If you are in the late 30-40's age range with young kids do you look your age?
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Anonymous
| I am 43 with a 2 yo. People think I am very late 20's-early 30's. What about you? |
Anonymous
| I'm 37, and generally people think I look younger. I have a baby face, and it turns out that oily skin is good for avoiding wrinkles! Plus, I smile a lot, which I think really helps. |
Anonymous
| I'm 37 and my two youngest are in elementary school. Some think I'm in my early 30's and are surprised to find out I'm not, but I think I just look good for my age rather than young for it. |
Anonymous
| I am 41 and I have a 6yo. I think I look ancient and like things are falling apart, but most people are shocked when they hear I am over 40. I think it's because maybe I dress sloppily and younger. Blush. I think they think I am about 35 or so? (?) |
Anonymous
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Well, someone once asked if my 2 year old was my kid or grandkid (I'm 38!). But she was 12, so I think everyone looks old to her.
People don't generally guess my age though-I'm curious how that comes up. |
Anonymous
+1 for all except I'm 41 |
Anonymous
For me ( I am the 41 yo poster just above you), it came up recently when I had my bday. At work, this one lady brings in homemade cakes whenever anyone has a bday, so we generally now if it's someone's bday or not. This one guy asked me, "Ok, which one is it?" and I cringed and said, "Forty one????" and he was in shock. But again, I think maybe it's bc I dress sloppily and don't seem like I have it all together like you would expect a 41 to. 
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Anonymous
| Everyone DCUM thinks they look 10-20 years younger. When will people learn that saying "OMG you look so much younger" or "O wow I thought you were ____ (enter an age 7 years below the age they know you are)" are COMMON courtesy compliments and truly mean nothing. Its another way of saying you looking great. Sorry to break your bubble but people don't think you are 31 when you are 44, they just don't. |
Anonymous
Good point!! That is probably the case with me! Signed, Slobby 41yo |
Anonymous
| I'm 33 with a 2 yr old and I'm more concerned that I feel like I'm at least 50. |
Anonymous
| I'm 38 with kids who are 4 and 6. People are usually surprised to hear that I'm late 30's- most seem to think early 30's is more accurate. That's because I'm not a sophisticated dresser and more importantly, I'm Asian and have aged well with no gray hairs or wrinkles (I suffered from pretty bad acne as a teen/young adult and used retinols for the acne). |
Anonymous
| No. I used to look younger than I was before having kids. Now all those sleepless nights and temper tantrums have left me looking 20 years older. |
Anonymous
| I'm 36 y.o. with an infant, and I get told constantly that I look younger than I am. I don't think it's meant as a compliment, though, since it's often people wondering whether I'm still in high school/college (e.g. are you old enough to be married/have kids). For me it generally comes off as offensive as opposed to complimentary. Not to mention, if I were actually that young, it would be completely offensive for someone to speculate as to whether it's okay for me to have a kid. |
Anonymous
+1. I always say someone looks younger even if they really don't. It's not like I'm going to say they look their age. I'm also of the camp that it's better to say something nice than to not say anything at all. |
Anonymous
I am late 30s with a 3 year old. Before I had him, people always thought I looked younger than my age. After I had him, not as much. haha. He aged me about 10 years. 
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