Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am the OP- I walked away from this thread because the responses were so repetitive and turned into strangers on the internet talking about how horrible my four year old is.
My kid was definitely exhibiting bad behavior- not defending that. He was yanking his feet backwards out of her hands- not kicking her. She confirmed that. (I followed up with her). That is not a regular thing for him. In general, we don't have a hard time getting him to follow directions. My post was about whether or not you would be upset if an adult hit your child.
I had just gotten out of the shower which is why I didn't get there sooner.
I still don't think you should hit kids.
My MIL and I have a pretty formal relationship but get along fine.
I think the response of making it clear that can never happen again but moving on is what feels right for us.
That sounds reasonable, OP.