Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

What does it say to you?

That JLo is a kind and warm role model and that Violet already knew what her dad was like, he’s been through other women.

Interesting. That’s not my take. Violet reminds me of the daughter of a cousin of mine. The dad’s an alcoholic, the parents went through a chaotic divorce. The daughter has low self esteem and she a total people-pleaser/peacemaker type, just like many kids of alcoholics are. She is polite to everyone and always trying to make the adults in her life happy. It’s really sad.

Well she didn't attend the wedding, so she's obviously not that much of a people pleaser.

[Anonymous]

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It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

[Anonymous]

Why do women keep going for this guy? He’s such a train wreck (not that JLo isn’t as well)!

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13781131/ben-affleck-kick-kennedy-jlo-divorce-rfk-jr.html?ito=social-facebook&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2I2D1ilRSzA3_Xkrn8R3V55JTjyO1xbGbWSWqnQ8ng_PZAC4ZRDPXh1oc_aem_Zll1rKDA0dorbDNfmksIAg#8fnr4ycyxey

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

I am not saying this shows deep affection, but at least he was going to play along. That's something too. Turns out, two months later he was moving out, considered marriage entirely over and sleeping with someone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

What does it say to you?

That JLo is a kind and warm role model and that Violet already knew what her dad was like, he’s been through other women.

Interesting. That’s not my take. Violet reminds me of the daughter of a cousin of mine. The dad’s an alcoholic, the parents went through a chaotic divorce. The daughter has low self esteem and she a total people-pleaser/peacemaker type, just like many kids of alcoholics are. She is polite to everyone and always trying to make the adults in her life happy. It’s really sad.

Well she didn't attend the wedding, so she's obviously not that much of a people pleaser.

She attended the formal Georgia ceremony.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

Oh but they did!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

The best part of the video is at the 30 second mark where people walk behind Ben & JLo in the middle of the photos. Lol.

[Anonymous]

This is exhausting. Celebrity is not for everyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

Photographers often yell at power couples trying to have them kiss, or laugh, or comment. It's pretty aggressive sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Gwyneth said he was an excellent lover. Maybe that’s why the ladies love him…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

Oh but they did!

Those pictures are hilarious because he looks miserable in each. As a professional actor, you’d think he could fake it better. JG doesn’t seem like she’s milking the carpet though-just stops and smiles and then I’m sure they move on. I would assume he is required to walk the carpet if he’s promoting a movie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gwyneth said he was an excellent lover. Maybe that’s why the ladies love him…

That was in his 20s. He’s 30 years older now and I’m sure his talents are not what they once were.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

I really think something was said about Garner in a moment of weakness.