If you're seriously asking: I truly believe it's the same reason numerous others have said. They are politicians at the end of the day and getting your vote matters to them as most hope to advance upwards. It is no secret Melanie Meren is in this category. She will back any cause that helps her gain votes. The other democratic schoolboard members with similar personal agendas will as well. As another poster put, they would back a pink website font if enough people aligned with their party complained about it. As other have wrote, affordability is a hot topic with democrats. Seeing as Fairfax County's demographic is largely democratic, this is an easy cause for democratic schoolboard members to promote that appeals to a mass amount of their voters. I think the deciding factor will be if they actually do anything about it, which as a member of the FCPS community for the better part of three decades, I have my doubts. As the old adage goes, actions are louder than words. |
There is also no requirement for them to make your child's expenses outside of school cheaper. Virtue is based on morals. We're talking about politicians here... |
FCPS is all lip service....I'm just over it |
I'm so happy your husband can afford to pay your nanny. |
| I’m old enough to remember the BC (Before Covid) era when the people screeching “YOUR child is YOUR responsibility!!!!!1” were all conservative Republicans. And they were using that argument to argue against expanded pre-K … because they don’t want big bad gub-mint involved with raising little kids! |
Wow, so you're 6 years old? You definitely sound like a little kid. |
I’m a parent and that isn’t the witty comeback that you think it is. |
You sound very out of touch. You know most people that are struggling have already done all of these things, right, sweetie? How much does your husband make again? |
My wife and I pay child care for three kids. Both work full time. I almost six figures pretax and my wife makes less than 50k pretax. We factor childcare expenses into our budget at the beginning of the school year and put that money in a separate account each paycheck. We utilize the school calendar to know what random days we’ll need extra care and factor in 11 days extra for each of the potential snow days. If we don’t have the snow days, we put the excess money towards our family vacation in the summer. We’re not rich by any means for this area, but we make it work. Some years we have more money left over, some we have less. Some months we eat out more, some months we eat out less. We chose to have 3 kids and their wellbeing comes first. The last thing we’re going to do is consider them or their needs a financial burden. It’s just part of being their parents. |
The harsh reality is that most people have not done all of these things. |
So what would you do with an extra $5000 this year? Presumably, as good parents, it would go to help your kids, right? What is it that an erratic calendar does that is worth $5000 to you? |
| Other than people who just don’t seem to want to improve things, who is it that loses in a rational calendar year? Because for all the praise of “extra rest for high school students” I haven’t seen any advocacy for adding days off. Who are you all trying to save here? |
I mean it’s the usual suspects on here. There are teachers and Gatehouse staff on here. They hate parents, students, the school board, other teachers and staff, and basically everyone. They reflexively come out against anything parents want. Parents want fewer random days off and no more 3 hour early releases - therefore the random days and the 3 hour early releases must be good things that must be kept. People I don’t like want to change these things, therefore they must be good and I must fight to keep them. And of course, not all teachers, there are many (even some who post here) who don’t like the current calendar and who feel that they are always playing chaotic catch-up especially in the winter. I’ve read many helpful teacher posts on here. I’ve also read a lot of reflexive hate for both parents and the students they are supposed to teach … |
An extra $5000? Currently we’d put it towards a low cost starter car for our oldest. She’ll be getting her license soon and it would help us all if she had her own vehicle to drive. She already has a job she’s been saving money at for insurance, gas, and property taxes, but having her able to drive there herself and help with her siblings needs would be beneficial to herself and the whole family. |
So why is supporting an erratic calendar, and resisting any efforts for elected officials to be accountable to the priorities of their constituents more important than your oldest getting a car? |