The DCC HS contingent is very much an upgrade over CH - at least in my opinion. Have you even visited any school open houses there? I’m pretty sure your kid can do a shadow day if you ask for it |
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No denying that this Metro are is expensive for families who are loath to cram into small spaces or live in dodgy neighborhoods. My advice to recent arrivals on the Hill of modest means is that if you don't get lucky at BASIS or one of the Latins, or don't like BASIS or the Latins, you're going to play it fast and loose to stick around. There's no magic bullet to staying. Consider buying a fixer on the Hill with scope for a basement rental--there are still a few properties like that around-- and putting sweat equity into it with help from friends and family you're determined to stay. Many of us have done just that over the years.
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We are headed to MS and I actually looked for but could not find open houses for the DCC feeder MS. At that point we started researching our IB DCPS MS and it seemed to have promise. So intertia is keeping us on the Hill for a while longer. |
Perhaps it's because I grew up in poverty and trauma, I never expect empathy from others. And I always have Plan B, Plan C, etc. We knew we wanted to stay on the Hill so planned accordingly to ensure we weren't reliant on a nefarious lottery and the woeful other MS and HS options. Given the precarious nature of MS and HS on the Hill, to do otherwise is foolish. |
| I couldn't agree more, PP above. We grew up lower middle-class, went to college on Pell Grants. We started making contingency plans for MS on the Hill in the lower elementary grades, quietly, privately. We haven't moved to the burbs over MS issues, although we struck out in the BASIS and Latins' lotteries last year and this. Our eldest attends a parochial MS in Arlington we like a lot and can afford. Some of our kids' longtime Hill friends are moving to VA this summer. These families seem sad to go. |
Parochial schools are terrible. - graduated from a parochial school and was fortunate enough not to be abused by the priests but can’t say that was true for all my classmates. |
Congrats. I grew up with abusive parents and my DH grew up lower middle class. We're both from very rural areas. We didn't know everything about everything when we moved here and experienced steep learning curves regarding pretty much everything. We have made mistakes and wrong turns. We're human. I still manage to be a pretty empathetic person (in fact I think my background makes me extra empathetic because I know what it is for someone to look like they have it all together but to be struggling a lot) and to understand that no one can plan perfectly and sometimes $hit happens. I think walking around smugly believing that you've figured it all out and that everyone who doesn't do it like you is foolish is asking for trouble. Regardless, you can't control what other people do, and for as long as you live on the Hill, there will be families who hope against hope that MS/HS will work out and who will be disappointed when the lottery doesn't break their way. You can learn to deal with it or keep on complaining about it, but it's not going to change anytime soon. |
The people you are complaining about do have a Plan B, Plan C, etc. It's just that those plans involve more compromise than Plan A, so they complain. Plan A is lottery into BASIS or Latin. But it's not like if that doesn't happen (which they obviously know is an option), they simply lay down. They pursue their other plans, whether that's ITS or making due with their IB or moving to NW or moving the suburbs or going to private. It's just that when their kid is in 4th grade at Brent with your kid, that's when they attempt to execute Plan A, and if it doesn't work out, you might hear about it. Oh no. How terrible for you. None of the people you are complaining about wind up sending their kids to Eastern, or their kids just don't get an education, or whatever. None of them. They have other options and they pursue them, just like you would, and their only mistake is in thinking you are a normal person who might empathize with a fellow parent on the Hill who is navigating the MS/HS issue. That's the one lesson they need to learn -- you simply do not care. |
Or at least BASIS should offer slower tracks. There is some advantages to having accelerated math, but only for the kids that can actually handle that. |
The good thing is that BASIS is a DC-wide charter and parents can self-select if their kids will go. If you don't want an accelerated curriculum for your child, choose another school. |
College prof in STEM here. Math abilities of incoming students has had a secular decline for the last decade which turned into a crash following covid. Yet, all the kids claim to have done well in high school math, but struggle to do basic manipulation of exponents and logarithms and often mess up the rules of algebra. Honestly the the only decent check of math ability seems to be those who tested out of college math with a 5 on AP Calc BC. Anything else is just a joke. |
| Homeschooling is one option, throw in some online classes, a team sport and pick whatever form of art kid likes after exploring a few. |
I used to work at BASIS so I know how unreasonable the above statement is. What BASIS does is dole out the Kool-Aid on math acceleration. They convince parents that all that's required of their children is hard work, claiming that most 12–13-year-olds can ace 7th grade algebra if they simply put nose to the grindstone. Parents fall for it, the kids diligently log their math homework time, and, for the most part, earn the requisite grades to progress in the BASIS curriculum. Problem is, the required math is a reach for most of these students, cutting into their time for subjects and activities they like more and are better at, chipping away at their self-esteem and, frankly, setting them up for greater math struggles up the chain. Because there is no acceptable alternative DC public middle school for most of these families to choose, parents and kids play along, scraping by with the math without necessarily building a solid foundation to handle more advanced math. Hanging in there on BASIS math is, after all, better than cutting and running to the burbs or stretching the family budget to the breaking point to pay for private school. Fundamentally, it's a poorly thought through arrangement that does a disservice to all involved. I blame DCPS more than BASIS, for continuing to pour crazy resources into snazzy middle and high school buildings that remain undersubscribed for lack of demand. |
Uhm, the EH boundary includes the entire Maury, Miner & Payne boundaries… That is way beyond even an extended definition of Capitol Hill. All the way out at like 24th & Benning?? No wonder people are saying CH real estate is cheap. CH means the Historic district + maybe out to the Starburst in NE & Congressional Cemetery in SE if we’re going with outer boundaries of neighborhood feel. In no world is 21st & anything “Capitol Hill.” |
Most Payne and Maury families and many Miner consider themselves “Capitol Hill” families. And the situation is the same because we all face the same MS/HS dilemma. But sure, if you want to define away the problem, go ahead …. |