I love how no-one is engaging with the point about the surplus of stem applicants. |
I can see reading comprehension is not your strong point. Nowhere did it state that. My 1500/3.99UW, got WL at 2 Top30 schools, Deferred then rejected at their ED1/T10, and accepted at 3 with excellent merit in the 30-50 range and got "go overseas first year at a T60 know for those programs" during a year it had single digit admissions. But they are happy, because they had excellent Target schools and Safety schools, and seriously considered their top safety (ranked in 60s) up until the very end. They recognized that reaches are exactly that---a reach. They got into all their targets and safeties. They will go far in life because of their drive and motivation and that exists no matter where they actually attend college. Note: they are surrounded by equally smart kids, some who got into T25 schools and choose this one instead (and trust me, it's for the school itself because the location is not an attraction). Btw, my kid who got ~1300SAT did not even think of T20 schools because that is not the place for them. They got into a T100 school, graduated, got an amazing job and is excelling at life, despite not having a 1550+ on their SAT. |
who was your kid's tutor? |
+1 But apparently many parents of 1550+ have issues with this. I feel for their kids, because if they were truly "that smart" they would be capable of recognizing that their kid will excel wherever they go with the right attitude. It's actually easier to be a star at a 25-50 school where not everyone is "1550+/3.99UW/15+Aps". However at those schools there are still plenty who meet that criteria---my kid got into 3 schools in the 30-50 range, is attending one and all of them are filled with "T25 rejects" or "T25 admitted who chose the best fit for them or in a few cases the most merit" Your kid will still be surrounded with highly motivated smart kids at those schools. In fact they might be a better fit for many if you would just open your eyes and look at more than just rankings. |
I am so tired of test prep being a replacement for intelligence and capability.
x10000 It depends on the parents. If I see a kid whose parents are not ivy +/- material, and the kid gets into an ivy +/- then the whole thing looks suspicious to me. |
But you think that is how it works, and it really is not - and I will not explain it to you. |
+1 |
+1000 I have one kid who would not have attended college if we lived there. Yet, they are 3 years out of a T100 college, very happy, 3 years into an excellent job at a great company and most importantly enjoying life and fully independent. Many kids do not hit their stride until HS/college, certainly not at age 12. |
But you keep asking the same question and PP's keep trying to tell you that you are comparing apples and oranges. Look up what the expression means, if you do not understand it. You are simply not making a viable argument. |
+1 Same reason Chinese people leave China. But they were misinformed that "take this test, get into Harvard." That is not how it works. |
Agree. But some people think that the status quo is supposedly "keeping their kid out". Colleges simply can not have all of one kind in their schools. Plain and simple. There are too many people. Period. We are becoming China. |
It's much easier to scapegoat Black and Brown applicants than to admit your kid decided to compete for a slot in the most competitive major, when slots are capped. |
+1 Not to mention, how much "transparency" does China have?? GTFOH. |
She sounds like a privileged kid whose parents have done everything for her, and failed to teach basic life skills. Parents made sure she focused on test taking skills but neglected to teach anything else. I mean I attended a T10 school and my best friend had to be taught how to pump gas (and easily learned) because they had never driven outside of NJ where they lived and in NJ it's illegal to pump your own gas. So at age 20 when I had a car at school, they learned how to pump gas. More a situation where they had never had a need to do it. But they learned quickly once shown. |
+1 THe 25-50 range is filled with T25 rejects and some who smartly chose "fit over ranking". People need to realize there are smart kids at all schools in the T200 and in the T30-60 there are A LOT of really smart kids, because that is where those who get rejected from T25 go. It is easier to be a star/get research positions/work with Profs at a 25-50 school where only 25-40% are T25 candidates and the rest are "just below". Parent need to reset their expectations and realize rankings mean little---the advantages for attending an elite school are largely for the disadvantaged, if you are already T1-5% your kid still has those advantages/connections no matter where they go. |