NP and I can also relate. I’m glad your son is “stable” and understand the quotes. When all of this happened in the news, this was oddly similar to one of my siblings too. I won’t get into too many details but similar enough. He had a job, a house and in his late 20s went missing. We had a little contact that became less and less and he eventually abandoned everything and was homeless for a long time. There was a lot of drug use, hallucinations and paranoia. He was in and out of our lives for years. We didn’t know if we would find him again and if he would be dead or alive. He is in in 40s now and also “stable” without having any episodes for years, clean now, but can’t hold a full time job any longer. |
I will add same thing happened to my grandmother. Given morphine. Died morning after. She also had bruises all over body. I’ve sat with three dying people. Two died very quickly after the morphine. Morphine kills people. I don’t mind nurses giving it to actively dying people if they want it because it’s better than suffering but it’s not right to give it to people who are still up and moving around. But they can if they are on hospice—at least in Montgomery Country, Maryland because it happened. So whatever you say about the rules and the law, nurses are giving it to patients and killing them. I doubt this was the nurse’s only kill. If you read The Good Nurse, you will see how that nurse was able to kill so many people because colleagues would not or could not prove it. The author told me he put that book, his book, on his mother’s side table at the hospital and kept a close watch. Part of the reason nurses get away with it is people don’t want to believe it. Meanwhile, more people die. Hope it doesn’t happen to you. It’s pretty awful. After the narcan was administered, they were transferred to the hospital. At the hospital, I saw the difference in how the killer nurse administered a lethal dose versus the hospital nurses administering morphine correctly. I know you don’t want to believe it happened. I sure wish it hadn’t. |
Amen Aside from the killer thing, he is hot and smart as F. |
Haven’t read that. But I can see how a low pixel photo if a Mediterranean male looks like many people I know. He wasn’t caught because of his eyebrows or face, he was caught because of his clothes, mask, hat and weird loner behavior. |
Haven’t read this anywhere. That would still point to hard core indoctrination the last 12 months OR a severe psychotic breakdown which is ongoing. Back pain or surgeries or treatment or pain killers has not been publicly verified nor disclosed. Clearly it has appeal to you and some of the public as an acceptable killer motive. |
Correct. The problem is that Americans have made their choice with respect to gun violence. If Sandy Hook did not change minds, this certainly will not. Meanwhile, pretty much every American who isn’t in the top .01% of wealth has suffered themselves or knows someone who has suffered because of health insurance companies. Many know people who have died because of health insurance companies. Combine that with a killer who is unquestionably smart and gorgeous, where every fact and photo released makes him more appealing, not less, and you have the beginning of a folk movement. I am not defending it. I am just describing what is going on. |
What are you talking about? I deliberately consume media and social media across the political spectrum — and I mean really widely, like I listen to far right and far left podcasters too — and I am simply not seeing a groundswell of support for the UHC CEO. There are tepid attempts to talk about how this isn’t who we are as a nation, some attempts to shame the other political side, there are serious discussions about extrajudicial political assassinations and strong criticism of that, etc. But I see absolutely nothing I would characterize as an outpouring of support. Where can I find this? I’m literally not sure how to make my media and social consumption broader. |
Difficult but not impossible if UHC addresses the complaints. |
NP here. It was reported in many media outlets that FBI interviewed his mother last Sunday. She didn’t think it was her son (which I don’t blame her, who would want to admit it, she may have been in denial). |
The problem is that UHC cannot address complaints without cutting into their profits. And they won’t do that. So yes, their crisis PR is impossible. |
This is part of what has desensitized people to violence. Shootings are just things that happen now. I think people are just indifferent about this case or using it as a vent about health insurance, I don’t think most actually care that much about the murder itself. |
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I didn’t click the link (do I want to see whatever it is? Probably not). Just observing that Gen X grew up practicing for the moment when someone would enter their school and gun them and their friends and teachers down. Meanwhile, they watched this very thing happen again and again to kids just like them. Month after month, year after year, for their whole lives, we as a society said “gun violence is ordinary, good luck out there.” Desensitized? I mean…yeah. Did we think they somehow wouldn’t be? |
Right, and I think the constant lecturing about how people should be reacting to this is falling very flat with that generation. Why should they care that a CEO was gunned down when we as a society don’t care that they as kids are being gunned down in their schools, especially a CEO who probably caused their mom and dad to not get necessary healthcare. The lectures sound hollow. |