Really freaked out after reading an "Incel" blog

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I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib
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Anonymous wrote:I'm new to this thread. People who are tired of this thread can just leave. I'm eternally optimistic, I suppose.

Tib, although I think your worldview is fundamentally flawed, I think the vast majority of people on here, and obviously IRL do not in fact understand where you are coming from at all. They did not experience what you experienced while growing up and they are having difficulty understanding why it isn't easy for you to "just change."

But what you are asking for is more than just empathy. You are in the minority in terms of how your personal qualities have made things so difficult for you in terms of finding a mate. The status quo works pretty well for a lot of people - most people, in fact. So you want the whole world to change to suit you. Is that reasonable?



I agree with everything but the last part of your post. I don't want anybody here to change. I know that is not possible. When this culture collapses all of them will me massacred and that will be it.

I agree that I am in minority in terms of how my qualities have made things difficult in regards to finding a gf because 98 percent of all people in Western countries are brainwashed manure.

tib
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*be massacred

tib
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Unfortunate choice of words?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Did this happen before around 2002? It was quite easy to find a gf via dating sites then, even in America, because people who had Internet were usually nerdy, shy, types. Today all riff raff of the world uses Internet.

tib
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Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Did this happen before around 2002? It was quite easy to find a gf via dating sites then, even in America, because people who had Internet were usually nerdy, shy, types. Today all riff raff of the world uses Internet.

tib


True. Timber is all about outward appearance.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Did this happen before around 2002? It was quite easy to find a gf via dating sites then, even in America, because people who had Internet were usually nerdy, shy, types. Today all riff raff of the world uses Internet.

tib


True. Timber is all about outward appearance.


I'm sorry, I don't understand this post? Timber?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Did this happen before around 2002? It was quite easy to find a gf via dating sites then, even in America, because people who had Internet were usually nerdy, shy, types. Today all riff raff of the world uses Internet.

tib


True. Timber is all about outward appearance.


I'm sorry, I don't understand this post? Timber?


PP probably meant Tinder.

Most people are not meeting gf/bf through Tinder. It is largely a casual hookup site.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Unfortunate choice of words?


I'm not PP, but I think so. It shows us, though, that a lot of men, even the dads around us, think of "getting" women in very predatory language.

This is where mothers of sons ought to step up. Both of these lovely gentleman were once someone's adored little boy. Make your expectations of how your sons will relate to girls and women very clear.
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Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Unfortunate choice of words?


I'm not PP, but I think so. It shows us, though, that a lot of men, even the dads around us, think of "getting" women in very predatory language.

This is where mothers of sons ought to step up. Both of these lovely gentleman were once someone's adored little boy. Make your expectations of how your sons will relate to girls and women very clear.


This.
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This is where mothers of sons ought to step up. Both of these lovely gentleman were once someone's adored little boy. Make your expectations of how your sons will relate to girls and women very clear.


May I give any sane American mothers reading this some advice?

Tell your sons to stay away from American women like plague. They are probably the most vile group to have ever existed on the planet.

tib
Anonymous
Chin Rodger seems to have been a great mom. My heart goes out to her.
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Anonymous wrote:I like Tib. I was bullied in high school, was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and was intimidated by women. I didn't hate the women, but I certainly resented the bullies who picked on me. But I found time cures all wounds, and in my mid to late 20s to 30s I went through a slut phase that would make Wilt Chamberlain blush. Now I'm somewhat happily married with kids. He just needs to be patient, grow up and get some confidence. And get off the internet (unless he is on dating sites).


You're male? How did you do that? By learning seduction via PUA techniques or?

tib


yeah, male. I just used the internet. There were as many lonely chicks out there as guys, I found. old yahoo.com chat rooms, match.com, etc. it was shooting fish in a barrel ...


Unfortunate choice of words?


I'm not PP, but I think so. It shows us, though, that a lot of men, even the dads around us, think of "getting" women in very predatory language.

This is where mothers of sons ought to step up. Both of these lovely gentleman were once someone's adored little boy. Make your expectations of how your sons will relate to girls and women very clear.


This.


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