I have no intention of trying that at all nor do I recommend it to anybody who wants to become a coalpha. There's too many of you monsters and too few of us for that to be a success.

The solution is be a part of a decent culture, whether a coalpha community or a decent religion, like Hasidic Judaism or Amish (though anybody who isn't anti-technology won't fit in there as well). Your sick society will collapse in a few decades. It is mathematically unsustainable. Women's suffrage created a first generation of sluts around 1965. Unwin has proven that no society can endure more than three generations of sluts. This might take longer this time but the collapse is inevitable.

You're full of shit. The alpha/beta but is total bullshit. I don't understand how you even expect a thought out response to this. Seriously. Get some life experience and get back to us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Prostitution is illegal
2. Having sex with a minor is illegal, as a matter of fact it is called pedophilia.

Your parents would deserved to be jailed.

I won't comment on your imbecilic diagnosing and name calling but I will on this. You're an idiot.

1. USA is not the world.
2. USA is not the world.

You imbecilic American whore

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Prostitution is illegal
2. Having sex with a minor is illegal, as a matter of fact it is called pedophilia.

Your parents would deserved to be jailed.

I won't comment on your imbecilic diagnosing and name calling but I will on this. You're an idiot.

1. USA is not the world.
2. USA is not the world.

You imbecilic American whore

tib

Looks like someone touched a nerve.

[Anonymous]

tib/Marjan,

So were you actually incarcerated after you admitted to assaulting your own mother?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Prostitution is illegal
2. Having sex with a minor is illegal, as a matter of fact it is called pedophilia.

Your parents would deserved to be jailed.

I won't comment on your imbecilic diagnosing and name calling but I will on this. You're an idiot.

1. USA is not the world.
2. USA is not the world.

You imbecilic American whore

tib

Then why are you so obsessed with the US? You seem very fixated on the US, as if it is YOUR whole world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Prostitution is illegal
2. Having sex with a minor is illegal, as a matter of fact it is called pedophilia.

Your parents would deserved to be jailed.

I won't comment on your imbecilic diagnosing and name calling but I will on this. You're an idiot.

1. USA is not the world.
2. USA is not the world.

You imbecilic American whore

tib

The PP didn't call you any names as you claim, yet you resorted to name-calling. As you have multiple times in this thread anytime someone suggests that you would benefit from professional mental health help.

I had some very small amount of sympathy for you at the start, as I know how it feels to be rejected repeatedly and to be unable to connect with others. But you've proven time and time again here that you care only for your yourself and your own (perceived) needs. This world - and the women in it - do not owe you a goddamn thing. So I'll tell you the kind version of what I've come to believe after reading this thread and your "Darkness" blog post: your mindset is severely warped, and your current problems are 100% of your own making. You can choose to grow up and change your life for the better, or you can persist in thinking of yourself as a victim and live your life in misery. It is truly your choice, and if you choose poorly you have no one but yourself to blame.