DH rarely wants sex

[Anonymous]

Any other women out there who have the opposite problem of most of the men on this board? I would like to have sex more often but my husband isn't that interested. I know for a 100% fact that he isn't cheating. He just has a low sex drive. We generally have sex once a week, if that, and i almost always have to initiate. He certainly enjoys it when we do and almost always says yes when I ask, but come on. What woman doesn't want to be pursued every now and then?

[Anonymous]

No advice here, OP. My DH is pretty much he same way, except the frequency is something like 3x/month.

[Anonymous]

The combination of sheer nylon and patent leather will do wonders- he'll be after you like a teenager.

[Anonymous]

How old?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old?

He is 42. I'm 35.

[Anonymous]

I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.

[Anonymous]

Was he always like this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.

Nonsense. He's just tired of seeing her naked and/or fucking her.

[Anonymous]

My DH is like this. And to the person who asked about exercise, my DH is an athlete so that's not the case.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.

Yeah he is a little overweight (like 20 lbs) and he has not been exercising much lately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Any other women out there who have the opposite problem of most of the men on this board? I would like to have sex more often but my husband isn't that interested. I know for a 100% fact that he isn't cheating. He just has a low sex drive. We generally have sex once a week, if that, and i almost always have to initiate. He certainly enjoys it when we do and almost always says yes when I ask, but come on. What woman doesn't want to be pursued every now and then?

Same boat. It's a total bummer. I flirt with other men to "fill my tank."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.

My DH was like that in his early 30s. It's not that rare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.

Nonsense. He's just tired of seeing her naked and/or fucking her.

No man tires of that, unless he's a latent homosexual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.

My DH was like that in his early 30s. It's not that rare.

EARLY 30s????!!! Did he ever pick it back up again?

[Anonymous]

My DH has been like this since we met at 21.

We're very happy though because our compromise is that the weekly sex is super hot and awesome. I can occupy myself the other times I want it more often.