Really freaked out after reading an "Incel" blog

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Anonymous wrote: And, loser, a lot of people are "incel" a lot of the time without losing their ability to work, help others, and contribute to society. So funny that you see yourself as moral.

These people have some severe emotional and physical problems if incel doesn't bother them. Then again, you don't even know what incel is. You think it's being picky, because you were can't be incel as a woman.

And incels who are paying taxes are the worst kind of monsters in the world - how can they pay taxes to government which makes them incel in the first place via woman's suffrage/alimony/child support etc??

tib

you don't like child support either? what is your opinion about it exactly?

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/08/24/the-child-support-catastrophe/

You have to understand that child support actually benefits sluts, not children. What is best for the child isn't to receive child support but live with both parents. Child support laws also benefit male politicians, as they make women keep voting for them.

http://www.biblicjudaism.org/Liberalism-td105.html

Another Liberal lie is that Liberals support equality and are more caring. This lie can be seen in dating. The most egalitarian dating system is monogamy because then everyone gets a mate. Liberals hate monogamy and support promiscuity which is the most unequal mating system. With promiscuity, some men get many women and many men get no women. It is extreme reproductive and sexual inequality. Liberals support this system because it is immoral and selfish. But this also explains why Liberals are so concerned about women and children, or at least say they are. Liberal men are concerned that women and children are cared for because they are promiscuous and so have no idea who their children are, so they want children generally cared for. It's true that contraception changes this practically, but it doesn't change the instinct. The promiscuous male instinct is to care about women and children, but not care about other men. The monogamous male instinct is to be part of a loyal male group and care for that group where each man has his wife. Of course the Liberal caring for children is also a kind of lie. Liberals only care that children are provided for, they don't really care what is in the child's best interest because that would be having both parents there to raise the child. Liberal men care about economic equality because they do not want to compete for women on the basis of how good a provider they are, but only based on their seduction skills. Economic freedom allows men to attract women as wives based on their ability to provide and this removes these women from the shared harem enjoyed by Liberal men. Of course Liberal women support economic equality because they want to be provided for.

tib

So a 40 year old woman who has slept with one man --her husband and he divorces her to marry a 25 year old is a slut?

I think your perception is that a woman is a virgin or a slut. As soon as she has sex, she becomes a slut. No woman will ever be a decent wife in your estimation.

He has a severe Madonna/Whore complex.

Women are sluts, but men are alphas? I hope when this guy dies, hopefully without ever procreating (or harming another person or animal), his brain can be examined for the many, many circus of issues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote: And, loser, a lot of people are "incel" a lot of the time without losing their ability to work, help others, and contribute to society. So funny that you see yourself as moral.

These people have some severe emotional and physical problems if incel doesn't bother them. Then again, you don't even know what incel is. You think it's being picky, because you were can't be incel as a woman.

And incels who are paying taxes are the worst kind of monsters in the world - how can they pay taxes to government which makes them incel in the first place via woman's suffrage/alimony/child support etc??

tib

you don't like child support either? what is your opinion about it exactly?

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/08/24/the-child-support-catastrophe/

You have to understand that child support actually benefits sluts, not children. What is best for the child isn't to receive child support but live with both parents. Child support laws also benefit male politicians, as they make women keep voting for them.

http://www.biblicjudaism.org/Liberalism-td105.html

Another Liberal lie is that Liberals support equality and are more caring. This lie can be seen in dating. The most egalitarian dating system is monogamy because then everyone gets a mate. Liberals hate monogamy and support promiscuity which is the most unequal mating system. With promiscuity, some men get many women and many men get no women. It is extreme reproductive and sexual inequality. Liberals support this system because it is immoral and selfish. But this also explains why Liberals are so concerned about women and children, or at least say they are. Liberal men are concerned that women and children are cared for because they are promiscuous and so have no idea who their children are, so they want children generally cared for. It's true that contraception changes this practically, but it doesn't change the instinct. The promiscuous male instinct is to care about women and children, but not care about other men. The monogamous male instinct is to be part of a loyal male group and care for that group where each man has his wife. Of course the Liberal caring for children is also a kind of lie. Liberals only care that children are provided for, they don't really care what is in the child's best interest because that would be having both parents there to raise the child. Liberal men care about economic equality because they do not want to compete for women on the basis of how good a provider they are, but only based on their seduction skills. Economic freedom allows men to attract women as wives based on their ability to provide and this removes these women from the shared harem enjoyed by Liberal men. Of course Liberal women support economic equality because they want to be provided for.

tib

So a 40 year old woman who has slept with one man --her husband and he divorces her to marry a 25 year old is a slut?

I think your perception is that a woman is a virgin or a slut. As soon as she has sex, she becomes a slut. No woman will ever be a decent wife in your estimation.

He has a severe Madonna/Whore complex.

Women are sluts, but men are alphas? I hope when this guy dies, hopefully without ever procreating (or harming another person or animal), his brain can be examined for the many, many circus of issues.

Yes, this the term I was searching for. I'm part Cuban so I see a much less severe form of this in how my male cousins regard their sisters vs. the girls they date.

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Nope, it's not their fault. It's your fault, and that is not child abuse. And your parents still help you out financially? What an ungrateful brat you are. Grow up dude. Stop being an infantile victim and be an adult - be responsible for your own self.

How is untreated phobia my fault?

tib

Because it's within you. Other people are not responsible for your phobias. I have a fear of heights - that's not my parents fault. I'm an adult. I am a grownup. I am responsible for fixing myself. You are responsible for fixing yourself. You are responsible for fixing your own phobias that are within you.

You are a fool. My phobia was my fault because it was (again, you don't even know the facts) within me? Is a three year old with cancer also responsible for it? It's within him.

How was I supposed to fix this?

tib

Therapy.

That is nonsense. I won't even mention the reasons why, and idiot could understand that you can't cure a phobia like that without RL action/supervision. It's just your dumb liberal cult, really. You turned therapy into a cure for every problem on the planet. Sick.

[Anonymous]

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Nope, it's not their fault. It's your fault, and that is not child abuse. And your parents still help you out financially? What an ungrateful brat you are. Grow up dude. Stop being an infantile victim and be an adult - be responsible for your own self.

How is untreated phobia my fault?

tib

Because it's within you. Other people are not responsible for your phobias. I have a fear of heights - that's not my parents fault. I'm an adult. I am a grownup. I am responsible for fixing myself. You are responsible for fixing yourself. You are responsible for fixing your own phobias that are within you.

You are a fool. My phobia was my fault because it was (again, you don't even know the facts) within me? Is a three year old with cancer also responsible for it? It's within him.

How was I supposed to fix this?

tib

Therapy.

That is nonsense. I won't even mention the reasons why, and idiot could understand that you can't cure a phobia like that without RL action/supervision. It's just your dumb liberal cult, really. You turned therapy into a cure for every problem on the planet. Sick.

I agree that you need supervision. Can you provide your full name and an address so that we can arrange that for you?

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Nope, it's not their fault. It's your fault, and that is not child abuse. And your parents still help you out financially? What an ungrateful brat you are. Grow up dude. Stop being an infantile victim and be an adult - be responsible for your own self.

How is untreated phobia my fault?

tib

Because it's within you. Other people are not responsible for your phobias. I have a fear of heights - that's not my parents fault. I'm an adult. I am a grownup. I am responsible for fixing myself. You are responsible for fixing yourself. You are responsible for fixing your own phobias that are within you.

You are a fool. My phobia was my fault because it was (again, you don't even know the facts) within me? Is a three year old with cancer also responsible for it? It's within him.

How was I supposed to fix this?

tib

Therapy.

That is nonsense. I won't even mention the reasons why, and idiot could understand that you can't cure a phobia like that without RL action/supervision. It's just your dumb liberal cult, really. You turned therapy into a cure for every problem on the planet. Sick.

I agree that you need supervision. Can you provide your full name and an address so that we can arrange that for you?

I was talking about supervision being needed to beat LS, which I no longer have anyway. As for what you're saying, I will give you my full name and address if you pass my test.

tib

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Anonymous wrote:Women are sluts, but men are alphas? I hope when this guy dies, hopefully without ever procreating (or harming another person or animal), his brain can be examined for the many, many circus of issues.

You're an idiot. If somebody explains this stupid cunt who I think the most successful men are and what my opinion is he/she gets my full dox.

tib

You complain about other people name-calling you, but you call people idiots and "stupid cunts."

You complain about nobody having empathy for you, but have none for others.

You complain about people not doing anything for you, but you refuse it (therapy) because it's not the help you think you need.

You complain about people not doing anything for you, but you have offered nothing that you do or give to others.

You complain about your parents "abusing" you because you think your phobias are their fault, but you do nothing with the money they give you except concoct a manufactured victimhood and complain on the internet.

You complain about not having enough money, but yet you refuse to work.

You sir, need to grow the fuck up. Simple as that. Grow the fuck up. And learning to be a grownup is not your parents fault. It's not the fault of men or women, Western or otherwise, liberal or otherwise. It's YOUR responsibility to grow up, instead of being a Peter Pan brat of a pretend victim. You are capable of making your own choices and fixing yourself. If you refuse, you have no one to blame but yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So a 40 year old woman who has slept with one man --her husband and he divorces her to marry a 25 year old is a slut?

I think your perception is that a woman is a virgin or a slut. As soon as she has sex, she becomes a slut. No woman will ever be a decent wife in your estimation.

Most divorces are filed by women. Your example doesn't describe a slut but such examples are rare in modern society. Most women, especially younger ones, are too vapid to even maintain relationships, let alone get married. Scumbag omegas tolerate them just long enough to impregnate them.

You are wrong about my estimation. If premarital chastity for women didn't have sound reasons for it, like making it less likely for women to want extramarital sex or being a natural desire of men I wouldn't be in favor of it.

tib

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So a 40 year old woman who has slept with one man --her husband and he divorces her to marry a 25 year old is a slut?

I think your perception is that a woman is a virgin or a slut. As soon as she has sex, she becomes a slut. No woman will ever be a decent wife in your estimation.

Most divorces are filed by women. Your example doesn't describe a slut but such examples are rare in modern society. Most women, especially younger ones, are too vapid to even maintain relationships, let alone get married. Scumbag omegas tolerate them just long enough to impregnate them.

You are wrong about my estimation. If premarital chastity for women didn't have sound reasons for it, like making it less likely for women to want extramarital sex or being a natural desire of men I wouldn't be in favor of it.

tib

How do you reason that premarital female chastity would result in fewer women wanting extramarital sex?

And if men don't want women engaging in sex before marriage, they can simply stop sleeping with unmarried women.

[Anonymous]

"Who said that I do not support treatment for ALL mentally ill people? LS included?

What do you think the best course of treatment for LS is? What specific treatments would have helped you?"

What is 'LS'? I couldn't tell from context.

[Anonymous]

this is s a stupid thread, let it die

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Who said that I do not support treatment for ALL mentally ill people? LS included?

What do you think the best course of treatment for LS is? What specific treatments would have helped you?"

What is 'LS'? I couldn't tell from context.

http://thatincelblogger.wordpress.com/what-is-love-shyness/

Just to clarify - I stopped being LS in 2011 but by that time it was already much too late.

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In scanning the coverage of the horrible tragedy in Isla Vista, I came across an incel blog http://thatincelblogger.wordpress.com/2014/05/25/elliot-rodger-and-a-note-for-new-arrivals/

Much of it was weird and/or sad, but by this paragraph, I was really freaked out:
"What happened is punishment for evil and violence of feminists and liberals. Any of you supporting atrocities like women’s suffrage, immodest clothing, child support/alimony, no ban on adultery, ban on prostitution and a lack of female premarital chastity, all the things that drove this young man to be unable to find a girlfriend, are disgusting , horrible people and you created a culture where this is possible. Renounce these horrors now. It is a decent thing to do. It will make you healthy and sane again. It will make the world healthy and sane again."

Somewhere in America is at least one supposedly normal-appearing man who believes that it is an atrocity for women to vote, men to help support their children, and women to have sex before marriage. An atrocity.

Elliot Rodgers is the tip of the iceberg.

Will we sound an alarm?

In high school, I read a novel in which America's largest population group was angry young men forced to become celibate because of gender imbalance. One of the impacts was that all young women had to serve a term of state-sponsored prostitution. I remember thinking this could never happen. No one would ever want this to happen.

I was wrong.

I'm a registered Independent who largely leans Democrat. I've been lukewarmly committed to voting for HRC in 2016 if she runs. Now, I think that I am going to vote and campaign for whichever Democrat runs who seems least like to appease women-haters.

I have not nor will not read that shit....why would you??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:this is s a stupid thread, let it die

Yes, please. This piece of shit is loving all the attention and there's no reasoning with crazy. I'm actually surprised this thread has been allowed to continue when much milder posts have been deleted for being offensive before.

[Anonymous]

So, "people" who support feminism/women's suffrage/child support/alimony etc, which results in destruction of all decent people, are calling me names? Wow...

tib

[Anonymous]

I'm new to this thread. People who are tired of this thread can just leave. I'm eternally optimistic, I suppose.

Tib, although I think your worldview is fundamentally flawed, I think the vast majority of people on here, and obviously IRL do not in fact understand where you are coming from at all. They did not experience what you experienced while growing up and they are having difficulty understanding why it isn't easy for you to "just change."

But what you are asking for is more than just empathy. You are in the minority in terms of how your personal qualities have made things so difficult for you in terms of finding a mate. The status quo works pretty well for a lot of people - most people, in fact. So you want the whole world to change to suit you. Is that reasonable?