Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
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Anonymous
| Maybe Ben is drinking and/or gambling again. If the marriage fails it’s on both of them not just JLo, not just Ben. |
Anonymous
have you heard of occam's razor? the reason for the split is so blatantly obvious... apart from cheating scandals, i don't think there has ever been such an obvious reason for a hollywood divorce. |
Anonymous
You are unhinged. |
Anonymous
What is it?? |
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Anonymous
| it's JLO micromanaging and girlbossing A-lister 24/7. she tells him where to go, how to act there, what to wear, i am sure what to eat as well. meanwhile, she could not be deterred from pursuing disastrous documentary about their relationship which he was clearly opposed to. her wishes, no matter how insane or irrational, are untouchable but he must follow her tiniest order or she will playfully slap him in public. yeah, it was not going to last. |
Anonymous
Are there actually people on this planet that didn't foresee this happening so soon? She had to have the entire world watching her every move and telling everyone how this was the everlasting love fairy tale that nobody else has ever known a love like this...blah, blah, blah...in the beginning I felt like she was really trying to stick it to Garner in the press. But, every single relationship she has is media orchestrated--all about the red carpet and pap walks, etc. She is a total and complete narcissist. She took a chain-smoking, fragile addict and threw him into the sub role--making him walk behind her and carry her purse. This guy that was a world-famous actor/screenwriter/director. She did the same thing with A-Rod. Chose a womanizer past his prime and then made them the accessory. Both couldn't take it after awhile. She seems like a bear to live with and most likely Ben snapped. |
Anonymous
Oh no, Jlo's marketing their love story is one of the most hilarious things I've ever seen. She's not even into the biggest part of the marketing, aka her tour, and they're done. Lol. |
Anonymous
I don't think she was trying to stick it to Garner, just that she's completely self-obsessed. That's why her relationships all fail. It's always all about her. Men aren't real people, just pawns in her narcissistic fantasy world. |
Anonymous
She doesn't care about the gambling, even sent her ma with him. He looks healthy, don't think he fell off the wagon. Think he's just fed up living in JLo's world. |
Anonymous
+1 The fact that he took his ring off, knowing he'd be photographed. Oof. He seems to have zero interest in reconciling. She must be a mess. |
Anonymous
I couldn’t care less about JLo, but your obsession with her is not healthy. She still has 400 million reasons to be happy. |
Anonymous
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I watched her documentary last night on making the whole thing. I give her credit for going make up free (and bronzer free) because you really see, first and foremost, and she says it too, that how she looks as a performer is an absolute persona. She's very pared back and she just looks like how she used to look.. Additionally, she is controlling and blunt, even with her her team. I tried to stay open, I can't stand her
choreography, her music and the overall show/mini movie. But that's just an opinion. Regarding Affleck....he is intelligent and with all of his faults and probably from working a program, he is insightful and can tease and has a capacity for humility. You see that she does not, she is more brittle and has little genuine sense of humor about herself. The people she has around her don't seem so high quality either, which surprised me. There's nothing casual or easy about how she is with people. She asks herself, "why did I go toward the people I did? Why was I at such a low vibration? ". I wouldn't use the word vibration but I thinks she's right. They're on different levels. He is more sophisticated, more flexible and he is brighter. |
Anonymous
It's very humiliating for her. I wonder if she sees her role in it at all. But she doesn't seem like the self-reflective type. |
Anonymous
| Ben's mom was at the house too. There is no scandal there expect most likely her checking in as the divorce is definitely on |