The Kane Show (Part 4)

[Anonymous]

Natasha annoys me sometimes but I thought her blog post was classy. I am glad she is finding her way and I truly do hope she finds some sort of job she likes and is satisfying to her. I thought it was really honest of her to admit that she doesn't really have direction.

Danni on the other hand........

[Anonymous]

Easy. One was a SAHM. The other was a working mom. Big difference.

[Anonymous]

LMAO, I have no children but I cry leaving my dog at daycare sometimes and I absolutely hate leaving him overnight when I travel for work.

Danni is always someplace else! I don't know how parents can do this haha

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Natasha responded to a post on her blog about what happened to the original post.
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Welllll,that’s hard to answer. I can say that with all the very public drama the last few weeks I just didn’t know what or how much to say. It’s been scrapped with this post instead. It seemed like the right thing to do. Hope you understand…"

I totally understand and respect her for it, but I am disappointed! Like most of you, I wanted to see something juicy! LOL It's for the best though.

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Anonymous wrote:First time posting here , but have been following along. Couple things. Does anyone have the audio of the day in February apparently Kane and Danni got into a fight? I missed it! And also- that guy Danni is dating- ?? he looks like a fool. Maybe I'm judgin a book by its cover, but yikes!

All the episodes from this year are here: http://www.iheart.com/show/The-Kane-Show-On-Demand/episodes/

The episode is Feb 10. As others have mentioned, it was probably edited. The last half of the show is a repeat. The last live segment is the divorce/plastic surgery discussion.

Anyone know around what time the argument occurs?
If not..anyone remember what was said?

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Anonymous wrote:Easy. One was a SAHM. The other was a working mom. Big difference.

I don't think it has anything at all to do with stay-at-home mom versus working mom. I am a full-time working mom with young girls the exact ages as Danni's girls. And guess what? They come first. I spend as much time with them as I possibly can and I miss them terribly when I'm at work. My husband and I do not do babysitters on the weekends, but once every 3 to 6 months for a quick date night. We've never left them overnight and prefer to be with them. Kids grow up so fast and before you know it they're out the door and on their own. I would never leave my kids on Easter Sunday to take a self-centered trip for a week (something Danni has already done before). I was on spring break last week and was overjoyed to spend every single minute with my kids. It's all about priorities and Danni chooses not to make her kids a priority quite often. I have a sister-in-law who is the exact same way. Always traveling, always looking for new experiences, always leaving the kids at home.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not a mother so I'm not sure if I'm wrong in my though process, but is it normal to want to be away from your children for long periods of time? She keeps taking time to find herself and what not, but finding herself always seems to be time by herself without her children. Now I understand needing a break, but she has slim and her nanny. My friends that have children don't even like being away from them for a night. I don't have children now because my career keeps me from being able to give them my full love and attention. Am I wrong to think that maybe she likes the idea of motherhood more than the actual process of motherhood? Please don't mistake this for saying she doesn't love her girls, because I don't doubt that for a second. I'm genuinely curious. I don't think people realize that children are work and then when they have them they don't want the responsibilities.

Hmmmmmm, this comment just made realize how we have our two TKS divorcing 'single moms' Danni & Natasha going in very different directions. One jets off to spend a week in London so she can "find herself" & leaves her kids when they probably need her most while the other hates not having her girls with her but is trying to make the most of it & also seems like shes really trying to be a good example woman for her kids. (SEEMS, hopefullly shes genuine) you dont think Nat played it this way on purpose do you???

OP here.. Nats blog is what made me realize this. Natasha pours love for those girls and always has. They do crafts, activities, and she dotes on them 24-7. She didn't hire a nanny because it's hard to take care of her kids, or go on a couple trips to "find herself". What is there to find? You have two girls whose world is changing and your not there. On her one st Lucia trip she found herself wanting to make her marriage work and then her pony retreat she found herself and decided not to continue with her marriage. Every time she goes she finds the opposite of the last time..

[Anonymous]

^+100000. Natasha can be a little annoying but I think she means well. She probably should get a job at this point (hell, she might even enjoy getting out of the house and having some 'adult time') but I think she (and Kane too, honestly) are giving those girls an amazing childhood. Obviously they are getting a lot of material things, the toys and disney trips etc., but I think they also get a LOT of attention and love. I am not a SAHM and do not plan to me but I think she is a really, really good one.

[Anonymous]

I still don't understand her divorce. She's mentioned in one post that they are getting divorced because of her postpartum anxiety and that she's still in love with him and wants their paths to cross again, then the next post says he isn't in love her anymore and she isn't in love with him and she chose to walk away bc her spirit has been broken for years. I feel bad for slim and the girls. She bashes him all the time publicly. She bashed him on air all the time for not constantly wanting to have sex, he made her so miserable in her marriage that he broke her spirit. All this stuff is out there forever for her girls to read. Slim was publicly humiliated by her daily, yet she paints herself as the victim.

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Anonymous wrote:I still don't understand her divorce. She's mentioned in one post that they are getting divorced because of her postpartum anxiety and that she's still in love with him and wants their paths to cross again, then the next post says he isn't in love her anymore and she isn't in love with him and she chose to walk away bc her spirit has been broken for years. I feel bad for slim and the girls. She bashes him all the time publicly. She bashed him on air all the time for not constantly wanting to have sex, he made her so miserable in her marriage that he broke her spirit. All this stuff is out there forever for her girls to read. Slim was publicly humiliated by her daily, yet she paints herself as the victim.

he cheated. plain and simple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not a mother so I'm not sure if I'm wrong in my though process, but is it normal to want to be away from your children for long periods of time? She keeps taking time to find herself and what not, but finding herself always seems to be time by herself without her children. Now I understand needing a break, but she has slim and her nanny. My friends that have children don't even like being away from them for a night. I don't have children now because my career keeps me from being able to give them my full love and attention. Am I wrong to think that maybe she likes the idea of motherhood more than the actual process of motherhood? Please don't mistake this for saying she doesn't love her girls, because I don't doubt that for a second. I'm genuinely curious. I don't think people realize that children are work and then when they have them they don't want the responsibilities.

Hmmmmmm, this comment just made realize how we have our two TKS divorcing 'single moms' Danni & Natasha going in very different directions. One jets off to spend a week in London so she can "find herself" & leaves her kids when they probably need her most while the other hates not having her girls with her but is trying to make the most of it & also seems like shes really trying to be a good example woman for her kids. (SEEMS, hopefullly shes genuine) you dont think Nat played it this way on purpose do you???

I don't think Danni left her kids, they were scheduled to spend spring break in St.Lucia with their dad. Does that mean Danni should sit around the house and twiddle her thumbs till they get back? No, she's a mother and still an adult with a life to live outside of her kids. If going away a few days helps her be a better mother than so be it. Nothing wrong with taking a break once in awhile.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I still don't understand her divorce. She's mentioned in one post that they are getting divorced because of her postpartum anxiety and that she's still in love with him and wants their paths to cross again, then the next post says he isn't in love her anymore and she isn't in love with him and she chose to walk away bc her spirit has been broken for years. I feel bad for slim and the girls. She bashes him all the time publicly. She bashed him on air all the time for not constantly wanting to have sex, he made her so miserable in her marriage that he broke her spirit. All this stuff is out there forever for her girls to read. Slim was publicly humiliated by her daily, yet she paints herself as the victim.

he cheated. plain and simple.

He did?

[Anonymous]

On a different note, here's a quote Danni gave in a 2013 article...

"The boot camp for me was like a wake-up call. I really didn’t recognize myself much anymore. I was tired of being angry & a victim, and it taught me I didn’t have to be! I’m making progress in everything that was lacking (the sex, confidence etc) When it comes to trust, I’ve learned to always trust myself. I know my heart and my intentions, I’m not doubting myself any more. I stand firm in being me, because FINALLY I realize there is nothing wrong with me! I am good enough!"

http://truentmagazine.com/insanity-is-reality-goes-there-with-bridezillas-danni-starr/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I still don't understand her divorce. She's mentioned in one post that they are getting divorced because of her postpartum anxiety and that she's still in love with him and wants their paths to cross again, then the next post says he isn't in love her anymore and she isn't in love with him and she chose to walk away bc her spirit has been broken for years. I feel bad for slim and the girls. She bashes him all the time publicly. She bashed him on air all the time for not constantly wanting to have sex, he made her so miserable in her marriage that he broke her spirit. All this stuff is out there forever for her girls to read. Slim was publicly humiliated by her daily, yet she paints herself as the victim.

You know I find this to be true. I think Slim is a really good guy, but I think she needs constant attention and reassurance. I think he was truly in love with her, but she never found him to be enough. I remember when they were doing the dates where they role played. It seems if she has a ton of affection and being told how awesome and gorgeous she is daily she is happy. Who could keep up with that. When you have kids you have those days or even weeks where you are working, traveling, living life and not everything is rosy, That doesn't mean it doesn't get that way again. I really don't think anyone could be enough for her. She loves attention way too much. I don't feel that she ever respected her marriage. She always referred to him as a stay at home dad even though he worked being a dj all the time. I know some make great money. She just never seemed to appreciate him in any way. This is all my opinion only. I had listened to the show forever and think she knew all along she would be getting a divorce. She talked about it all the time before it even happened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I still don't understand her divorce. She's mentioned in one post that they are getting divorced because of her postpartum anxiety and that she's still in love with him and wants their paths to cross again, then the next post says he isn't in love her anymore and she isn't in love with him and she chose to walk away bc her spirit has been broken for years. I feel bad for slim and the girls. She bashes him all the time publicly. She bashed him on air all the time for not constantly wanting to have sex, he made her so miserable in her marriage that he broke her spirit. All this stuff is out there forever for her girls to read. Slim was publicly humiliated by her daily, yet she paints herself as the victim.

he cheated. plain and simple.

not true, maybe she did but not him