Really freaked out after reading an "Incel" blog

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And they are "monsters" because they didn't?? wtf

Read the context on my blogpost from around January 1, 2014.

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
You do understand that sane males do not do this.

Are you aware of the context? If you are tell me what it was?

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: And, loser, a lot of people are "incel" a lot of the time without losing their ability to work, help others, and contribute to society. So funny that you see yourself as moral.

These people have some severe emotional and physical problems if incel doesn't bother them. Then again, you don't even know what incel is. You think it's being picky, because you were can't be incel as a woman.

And incels who are paying taxes are the worst kind of monsters in the world - how can they pay taxes to government which makes them incel in the first place via woman's suffrage/alimony/child support etc??

tib

you don't like child support either? what is your opinion about it exactly?

[Anonymous]

As entertaining as this has been, I'm going to spend some time with my wife and daughter on this beautiful day. I'm sure tib will view them as oppressive and me as a sellout, but hey - we love each other and love spending time together. So, I win.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's not "moral" to denigrate half the human race.

He also stated he'd rape a woman if he could get away with it. And he feels sadness that he didn't kill "The Fatal One". That he calls himself moral is astounding.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Moron above, no. I never wanted that. This was asked many years later, when it was already too late. I mentioned what could have helped me? So why do you support killing?

tib

Killing? What the fuck are you talking about? Your meds need to be switched around.

You mean support your hope and dreams of 90% of the population being killed? No. I'm not a psychopath, Dr.

I am not on any meds nor will I ever be again (waste of time) but my question was why do you support LS children not being treated? This phobia leads to them not even being able to try anything and thus surely incel.

Btw, this person who asked about my parents and LS- I am no longer LS but by the time I have beaten it in 2011 it was too late. Darkness article explains why.

tib

Who said that I do not support treatment for ALL mentally ill people? LS included?

What do you think the best course of treatment for LS is? What specific treatments would have helped you?

Ok, so do you support my idea of how my parents could have helped me? It's mentioned here
http://thatincelblogger.wordpress.com/2013/12/30/love-shyness-1-my-experience-with-love-shyness/
tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
You do understand that sane males do not do this.

Are you aware of the context? If you are tell me what it was?

tib

There is no context in which it would be sane for a son to want to have sex with his mother.

I know nothing about the culture of Croatia, but I am pretty sure that they think incest is abhorrent. Your mother didn't raise you to think that you had a right to have sex with her if no one else would sleep with you.

I am sorry that you are so badly disturbed, but grateful that you won't father any children, especially daughters.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
Nope, it's not their fault. It's your fault, and that is not child abuse. And your parents still help you out financially? What an ungrateful brat you are. Grow up dude. Stop being an infantile victim and be an adult - be responsible for your own self.

How is untreated phobia my fault?

tib

Because it's within you. Other people are not responsible for your phobias. I have a fear of heights - that's not my parents fault. I'm an adult. I am a grownup. I am responsible for fixing myself. You are responsible for fixing yourself. You are responsible for fixing your own phobias that are within you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: And, loser, a lot of people are "incel" a lot of the time without losing their ability to work, help others, and contribute to society. So funny that you see yourself as moral.

These people have some severe emotional and physical problems if incel doesn't bother them. Then again, you don't even know what incel is. You think it's being picky, because you were can't be incel as a woman.

And incels who are paying taxes are the worst kind of monsters in the world - how can they pay taxes to government which makes them incel in the first place via woman's suffrage/alimony/child support etc??

tib

you don't like child support either? what is your opinion about it exactly?

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/08/24/the-child-support-catastrophe/

You have to understand that child support actually benefits sluts, not children. What is best for the child isn't to receive child support but live with both parents. Child support laws also benefit male politicians, as they make women keep voting for them.

http://www.biblicjudaism.org/Liberalism-td105.html

Another Liberal lie is that Liberals support equality and are more caring. This lie can be seen in dating. The most egalitarian dating system is monogamy because then everyone gets a mate. Liberals hate monogamy and support promiscuity which is the most unequal mating system. With promiscuity, some men get many women and many men get no women. It is extreme reproductive and sexual inequality. Liberals support this system because it is immoral and selfish. But this also explains why Liberals are so concerned about women and children, or at least say they are. Liberal men are concerned that women and children are cared for because they are promiscuous and so have no idea who their children are, so they want children generally cared for. It's true that contraception changes this practically, but it doesn't change the instinct. The promiscuous male instinct is to care about women and children, but not care about other men. The monogamous male instinct is to be part of a loyal male group and care for that group where each man has his wife. Of course the Liberal caring for children is also a kind of lie. Liberals only care that children are provided for, they don't really care what is in the child's best interest because that would be having both parents there to raise the child. Liberal men care about economic equality because they do not want to compete for women on the basis of how good a provider they are, but only based on their seduction skills. Economic freedom allows men to attract women as wives based on their ability to provide and this removes these women from the shared harem enjoyed by Liberal men. Of course Liberal women support economic equality because they want to be provided for.

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Nope, it's not their fault. It's your fault, and that is not child abuse. And your parents still help you out financially? What an ungrateful brat you are. Grow up dude. Stop being an infantile victim and be an adult - be responsible for your own self.

How is untreated phobia my fault?

tib

Because it's within you. Other people are not responsible for your phobias. I have a fear of heights - that's not my parents fault. I'm an adult. I am a grownup. I am responsible for fixing myself. You are responsible for fixing yourself. You are responsible for fixing your own phobias that are within you.

You are a fool. My phobia was my fault because it was (again, you don't even know the facts) within me? Is a three year old with cancer also responsible for it? It's within him.

How was I supposed to fix this?

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no context in which it would be sane for a son to want to have sex with his mother.

I already explained I didn't really want it and as for context you are just being dogmatic, like any other liberal.

tib

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Seriously, think about your place in the world. You have a serious problem if you think you are striking out socially because everyone else can't see how awesome you are.

Imagine life where you are in a loving, committed relationship. Where your neighbors accept you and welcome you as part of the community. Where you come home to a loving family at the end of the day. You could have that if you stopped spinning adolescent failure into your entire world view, warped to make it seem like you are actually in the right and everyone else is in the wrong.

Well, I don't think this is possible. I think there are only some isolated groups of decent men who might enter relationships in the West

a) rich people
b) members of good religions, like Amish or Hasidic Jews
c) very lucky people
d) some other rare reasons

I belong to none of these so I'll never get a woman.
Think about it. It's not as hard as you think to fit in and be loved.

I'm Catholic. The mid-morning Mass today (urban parish) was filled with regular guys, their wives, and children. Happy and proud. Singing (some a bit off key). Handing the kids money for the collection basket and promising a dollar for the bake sale after. Standing around after chatting with other families before heading off to brunch or a little outdoor time. Are all those men just really lucky?


You do understand that these four groups described decent men only? Maybe they're not decent?

I live in a Catholic country and I hate Christianity altogether. First, it's based on belief in a supernatural being, which doesn't suit me at all as a non-theist. Plus it doesn't have tight communities which do matchmaking, doesn't have a dress code and doesn't separate men and women outside of families. But some sects like Mormons might be ok.

So, I don't know the answer to your question because I don't know if they're decent.

tib

I think you are confusing Mormons with fundamentalist cults that broke off from Mormonism. However, you wouldn't like those cults either because they cast 70% of their young men out (lostboys) so that a select few old men can marry their 12th wife.

I don't know that much about Mormons but they have a low enough divorce rate

tib

I think that you need to get off the incel sites and try just reading about different cultures. Mormons don't have a dress code outside of missionaries and a few religious schools. Nor are single men and women discouraged from interacting outside of marriage. Most young Mormons I know have a more active dating life than the twenty and thirty something Catholics and Jews I know.

Even the Duggars don't do what you want.

You're an idiot. I mentioned what Christians (including Mormons) DON'T HAVE (hint - things you mentioned) and said that Mormons might be ok DESPITE OF THIS.

I based this on their relatively low divorce rate.

tib

tib, you really should research the Mormons. Turns out that their divorce rate isn't as good as you think:
this table from the Centers for Disease Control indicates that Utah’s divorce rate for 2011 was 3.7 (per 1,000 people), which is higher than 20 other states and the District of Columbia.
http://agellius.wordpress.com/2013/09/02/comparing-mormon-and-catholic-divorce-rates/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Nope, it's not their fault. It's your fault, and that is not child abuse. And your parents still help you out financially? What an ungrateful brat you are. Grow up dude. Stop being an infantile victim and be an adult - be responsible for your own self.

How is untreated phobia my fault?

tib

Because it's within you. Other people are not responsible for your phobias. I have a fear of heights - that's not my parents fault. I'm an adult. I am a grownup. I am responsible for fixing myself. You are responsible for fixing yourself. You are responsible for fixing your own phobias that are within you.

You are a fool. My phobia was my fault because it was (again, you don't even know the facts) within me? Is a three year old with cancer also responsible for it? It's within him.

How was I supposed to fix this?

tib

You figure it out when you get older. Let me ask you this - what in your life do you think you're responsible for? Do you take ownership of anything in your life? Any of your issues?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Nope, it's not their fault. It's your fault, and that is not child abuse. And your parents still help you out financially? What an ungrateful brat you are. Grow up dude. Stop being an infantile victim and be an adult - be responsible for your own self.

How is untreated phobia my fault?

tib

Because it's within you. Other people are not responsible for your phobias. I have a fear of heights - that's not my parents fault. I'm an adult. I am a grownup. I am responsible for fixing myself. You are responsible for fixing yourself. You are responsible for fixing your own phobias that are within you.

You are a fool. My phobia was my fault because it was (again, you don't even know the facts) within me? Is a three year old with cancer also responsible for it? It's within him.

How was I supposed to fix this?

tib

Therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: And, loser, a lot of people are "incel" a lot of the time without losing their ability to work, help others, and contribute to society. So funny that you see yourself as moral.

These people have some severe emotional and physical problems if incel doesn't bother them. Then again, you don't even know what incel is. You think it's being picky, because you were can't be incel as a woman.

And incels who are paying taxes are the worst kind of monsters in the world - how can they pay taxes to government which makes them incel in the first place via woman's suffrage/alimony/child support etc??

tib

you don't like child support either? what is your opinion about it exactly?

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/08/24/the-child-support-catastrophe/

You have to understand that child support actually benefits sluts, not children. What is best for the child isn't to receive child support but live with both parents. Child support laws also benefit male politicians, as they make women keep voting for them.

http://www.biblicjudaism.org/Liberalism-td105.html

Another Liberal lie is that Liberals support equality and are more caring. This lie can be seen in dating. The most egalitarian dating system is monogamy because then everyone gets a mate. Liberals hate monogamy and support promiscuity which is the most unequal mating system. With promiscuity, some men get many women and many men get no women. It is extreme reproductive and sexual inequality. Liberals support this system because it is immoral and selfish. But this also explains why Liberals are so concerned about women and children, or at least say they are. Liberal men are concerned that women and children are cared for because they are promiscuous and so have no idea who their children are, so they want children generally cared for. It's true that contraception changes this practically, but it doesn't change the instinct. The promiscuous male instinct is to care about women and children, but not care about other men. The monogamous male instinct is to be part of a loyal male group and care for that group where each man has his wife. Of course the Liberal caring for children is also a kind of lie. Liberals only care that children are provided for, they don't really care what is in the child's best interest because that would be having both parents there to raise the child. Liberal men care about economic equality because they do not want to compete for women on the basis of how good a provider they are, but only based on their seduction skills. Economic freedom allows men to attract women as wives based on their ability to provide and this removes these women from the shared harem enjoyed by Liberal men. Of course Liberal women support economic equality because they want to be provided for.

tib

So a 40 year old woman who has slept with one man --her husband and he divorces her to marry a 25 year old is a slut?

I think your perception is that a woman is a virgin or a slut. As soon as she has sex, she becomes a slut. No woman will ever be a decent wife in your estimation.