Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

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I find them attractive. Past child rearing, usually empty nesters and while they may have hang ups about their not 30 year old bodies they are often amazing in bed.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

I didn't have abs when I was 25 because I wasn't eating right. Now at 53, I do. That's the main difference.

You may look better now at 53 than you did at 25, but you can’t hold a candle to a 25 year old who is in good shape. Doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive at all, it just means younger men are more attractive.

Good news for me, at 53, is that there aren't a lot of those 25-year-olds around. My 20-something coworkers, for example, are all skinnyfat. And they don't know how to dress well, either. Sad!

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

I didn't have abs when I was 25 because I wasn't eating right. Now at 53, I do. That's the main difference.

You may look better now at 53 than you did at 25, but you can’t hold a candle to a 25 year old who is in good shape. Doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive at all, it just means younger men are more attractive.

Good news for me, at 53, is that there aren't a lot of those 25-year-olds around. My 20-something coworkers, for example, are all skinnyfat. And they don't know how to dress well, either. Sad!

Yep. All the under-30 professional dudes I see on the street in Upper Northwest or on Metro are either twig bois or fatties.

[Anonymous]

No, past their prime and not all attractive. They start to look more like men and I'm not interested in men. I can't help how I feel. No longer able to reproduce and sex is not fun with women in their 50s. Just my opinion

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Anonymous wrote:Why do people always post pictures of celebrities when discussing aging? These pictures are taken by professionals, in ideal lighting and then retouched. I feel sorry for you women who try to compare yourselves with these photos. You'll always lose.

I've seen many celebrities in person (media job) and believe me, they don't look anything close to their public photos.

Ummmm... Some of us 50yo's don't look a hot mess. It's not always about "ideal lighting" and photos being retouched, we are actually out here looking GOOD. Stop hatin'.

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Anonymous wrote:No, past their prime and not all attractive. They start to look more like men and I'm not interested in men. I can't help how I feel. No longer able to reproduce and sex is not fun with women in their 50s. Just my opinion

You really needed to bump a six year old thread?

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Anonymous wrote:This thread goes to show that age =/= maturity.

How so?

Ugh, if you have to ask...let me guess, you’re one of those deluded old 50 year olds with a gut who thinks he’s in great shape and has his pick of mid 20’s and 30’s women.

Nope, but a lot of 50-year-old women are fat, or try to be old, or have taken an apparent vow of chastity, or just plain want to be left alone unless you can convince them otherwise. You know, by being a rich doctor. That's them choosing to be single.

And this post shows how much you hate women. In addition to being immature. No one is impressed by you, buddy. Pathetic.

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Anonymous wrote:61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause.

Neither do the men.

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Anonymous wrote:Why do people always post pictures of celebrities when discussing aging? These pictures are taken by professionals, in ideal lighting and then retouched. I feel sorry for you women who try to compare yourselves with these photos. You'll always lose.

I've seen many celebrities in person (media job) and believe me, they don't look anything close to their public photos.

I had a client who was a news anchor and it was amazing how different she looked on tv vs in real life. On tv she was easily a 9, in person she was maybe a 6.

I once saw Cheryl Tiegs in real life. She is a good looking woman but nothing like you see in photo shoots. Like the news anchor, they have lighting, makeup, and certain profiles they use. Also, some people are naturally photogenic.

She always looked really old to me.

I saw christy turlington on the express train at union station and she had no make up on and probably the most stunning celebrity I’ve ever seen in real life.

[Anonymous]

I'm a younger woman (under 30), and the fact that this question is even posted saddens me. You never see men asking this question. Most women AND men peak in attractiveness in their 20s/30s. Everyone ages, some a bit better than others-- usually money helps.

This question is also odd to me as many of my friends' parents divorced and remarried in their 40s & 50s. I've almost never seen a couple marry or date outside of their age bracket. One of my friends' dad married someone 20 years his junior; she's closer to his daughter's age. I've met him many times and he's a creep... always freaked me out in high school.

Ladies just stop asking this question and looking so desperate. There's plenty of men interested in 50 y/o women. What's unattractive is desperation and looking for confirmation that you're still attractive. If you're ever insecure, just hop on a dating app (if single of course) and see how many men message you. Christ, even go on a p*** website and see how much MILF content is out there.

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Anonymous wrote:61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause.

Neither do the men.

Sorry, but as a woman in my 40s I date men in my 40s. When I turn 50, then I'll date 50s. I won't be dating 60s men even when I'm 60, even if I end up single. It's not a bad option for a woman to be single in her 60-70s, as long as her retirement is fully funded. I expect to travel and enjoy life, not waste my time with someone boring who is still unsure what he's looking for in his 60s

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a younger woman (under 30), and the fact that this question is even posted saddens me. You never see men asking this question. Most women AND men peak in attractiveness in their 20s/30s. Everyone ages, some a bit better than others-- usually money helps.

This question is also odd to me as many of my friends' parents divorced and remarried in their 40s & 50s. I've almost never seen a couple marry or date outside of their age bracket. One of my friends' dad married someone 20 years his junior; she's closer to his daughter's age. I've met him many times and he's a creep... always freaked me out in high school.

Ladies just stop asking this question and looking so desperate. There's plenty of men interested in 50 y/o women. What's unattractive is desperation and looking for confirmation that you're still attractive. If you're ever insecure, just hop on a dating app (if single of course) and see how many men message you. Christ, even go on a p*** website and see how much MILF content is out there.

Yes to all of this

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Anonymous wrote:61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause.

Neither do the men.

Sorry, but as a woman in my 40s I date men in my 40s. When I turn 50, then I'll date 50s. I won't be dating 60s men even when I'm 60, even if I end up single. It's not a bad option for a woman to be single in her 60-70s, as long as her retirement is fully funded. I expect to travel and enjoy life, not waste my time with someone boring who is still unsure what he's looking for in his 60s

Who funded your retirement ?

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Anonymous wrote:61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause.

Neither do the men.

Sorry, but as a woman in my 40s I date men in my 40s. When I turn 50, then I'll date 50s. I won't be dating 60s men even when I'm 60, even if I end up single. It's not a bad option for a woman to be single in her 60-70s, as long as her retirement is fully funded. I expect to travel and enjoy life, not waste my time with someone boring who is still unsure what he's looking for in his 60s

Who funded your retirement ?

My job

[Anonymous]

I’m guy in 50s, and dating 50s woman now. She is wonderful ( we both have lotta choices).

I am in good shape, pretty high sex drive so look for the same at any age. Dated a lot younger, and up to my age.

The person, is the person, when you know, you know, and if you cut out age groups, you limit yourself.