Sure but the SAT is a money making institute and they don't care. |
It's not an IQ test. |
No, I don’t think anybody should It......a test is a test. When did this absurdity start? |
Got any direct evidence that it’s supposed to measure processing speed? |
| I’m reminded of a study that revealed that 90% of college professors thought they were above average. I think 100% of parents think their child is above average but they aren’t and fighting for all of these absurd accommodations is just going to set these kids up for disappointment and failure in college and the workplace. |
Then you don’t know either of these diseases bc having to urgently go to the bathroom multiple times in an hour or several hours is not “having a bad day.” It’s what life can be like 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 12 months a year for many with Crohn’s or UC. Plus several more pretty awful and painful symptoms but those would not need accommodations. |
I am the person who wrote the post about my child above. I have zero issues with everyone having an untimed test. “U” keep posting this over and over and it has nothing to do with my post. I’m taking issue with ranting about “unfairness”. I think these people have no idea what it feels like to be dealt an unfair hand. They don’t know what it feels like to watch an entire preschool class lap your child developmentally. They don’t know what it feels like when someone asks your four year old a simple question like how old he is and there’s a lump in your throat because you know he won’t understand the question. They won’t understand that when he finally gets the question correctly it is because your husband spent 2 hours with him trying to help him understand. That every verbal interaction I have with him, I’m thinking about how I could make it more therapeutic for him. I’m so grateful that these accommodations exist and I hope they are still in place by the time he needs to take these tests. |
| Whoever the "u" poster is, I am having a hard time taking you remotely seriously because "u" sound so incoherent. |
I have sympathy for you but I also realize that not every child has equal intelligence or processing speed. Why do you think your handicapped child deserves special treatment and where does it end? |
NP +1 More importantly, why do you think your low-processing-speed-kid-who-can't-understand-a-question-when-someone-asks-him should get a non-low SAT score? What does the SAT score mean to you? It honestly sounds like you're ashamed of him, want to keep up appearances, etc. It's one thing saying that my kid struggles, needs some extra support in class, please don't let the teacher lob him questions in front of the other kids while in the "learning" (versus "testing") part of school. I support that 100%. But not sure why you're so desperate for your kid to get an SAT score that he can't get according to the rules of the test. I'd be so furious if I hired someone based on GPA and test scores and it turned out that they needed triple the time as anyone else to do (or even understand) a task and only got their results (whether good or just average) through accommodations. |
+1, in K and First, we were at a private and very lucky as the teachers would give us work in advanced so we could read and go over anything that had to be answered verbally as our struggled to answer the basic questions, including how are you. At age 4, mine was barely talking. We spent every day in therapies... every day. Imagine what that cost. Imagine having to quit your job (which I gladly did) because someone had to drive and your income could not cover a nanny. Those are some of our realities. And, yet, people on here (and our school) begrudge a child like ours who just needs a bit more support and attention. Yes, people are gaming the system. But, some of us are just trying to survive a system that the only way to "win" is to game it and many of us are out of energy and resources to fight it. |
Be grateful you don't have kids like ours as you'd never do the things many of us have done as you sound very selfish. Lucky for some of us we do have the kids we do as despite their struggles they are the best thing that ever could happen to us. |
DP. The College Board has had this process in place for nearly 2 decades. Why do you think everything should stop just because your kid is rounding the corner on college applications and is looking too mediocre for the top schools? Do you realize that nearly all the kids who are beating him don’t have accommodations? |
Lol I was the kid with tourettes who was nearly made by the college board to test in a gym with 100 other kids. I was denied accommodations the first time (just putting myself in a separate room, no extra time). There was no way I would have made it through a regular session without being kicked out (picture lots of shrieking and foot stomping. Ridiculous. |
So... you just asked “why do I think my handicapped child deserves special treatment”? He deserves special treatment because he has special challenges that your child does not. If he is going to succeed academically, he needs extra support. Your child doesn’t need that support and should easily be able to test just as well as my child. And by the way, my child does not have slow processing speed or lesser intelligence- please don’t conflate disability in this fashion. It’s very ignorant. He is not mediocre in any way and works so hard to overcome his challenges- I’m so proud of him every day. He is 4 and not trying to boost a college application. I. Your kid will “beat” my kid three times a day and twice on Sunday- don’t worry about it. Despite the grim future in the “retarded” room that you think my kid deserves, I know my child has potential, and I’m just trying to make sure my kid has a chance at a bright future too. |